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No, I think that that woman is just waiting for someone she really cares about.
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Judging by your previous questions you yourself thinks its weird. I would say in your favour that you are being selective and 34 is not very old Mr Right will be out there somewhere or are you just scared of the act itself, it's up to you to answer that. Life is for living now. good luck. + :o)
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Good for you!! If and or when you get married your husband will be a happy man!!
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Not at all. I think that woman should be proud. If her intention is to keep herself pure for the right person, her husband should be extremely happy.
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I personally dont think so. I think everyone has their own schedule of things. Maybe this woman just hasnt found the right person? Maybe she hasnt found a person she's comfortable with? or maybe she just isnt really comfortable with herself. It all depends on the woman and her life.. This question seems a big vague but regardless of that, it's not weird.
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No, I don't think it's weird, I think she's being smart. So many girls lose their virginity in their early years that they don't know what love is anymore. And when she finally does meet the right guy to lose her virginity to, it will definately be worth the wait!
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I don't think it's weird. I think it's very uncommon nowadays, but in no way is it a bad thing. Everyone needs their own amount of time to figure out what they want. Don't settle for anything less than that.
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weird ..no ...special ...yes ! and good on her if she has chosen to stay that way
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I think it is admirable of her. She is sticking to her values and doing what she thinks is right. And when a lucky guy finds her he will be finding a true gemstone, not something used and cheap.
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No, she's just waiting for the right person. It's great that she has enough willpower and dedication to wait.
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Nope! It's nobody's business.
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Is it weird? I'd say its unusual if shes good looking, but if shes not then no its not weird.
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It may not be a common theme these days, but I have daughters and if they are still unmarried at 34 then I would expect them to also be a virgin. Of course that would also make me second guess passing up on getting them braces...lol...just kidding don't write hate mail! -Buddy
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I would have to say No... If it is her choice...
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Not at all,refreshing and not very common,I think thats cool that she is waiting for that special person to share herself with,and to be mature(not like the early teenagers)enough to handle it,never caved into peer pressure when younger,right on!!
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Not even remotely. I friend of mine waited for someone to marry before having sex, her someone special and she found him at the age of 42. Neither of them had been married or slept with anyone. They take great joy in each other, a very cute couple indeed. If you are doing it for a good personal reason I think it's wonderful that you have done this. It shows integrity to your values. If you don't want to be a virgin for some reason, then that's fine if those are you values.
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Sorry, but yes. At 34, they need to examine why in the last 15 years, or so, they have not been able to find or have a relationship that progresses to that level.
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Not at all. I've known more than one. Right now, I seem to be headed there myself.
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yea it is really weird
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I don't think it's weird. I once heard of a woman in her nineties who had never had sex. Where is it written that someone HAS to have sex?
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It's absolutely nothing to do with me. If you are the virgin in question congratulations, if it's somebody else, get a life.
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I can´t say weird - If it´s her choice - than OK. If it some moral prejudice. That´s wierd. Be yourself.
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Yeah, I think it's weird. But a good weird. Like Chips with Icecream.
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lol, actually Im kind of high strung on the issue. It tells me you may be a religious person.
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It's unusual, but not weird.
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In these days it is not the normal but yes there are virgins of both sexes well into their adulthood.
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If not by choice.
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I don't think it's weird, Just unusual (not in a bad way) My Brother dated a 35 year old woman for a few weeks and then stopped seeing her. When I asked why he said that she was a virgin and told him she wouldn't have sex until her wedding night. She was nice but My brother was terrified of committment and was scared off. I still say good for her though!
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It'd be uncommon, but commonality is irrelevant to how 'weird' something is. Being a virgin at ANY age is NOT weird, it's just the quality of having not had sex... Not that big of a deal : / (Except to those who think that arbitrarily having sex is somehow very important...)
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I am 26 and all my friends are out having sex. My boyfriend isn't a virgin but respects the fact that I am. It is not weird, though I used to question myself and wonder if I was making the right choice and I came to realize the choice is only bad if you regret it.
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yes. It's part of life to expirance psyical love with another person.
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NO KEEP AS LONG AS YOU LIKE GOOD O SELF SERVICE
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I've known many who were, and are, and NO I don't think it's weird
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no, maybe she is a lesbian..or just has not meet the right person
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Definately unusual...
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Not at all, it's your choice, and I think alot of people would have respect for you. But I do have to say its not common, but when I hear someone is still a virgin I have a little bit more respect for them. I think those types of things should be saved for a love one, and someone who you know for a fact you will stay with for the rest of your life (best way to know that is on your wedding day). I guess I'm just old school.
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yes i think that you havent lived life yet, seeing as how the purpose of life is that of the feeling you get when you orgasm.
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Not at all if that's what you want for yourself. Society shouldn't dictate how you live your life.
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It is unusual but I don't think it is weird. You sound like you may be a person of integrity who has never been swayed by peer pressure. Good for you.
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If she's unmarried, no
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I'm wondering why you singled out the woman of 34 as opposed to ANYone aged 34 who was still a virgin. If I were 34 and had not fallen in love with what I hoped would be a life partner, I would likely still be virgin. With AIDS, herpes, and other socially transmitted diseases rampant as they are today, why risk a death sentence for a few moments of pleasure? I know I will get comments from people here who are of the hedonistic variety who will proclaim that variety sex is fun and legal and hurts no one, but I just don't think that way.
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Not uncommon, but I really admire it if shes isnt married.
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No, not really.
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Yes. I do.
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unusual these days..but not weird..
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Absolutely not. I think its great someone out there has standards or morals or whatever you want to call it.
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Unusual maybe, but probably not weird.
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Yes proper wierd lol
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No I don't. I'm a 34 year old guy who is still a virgin. I haven't avoided sex, I just don't want to lose it to someone who just happens to be there and who I don't feel something emotionally for. If I never lose it I'd be a little put out because it's something I would like to have experienced in life but if it just means grabbing someone and doing it for the sake of it to make others happy, then no thanks.
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its not weird, altho it is kinda rare to find someone your age to be untouched. my hats off to ya for not getting tempted till now :D good luck in finding that one person you'll share your love with.
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I don't think it's "weird", per se...to each his own.
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No, I think its smart.
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waw! you're so cool! wait for mr right! go you! +points!
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Are you a nun or just waiting for mr. right?
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Weird Yes, bad...not really
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Hell no. You made a great choice and have no visible relationship scars as yet. When you're ready, you'll decide what to do and who's right for you.
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very good for u, that is great, who cares what age u r ur just waiting for yr true love to come along. that is great!
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No I think that it is great, that people still believe in waiting for the one true love of your life
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It is completely normal, completely healthy and completely unaverage.
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If its out of choice, rather than say a medical reason, I'ld have to say I think its........ rather odd! Not something to feel bad or weird about but deffinately odd. I think if its a choice thing then you are missing out on one of the things that makes life worth living. Thats not to say you should throw yourself at every man but there's got to be a happy medium.
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No but i'm pleased i'm not a virgin don't think i'd be able to afford all the batteries!!!!
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Nope. Its best when the woman is ready. It will be really weird if she just have sex just cuz it TIME.
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Ok, but definitely different. Does she own stock in Duracell?
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No! I have seen some truly replusive and ugly women who should not be haviong sex.
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No not at all. I think waiting for the right guy is important. If he hasn't come along yet, then I don't think you should worry about still being a virgin. It'll happen when it's meant to happen and with the right guy.
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Which deserted Isalnd has she been on?
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How ugly and or uptight is she?
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It is unusual but not weird.
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Yes. You are probably extremely ugly.
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No I do not think its odd as you are not a promiscuous person and are waiting for the right person whom you will get married to one day.
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Absolutely not, I find it admirable... and this is coming from a 34 year old man who is also a virgin. Most of society will disagree, but each person answers to their own conscience.
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i would think its weird, but its her choice, not up to me to dictate who's a virgin and who isnt, but seriously your missing out if your a virgin at 34
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Very. Unless shes a nun.
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No, I don;t think it is weird to have strong beliefs and stick to them. I know from experience it can be one of the hardest things a person can do.. It does not mean they are ugly..
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No not at all, perhaps she's waiting for the right one!
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YES! And may I ask if your choice was made due to religious reasons?
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No it is not weird it can her choice maybe she wants to give her verginity to her charming prince one day...I married my husband when I was a virgin and it was more fun the first night
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this is a world of diversity....whats weird for one person is wonderful for the other. There are reasons for everything.Men may not say it,but virginity is a jewel in their eye.It shows a lot good charaters about the woman. And that whole thing about experience...it's very possible that people are great at something at their 1st time...... Hope this helps..............
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No. I admire her for staying with her beliefs. she has every right to protect her body.
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Not weird at all. There is a tension in being celibate until one feels called by God for a lifetime of celibacy. Married people have it easy -- they're supposed to enjoy sex. Not easy for single people.
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No its not weird, your preference to be the person you feel you need to be in this world is what counts. Whatever the reasons; by choice or circumstance, are obviously important to you as an individual. To me as a 36 year old male virgin, it makes me question what is conventional. The expectations placed on individuals to conform within society are quite crushing to some people. I laughed at an answer to another question on here regarding dating a male virgin - quoting that a guys who are have never grown up, have no spirit of adventure, or are just an overgrown nerd! As none of the above, and as person who has experienced real love and understanding without sex. I'm left questioning whether the generic humour generated around someones lack of sexual experience, is simply a way to mitigate their ability to feel for themselves what is right for one does not always equate for all, and maybe they need to look inside to see where/why their ego is stopping them becoming a fully rounded entity, and not a vacuum of cliched put downs.
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Not particularly. Then again, I've never contemplated the "politics of virginity".
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yes yes i do
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It's not weird at all. I'm 24 and still a virgin. For me it has been fear. In our case, we just got to wait for that perfect someone =] After all, it is a smart thing to do.
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it depends...is there a reason? is it religion/ideology, intimacy issues stemming from abuse, are you just really ugly, homosexuality, physical problems,ect...?
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srry but yea werid but not my answer is needed
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Its not WEIRD at all , u r just waiting for the right person to lose it and that is correct and all good . dont think its weird or freaking .
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Time to give it up. You dont know what you are missing.
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I am a male older than you and I am a virgin to, but that is because most women are not really interested in men, I am just wondering how many chances you have had, do you turn down every man who ask you out on a date?
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not weird, more like a little scary for a fully adult woman to find a man that won't manipulate her through her lack of sexuality. I have a really close friend that didn't start having sex until she was 26. she had decided to save herself for marriage and found a man she dated for 2 years and then finally married. After only a month he told her she was not worth waiting for and told her that he had dated another woman on the side that he would rather be with more than her. The marriage was anoled and now she has the highest number of sexual partners then all of the women she hangs out with. Not because she is a slut but because she had such little exposture to men. she never dated until she was 23 and now here she is imature to the nature of grown up men with all the lessons most women start learning in highschool. I think its wonderful if anyone can hold themselves for marriage but it would be best if you find someone that held theres for you as well. If not it can turn into something very bad and make you feel very cheated
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good for u but at what age are u gonna be planning to have kids, 40-45?
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I don't think that it's weird. I mean, I've known plenty of people in their 30's that haven't lost their virginity yet.
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its not wierd at all, my mother use to take care of two elderly ladys who were well over 80 years old they died being virgins. by the way they were both sisters.
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NO, when you find the person of your heart, love will make everthing else wont matter. let your heart and better judgement contenue.
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uhh. hell yeahh. you missin' out, son. fereals, yo. :O !!
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No,I'm right there with you sister just a couple years younger than you. Whenever your ready it will happen
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Not at all! I married a 30 year old virgin and it is awesome to know that I am the only man to ever sleep with her. I wish I had done the same for her.
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nope.
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Mmmm not weird. Just uncommon.
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Nothing wrong.
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