I have been in a relationship for 5 years, my partner talks dirty and he wants me to talk dirty to him, I don't know what or how to talk dirty. How do you go about learning what and how a guys like you to talk dirty to him?

Rent some porno movies and educate yourself on how they talk to each other

Start simple and move on.

"Oh yes baby, that feels good ... oooh yes"
"Oh your cock feels nice --- oh you have a nice dick"
"You are so amazing ... yes yes yes ... ooooh nice"
"Screw me ... fuck me ... oooh I like it ... yes!"
"You wanna fuck me ... yes baby do it ... oooh yes"
"fuck me ... fuck me ... fuck me!!!"
"Stick that dick in me baby ... inside ... yes in ..."

You get the idea. It is a lot of repetition really!

Then move on to more hardcore stuff if that works!

Get you some playboy books or cosmo books. You can also go to Spencers & other adult stores to get books that talk about sex & just practice talking to him about things you want to do to him or things that you 2 have done that he likes. your imaganation is the best thing.

fuck me u ashol....fuck me harder.....fuck me royaly....fuck me fuck me more.....hit it ......give me more....push it harder.....ya boy ya boy ,......ohhhh ur so good......yayayaya......ur doing it really good...aahhaaa.....

you can use this but u should talk a bit loudr so that it would effect more......

this is realy helf full....

Try to copy the way he talks to you at first and check his reaction, if he likes it keep it up. When you first start talking you might end up enjoying it a lot. If you end up not liking it at all tell him, and maybe you can do it occasionally to please him.

Personally I love talking dirty and for my partner to talk dirty to me. Writing an erotic novel can be a good exercise for you to put words on how and what to say. It will also rid you of any embarrassment that can come from saying "tabu" words.

IT depends on what exactly "Talk dirty" means. He may want you to use explatives, like say, the "F-bomb." Some people find swearing to be a real turn-on.


more likely he means talk sex. This is indeed trickier, and will very greatly depending on both your personalities and on your relationship with him. Generally, my wife likes to hear "Exactly what it is I'm going to do to her" before we even start stripping down. I'm talking about extreme detail, like "My hand will trail along your neck," etc.. with my relationship with my wife, our dirty talk is really more "intimate" than it is "dirty."

Some people may want to here things like "I'm gunna screw your so hard." instead of the more intimate detail. Again, it depends on what your partner is wanting. MY advise: Ask him! Beleive me, he'll like talking about it and explaining what he wants.

slap him on the ass a couple of times and tell him to beg for it!!

Start out mimicing him. If he says one thing alot. Like "Is that how you want it?" -Yeah baby give it to me.
"that feel good?" Oh god baby you feel good. Give it to me.
He probably has a little catch phrase he uses more than others, just thing of a response to that and start there..