I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months, it has been on the low. We started getting intimate last weekend,I gave him oral sex, but he only wants that he does not want to have intercourse... what could this mean?
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that he is willing to take and not give?
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To me, it sounds like he is married and is having trouble with his conscience, thus he doesn't want to "fully cheat" on her. In his mind, he has rationalized the relationship and has decided that, like Bill Clinton, Oral isn't Sex.
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he is either married or he has a serious girlfriend
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that he is a selfish prick
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he's probably gay. he doesnt like the feel of a vagina
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That you doing a pretty good job at what you do lol or he's a (V)
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The dude is married. Otherwise, he is selfish and is only interested in his own satisfaction. dump him.
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he might think you got something
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Might not be ready.
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If you already had intercourse with him once, then there is something that could have distracted him from it. If you haven't yet, is it possible that he is married, got a girl pregnant once, or has never had direct intercourse. Regardless, do not dump him if unsure why, it could be something you both could work through.
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It means he only wants oral sex and doesn't want to have sexual intercourse. What's so hard to understand about that? I think the words "it has been on the low" should be the words you are more focused on. Why has it been on the low? How old are the two of you? Does he still live with his parents? Is he allowed to date? Where do the two of you go when you're getting intimate? Does he secretly want to wait until later? Do you know any of his friends and/or family? You don't have to answer any of these questions on here, but they are questions you might want to think about.
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He does not want to be attached.
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As a man I didn't know you could get away with just getting oral. WOW that sounds like a great arrangement. In a dating arrangement I would likely feel the need to use a condom with vaginal intercourse due to pregnancy issues. If he is willing to go with anal intercourse then he may just doesn't like condoms or he is gay.
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