I don't know, but that's a damn good question.

i don't know either. i asked my husband what he prefers, and he said if the roles were reversed, he wouldn't want to have to do that. he's just happy i'm giving him brain in the first place! :)

well, that all depends on what your definition of "is" is. that and you consider to be an obsession. i'm not sure there's enough energy going towards that thought worldwide for it to be considered an "obsession".

Ok this is the truth guys hate to clean up the own Stuff.. so if a girl does it. its one less thing they have to clean..

my man likes for me to swallow half the time and also likes when his cum runs down my chin and I take my finger and rub it on my face. I know its very kinky but fun.

i think its a possession thing. or so my boyfriend tells me.

I have never had to ask or force a woman to swallow my cum. I wouldn't ask. They all seemed to enjoy everything including swallowing my cum. My GF says that some men don't taste good and their precum also doens't taste good so they get an idea what their guy tastes like. But...... I appreciate them swallowing. Not swallowing would be like me getting up from licking their pussy and brushing my teeth right away. But then I have not had a woman who's pussy I didn't like the taste of.

WATCHING HER SWALLOW IS A HUGE TURN ON. WATCHING HER MAKE THE PRESSURE IN THE DAM GET SO CLOSE TO THE EDGE SHE HAS SO MUCH POWER OVER ME AT THAT POINT IN TIME. WHEN SHE ALLOWS THE DAM TO EXPLODE AND THE LOOK IN HER EYES AS SHE GULPS EVERY THING DOWN. WOW !!!!!

i dunno but thats a good question ima call my man whiles he working right now and ask lol.

It's the only time we can get you women to stop talking. We're saving money on the phone bill.

It's a power/control thing. The same goes with anal. I've never once had a secure guy request I swallow, or even ask to come on my face, or even my body. I've even asked a few men who I've dated who haven't wanted me to do this if they would like to come on me, most have declined, and the rest just said "only if you really want me to, other wise no." The reason for this is that as they were all sane, secure, confident men, they saw no need to "degrade" me (and they have even used those words). Men who do want to come on a woman or make her swallow are VERY INSECURE. They see it as a sign of power, an ego-trip and as a means of marking you as "their territory". They really only get pleasure out of making you a recipticle of their waste produce. I like laughing at the men who ask to come on my face/body/mouth or ask for anal. I like making them feel like real pathetic little boys. Demasculate them further, it's hell fun, and it's what they deserve as they are only going to cause hell for whatever poor woman agrees to marry their pathetic, sorry arses. CASE POINT - The morning after a sympathy f*** I was giving a guy a blowjob. He asked what I thought of his "sex". As he had a 2inch erect cock, I told him it was awful. So he felt like shit. I continued with the BJ, and he started asking "will you swallow?" or "can I come on your face?" I laughed at him and said a definite "No", and he actually cried and said it would make him feel like a real man if he could come on my face. I told him he was pathetic and get out. This story still makes me laugh. TAKE SECURE MEN ANY DAY, AND HAVE REAL RELATIONSHIPS, WITH REAL SEX, REAL RESPECT, REAL MUTUAL PLEASURE, NO BULLSHIT, AND NO SEMEN ON YOUR BODY (OR ANAL). WE WOMEN DESERVE NOTHING LESS THAN THAT.

Maybe it is because men want to taste it themselves but are too afraid to ask and they are hoping for a kiss right after the deed. :)

maybe cause its just plain easier to let it go than to grab it and pull it out and let it go into a rag

I think the answer is two fold. 1. If you find his cum repulsive, you find him repulsive. Imagine if you are receiving a licking from your man, just when you are about to orgasm and are extremely wet, your man pops up from between you legs makes a face and runs to the bathroom to brush his teeth. How would you feel? Women can get so wet it 'drips' or 'flows'. If we ran away you would feel bad about yourself and self consious. You may feel we don't totally love you. 2. The orgasm is very intense. Again, imagine you are getting licked, your orgasm develops, and the guy stops... Maybe he finishes rubbing your clit through your 'O'. Now on one hand you did cum and it felt good, but wouldn't it have been better if you were tongue lashed through your orgasm. Solution if you don't like to swallow.... Let him cum on your lips or chin and don't act like it is gross. I think you limit the bad feelings from one and two above.