I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months, it has been on the low. We started getting intimate last weekend,I gave him oral sex, but he only wants that he does not want to have intercourse... what could this mean?

that he is willing to take and not give?

If you already had intercourse with him once, then there is something that could have distracted him from it. If you haven't yet, is it possible that he is married, got a girl pregnant once, or has never had direct intercourse. Regardless, do not dump him if unsure why, it could be something you both could work through.

Might not be ready.

he might think you got something

The dude is married. Otherwise, he is selfish and is only interested in his own satisfaction. dump him.

That you doing a pretty good job at what you do lol or he's a (V)

he's probably gay. he doesnt like the feel of a vagina

that he is a selfish prick

he is either married or he has a serious girlfriend

It means he only wants oral sex and doesn't want to have sexual intercourse. What's so hard to understand about that? I think the words "it has been on the low" should be the words you are more focused on. Why has it been on the low? How old are the two of you? Does he still live with his parents? Is he allowed to date? Where do the two of you go when you're getting intimate? Does he secretly want to wait until later? Do you know any of his friends and/or family? You don't have to answer any of these questions on here, but they are questions you might want to think about.

To me, it sounds like he is married and is having trouble with his conscience, thus he doesn't want to "fully cheat" on her. In his mind, he has rationalized the relationship and has decided that, like Bill Clinton, Oral isn't Sex.

He does not want to be attached.

As a man I didn't know you could get away with just getting oral. WOW that sounds like a great arrangement. In a dating arrangement I would likely feel the need to use a condom with vaginal intercourse due to pregnancy issues. If he is willing to go with anal intercourse then he may just doesn't like condoms or he is gay.

Bill Clinton had the same fcuked-up thing going. Here ol' Slick Willie had as damn fine a chica as a man could ask and instead of fcuking her blind he just wants beejers! I woulda been banging Monica until she could not stand up, but Bill was content with splashing his DNA on her dress and letting his cigar get all the good stuff. I can NOT wrap my head around that one!

All I can say is: Something is certainly very, very, very wrong with a man like that- very wrong.

However this is my personal opinion. Different people have different stuff going on and there is no "One-size-fits-all" recipe to satisfying sex. If you both are getting your satisfaction and everyone is getting their cookies off and you both are happy with the situation, then fine. Some chicas I have known liked giving oral better than having intercourse. My former wife could actually orgasm when she did me to a messy finish. But I can also assure you that before we were finished I would be bollocks deep in her and she would have her eyes rolling up in her head screaming for the deity!.

Personally speaking, I think nothing beats hard, sweaty, intense, face-to-face, full on, headboard-banging, panting, toe-curling, grunting, sheet-clenching, groaning, squealing, screaming, penis-in-vagina sex. But if you are satisfied with the sex you two are having, then no problemo. I do not suppose he is writing in any questions here wondering about the meaning of all the nice head he is getting, huh?

However, if you also want penetrative intercourse or you want him to reciprocate and "eat at the Y", then we have a problem. But the problem is not ours here, so your question is best directed to your guy: Why not ask him why he prefers BJ's to bumping bellies?

The other issue is if he is not satisfying you. If you heartfully discuss this with him and he seems not to care about what satisfies you, then the solution is simple: DUMP HIM PRONTO and find a guy who can breath through his ears!