If you narrow your criteria that much, you may not have much luck. Perhaps you should worry about finding the "right one" instead of the "pure one".

Cruise the Star Trek conventions.

Haha, good luck!! Not saying you won't find one, but chances are slim..

A 28 to 34 year old virgin probably isn't worth having. They've pasted their physical prime without having sex wich may indicate either with massive insecurities or no sense of adventure. Of course there may be highly religious men that might fit the bill, but the question stll remains "why aren't they married?"

That would probably be open to chance. If you look within certain religious groups, you may find one. Why does the man's sexual past matter? You aren't purchasing produce, and I should think you'd be more worried about his sexual present.

I am on of that small group. 28, from Croatia, U can send me a mail to pttrnrcgn@gmail.com

Good luck! If you find one let me know.

Trust me, you don't want to. Although it seems honorable for anyone expecially a man to remain a virgin there are some challenges to dating one if you yourself are not. First you must consider while they are sayin that it is a personal choice to save thenselves for someone special you have to consider they they are just unable to interact with women...they could be the wierd guy from high school, the annoying nerd from college, the strange one at the bar, consider that, they just may not be a likeable person. You also must know that an adult virgin has limited experience with the opposite sex in every way possible not just sexually. Generally speaking he is probably unable to communicte and share his feelings in a mature way. He is most likely very insecure about himself and will tend to act like a shoool boy when faced with dealing with relationship issues. He will be clingly and often will get his feeling hurt when normal disputes arise within the relationship because he has yet to learn how to interact with the opposite sex. Unless you yourself are an adult virgin trust me it is more troble than it is worth. Remenber back in high school if your boyfriend didn't call or if you saw him talking to another girl you cried all day and it was the end of the world. Well add 15 years and add 100 pounds to that and now picture that same behavior in a grown man...not sexy. It is very hard to date a man with no experience and not tend to see him as a pitiful child....trust me don't do it unless you are very patient and don't mind waiting for him to mature the 10 to 15 years that you already have.

Don't look. Just be yourself and let love find you. There are still women out there who would prefer a virgin male over an experienced one.

Thats admirable, but perhaps you should widen your criterium a bit...

What for? Cause there is less chance of getting a VD? It surely cant be because of purity, cause virginity in men is only a pre-puberty thing. After that its stupid to talk about it.

Blimey , you better try a monastry.

thats impossible where did all the good men go???

I just got through dating one, if you are interested, he is 29 just bought a house, and has an English degree.

I'm one!

I disagree with answer 2. Most virgin men try to avoid the 'average girl' knowing they might mislead us to commiting fornication. For instance, one girl started seducing me whilst sucking her finger at me when we were alone. Girls like this we must avoid, because its too hard to say no. If that makes us a little socially inept so be it because our virgininty is worth more. Having said that, we'll avoid girls like this, we won't go to clubs/pubs, you'll find us working on our careers - library, work, church, temple - 22 year old virgin man

Well, you have found one. I am a virgin male between the ages of 28 and 34. I am 32 and a virgin. Virginity is really not too uncommon among strong-willed people who value intimacy more than cheap sex. I myself am intelligent, handsome and social. I have many friends and make new friends easily. People generally find me funny, attractive and fun to be around. I am a very sexual person and am certainly not past my sexual prime. I am very healthy, and at an ideal weight (I pass an annual army physical fitness test and flight physical). I am psychologically healthy and am well rounded. I own a business, multiple properties, cars and have a bachelors degree. I am an attack military pilot who is very successful within this aggressive and somewhat difficult career. I have dated many girls and had serious romantic relationships for years. I find it hard to believe that being a virgin has any real negative impact on my ability to interact in a healthy romantic relationship. I just have the desire and willpower to hold to a high standard in sexuality, which is evidently something most people who have commented on here simply lack. So beware, if you are looking for a virgin, they will most likely be better lovers, as they have most likely learned how to love rather than learn how to have sex with strangers. They will not sexually compare you consciously or even subconsiously with anyone else when you do eventually have sex with them. They will most likely associate your physical attributes with sex, making it easier for them to stay focused on you and the relationship you will share. They will not have had sex with a variety of women, unlike most men who condition themselves by this way of dating and therefore help foster an attractin to a variety of women. This should be refreshing for you as you are one woman, not a variety of women. They will not have an std. Also, the sex you will eventually have with them will be the best and most meaningful sex they have ever had, guaranteed. Of course, they may not have all the moves of a pornstar at first, but, the two of you can explore sex together and use this as a bonding tool. I'm sure that there is enough literature out their that you will be missing out on nothing, instead, you will grow in your sexuality with your best friend and lover. It sounds good to me. Good luck.

Try ebay. But make sure to look for smallest opening bid. Since there won't be any (or many) takers, your bid will probably win.

Simple You Cant, look I'm 25 and a virgin, but I'm a really different kind of guy, I have had the opportunity for many, many, many girls, but I'm career oriented, I've had nothing but weird and insane luck the last seven years, look aside from cases like mine, which are about 1 in 1,000,000,000. Most virgins at that age are either completely fucked in the head, some kind of weird religious twist off, or at a star trek convention. Me on the other, hand have a destiny beyond the reach of normal people, I will be a billionaire in 1 year, and a star prince of Los Angeles, (My grandmother was a Queen) I have had my heart ripped out by a terrible combination, of high stakes rock and roll challenges, and a best friend who used a dream of mine to turn the one girl I wanted against me, then the illuminated people of los angeles, decided to try and turn me into a slave at the behest of sharon osbourne. I completely ruined their plans, and I have been developing a song list of 100,000 songs, and a guitar index amassed over two years of blood sweat and tears,. The reason I have remained a virgin is because I believe in the occult, and in order to survive the most hideous of dark magic, a person has to be pure, to be able to use star magic against the prince of darkness, and a little secret that this prince does not understand is that a stars natural environment is darkness, but light comes from within. I have survived, poisonous snakes, spiders, bears, mountain cats, mountain dogs, gangsters, mobsters, betrayals, and every other kind of test. I am beyond the norm, I intend to be the first rockstar who ever married a real princess, everything about me is a complete contradiction to the rules of rock and roll. Sex, Drugs, and Rock And Roll. I have done the other two extensively, but to be honest to rock star who has slept with hundreds of women stand absolutely no chance of ever marrying a princess, they have really high standards (Usually), and they wont sleep with famous dogs. I can claim the throne of rock and roll, to become the very first emperor of pure rock, pure metal, and pure pop. thats the reason I have forsaken everything else in this world, the real answer is, is that, I have found something special, to get laid is an easy task, but to win the world, now thats a challenge. Its like my recently deceased grandfather told me, and he said this to me after I told him about my women troubles 4 years ago (I have radically changed since then) 1st You get the Job 2nd Then you get the House 3rd Then you get the woman I actually pity all of you who are not virgins, for one very specific reason, you all will never be able to attain your greatest and most beautiful dream/desire. You all will be stuck in your shit jobs, taking crap from our employers for the rest of your lives, you will never taste what it is like to completely own your own destiny, and you will never be able to walk up to the woman, you've chosen, with a fully paid off house, a career that just pays regardless, and be able to know that you are just beneath God himself. That is the secret of what being a virgin can do, I have conquered my enemies with my voice instead of bullets, I have endured death and darkness unparralleled by all but the fairy tales. the reason I have set out to marry a princess is because I am a star prince of los angeles, I am a 7th generation los angelean at least, and I couldn't catch a break in my hometown, of west covina, but seemingly enough, everything in LA jsut works for me, I graduated High school, not from a normal school like everyone else, I was awarded my diploma by a doctor, I took her test, in one hour, after not having been in school for a year, at 19, and passed with a C+. I took up the challenge of ROck and Roll in Los Angeles, against american Idol, and even though they erased the footage, and altered my voice I destroyed them on their own ground, I took them again on Larry King Live, where some dick head named Ace Young a prick from colorado, had the nerve to try to lecture me about Los Angeles, the funny part is that all of the crazy stuff about my family history, was completely unknown to me, and I had totally forgotten about my diploma. But I make him look like a total jerk, and though you can find my audition on You Tube, you cannot find the Larry King Interview anywhere on the net. but I have not stopped, since then, and I have prevailed in the night and the light of day. If I marry a princess I can completely and totally secure the title of prince of los angeles. there are potentially 5,000 of others like me out there, but none aside from me have claimed it. but If I marry a princess I have to renounce my citizenship in order to become a prince in her lands, but I want a german princess. but this little story is just a tiny tiny little piece of the puzzle, of who I am what I've been doing, and what I've been up to for the sake of my country and the world. Keep on Rocking, and give up trying to find a virign that age, take my word for it, if they are one theyll never admit it. non virgin women hate to admit it, but virgin women have so many more options on the table if they could just figure out how to use them. sorry to burst your bubble but, I'm just being a realist. when I was at the LA coroners office in LA of course, I almost let it slip that I am one, and you wouldn't believe it, but litterally every woman there practically wanted to jump my dick right there, they know who I am though you people dont, (One of the asked me "You dont fuck (Her words) I said not until I have a house of my own. Seriously people or dudes out there, if youre 18 and a virgin, leave the pussy alone, stick with the porn (It will fuck you up a little but you'll learn some really crazy shit for your note pads) and find your dream and take it with your balls, your courage, and your heart, if the spirits are watching you, you might have to face dangers like I faced but if you can survive it and win. Youll have a prize that will make everyone and all of your peers envy you the rest of your life. Look at it like this, while you have your house all paid for, and can do what ever you like, your friends will be worried about making their rent, or their house payments, the woman that they will have will have to be compared to other women they've known, they will never know satisfaction with one woman, because they have known so many, your friends have signed themselves up for a cursed life, and will not even know it. by the time they are 50 they will look back at their lives, and they will realize that they spent it, being peons for their bosses, either in the field or in the office. so for any of you who figured this out and who I am, you can sit there with your thumbs up your butts, or you can take a serious re-evaluation of your life. Either way I will not be one of you. a blessed life is worth 20,000 times more than a cursed one.

hi am 36 and having what u looking for contact me on sango2001@hotmail.co.uk

I know one at work but I doubt you'd be interested. There are not many hot, socially integrated virgins available by that age. And why would you want a virgin? At 24 my friend started dating a guy that was a virgin - actually, he was really really hot - but he was completely clueless and really tentative about everything. She likes a decisive man who is in control so she found it a real turn off. I might like it :-)

I'm a 28yo virgin and resent some of these replies. Holy crap do you have to be a sexual stud to be normal? Its funny that not being a whore is seen as abnormal now. How about some of us have a sense of class and maybe are actually looking for someone to love and not just a friend with benefits.

You have. I am a 33 year old virgin male, e-mail me at dizzychad@sbcglobal.net Thanks, Chad

good luck... they are hard to find... but maybe try a church group...

What if she is not religious? Would it be good for her to join a group that is filled with people who are fundamentally different than her so that she can meet someone like herself? Are most religious people virgins?

EASY: Go to a hysterical christian church or kidnap someone from a monastery. However, if you're not willing to do either 1 of these things; you're out of luck.