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  • Once. It ended very badly.
  • Yes, and we're still friends, but much more distant now, see each other at the bars...but he had a crush on me before i had a crush on him...and it took me 4 years to realize i had a crush on him...oopa...oh well...he's better off as a friend haha
  • Oh most definitely. She was my bestest friend from work. I tried to deny that I had any feelings for her mainly because she was a co worker and I thought it would be weird between us if it turned out she didn't like me back and also because I was almost 15 years older than her and thought she might find the age difference a bit creepy. Fortunately I was wrong on both counts. It turned out she liked me just as much as I did her and we had a wonderful nearly 2 year romance together. Toward the end we were engaged to be married. Unfortunately for me the wedding would never happen. I lost her shortly after we were engaged. It's been almost 3 years now and even to this day it is hard for me to accept that she is gone from my life . I keep looking around expecting her to walk in at any moment with her beautiful trademark smile. I am trying my best to move on because in my heart I know it would hurt her to know I was so sad over her loss. I think it is what she would want for me as hard as it can be to think about at times.
  • Yes and we are still together..20 years today!!!
  • Now. I don't see it ending well, for me anyway. Let me change that, I don't see it ending ideally for me.
  • yes and its weird at first but after a wile u get used to it.
  • Yes many years ago a best friend of mine had just had her first child. And her husband was no were to be found. He had more less jumped boat & left her alone. Only she was not really alone for many of us CB'er friends were there for her & the child. I helped her out in hard times. The best I could & she seen a different side of me. She became lonely & wanted to fill that empty part with me. I knew what she was going through a told her that what she was asking me to do would not cure the problem. But may only add more. And that only time would heal the pain. I also stated that "FRIENDS CAN BE FRIENDS BUT LOVERS MAY BECOME ENEMY'S". As time went on she grew stronger & made her way in life. Ten years later I fell into the same spot she had been in. And was shocked when she quoted to me what I had told her many years before. Friends can be friends, but lovers may become enemy's. I then realized that just maybe someone in this crazy world did listen to me for once. Dam the bad luck. No really we both went our ways & still remain Great Friends. There to help pick up one another in time of need. So EARTH ANGEL if you're reading this you know who I am. Let's hope it helps other's..........M.C.S.
  • yeah i had a crush on my best friend. she also has a crush on me even though she has a bf. odd i know lol
  • yes !! it was soo painful ahh !
  • lets see. 3 times. :D -the first im still madly in love with and wouldnt mind being with him forever but i know it wouldnt work. -the second i worked with and we discussed it and it just wouldnt have worked. now we are even closer after i left but i know nothing will happen. -and then, 3rd, he was my best friend for 3 years and then we dated for a year and the break up was HORRIBLE. cried for weeks. we are slowly forming our friendship back but its hard.
  • I had a crush on my best friend (also a girl), BUT I was only five, and we pretended like we french-kissed just for fun. (Yes, our tongues touched) I'm silly...
  • My best friend is the love of my life!!! I dated him for 2 years and then we didn't talk for 5 years but now we have an amazing friendship and I am just thankful to have him him my life!!!
  • yeah...in the past...but we both learned that we were better off as best friends and nothing more
  • Yes. But I've been sane enough to not let her know. Why? Because I've seen the wrecks of friendships that happened when a dude let her know.
  • yes. I think at one point in time we all have... but sadly it doesn't work out all that often for one reason or another. Sometimes you're too close of friends and that makes it more like family then anything, which for obvious reasons won't work... Best friends dating... been there, done that.
  • Yup. I married my best friend!
  • I did. It didn't end nicely
  • I do currently like my best guy friend. We've been friends for 5 years (we were 11 - I'm 16, he's about to be) and we kinda had one of those relationships where we didn't need to talk to each other all the time in order to be friends. I knew I could go to him with anything I needed at any given moment and he would be there for me. Lately, after we got back to being so close again, I've been having feelings for him. He's even told me that we as a couple are a possibility one day, and he wouldn't be surprised if it happened. We talk all day every day and I wouldn't trade our friendship for anything.
  • An unconventional best friend, for sure. It's the best kind of love. There are no disappointments, only surprises.
  • Oh yes....
  • I fell in love than he become my best friend.
  • Yes, I guess I did, but we became best friends because we liked each other so much and planned to marry.

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