You could try to be spontanious. Surprise him about it. Try to start off by giving him a BJ. Also, you could try different locations. Go on a vacation. Maybe the problem is not because of the sex getting boring, but because there's a lot of stress going on. Some things need to get taken care of first before you even try to put sex in the picture. Role playing is also an option. Talk dirty to him all day long. He'll have it in his mind the whole day. Also, don't be shy to ask him what turns him on. Maybe there's something that you haven't done yet that he would love.

you want to blow his mind and have fun also dress up in a nice teddy and get on the bed make sure you have crotchless panties or no panties and insert a banana in your vagina aand ask him to eat it out. or get a hard boiled egg and learn to pop it out of your vagina to do this you get a condum and put the egg inside and use your PC muscles to push it out this will also make sex with him incredible now once you have mastered it you put in the hard boiled egg and go to him and ask him to hold out his hand and you put it between your leggs and pop out the egg into his hand. this will blow his mind You can do a chicken call just before to make it funny. Now you can buy those plastic easter egge that snap into abd you can write something special in it and plop it into his hand.

Tease him. Talk erotically to him. Tell what you are going to do before you do it. Take over, being the aggressor. Undress him, push him back on the bed or couch and caress him, only touching his cock occasionally. When he becomes desparate for you to do something with his cock, slowely lower your pussy onto him. Rub your pussy on him until you cum. But don't make him cum...... yet. Then you can give him a BJ or a hand job but again change to something else before he cums. Then climb back on board and make him cum. Play with his balls as you ride him. Someone mentioned playing with his prostate. See if he likes it but I could never get comfortable with it. A little anal play is fine for me but not penetration. See how far he will let you go. Ask him.

Let's start with the assumption that you love this man (which the others don't neccesarily seem to have done). The best answer then is a question: ASK HIM what he likes! I love a good blow job but would completely freak out if you tried to put something up my ass! Personally what turns me on most is a great kiss with some manual stimulation (if you know what I mean). You know exactly what turns you on the most, and so does your man!

Practice tantric sex. Tantric sex is when you have sex without ijjaculating. the male and female can have multiple orgasms without actually ijaculating, and the better you get at it the longer it can become, they say life is in the mans sieman, so everytime he bust a nut he looses some sexual energy, the longer he keeps it in him the more energy he has, you 2 should try it if u want and if he issist on busting then let him after a long long long long long while, Or if you want just deprive him for a few weeks or even longer or shorter but deprive him of it then suprise him with it them it will be like OH YEAH i havent in so long!!

Depends what hes into. My boyfriend and I talk dirty a whole lot, usually Im a little limited on what I know to say, but Im getting better at it. "yes!", "f me, baby! / f me harder!" and screaming/moaning their name tend to work real well. As well as any pounding/slamming type adjectives (pound youre cock into my pussy), you like that?, big cock talk (not if you both know hes less than average size though), do ___ to my pussy, those lines work well too. Once my bf said "you like my huge cock inside you, tearing up your insides?!" and I was a little taken aback but it was hot too. Guys like it if you take charge. The other day I jumped on my bf and ripped his pants off and we had some of the best sex ever. He also likes me to give direction in bed, saying things like "i want you to go down on me now" or saying things like you cant wait until he does ____ to you and you want it now. Build him up, tease him, wear lingerie, be on top. Dont over do it but dont feel held back either. Good luck and let me know if you want to run any ideas by me. He loves you and made a commitment to you, theres nothing to be afraid of and you should be able to step out of your comfort zones to make one another happy.