Does anyone here ever feel like they're just an unlucky reject of society? Like you're a loner but not by choice?
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Akemi Almasy
ANSWERS: 4
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I believe that,in the most cases, we make our own "luck". I used to believe that the "system" was skewed, but I was outside the system looking in. Once I got into the system, guess what?, it worked. As far as being a loner, again, thats up to you. now... get out there, have some fun, meet people!!!!!!!
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Depends on how people view me, some base opinions on apperance alone and others on intelligence. I'm not Ciny Crawford but I'm not Frau Farbissina - but it seems intelligence makes alot of people nervous.
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Yes, many times in my life and relationships I've felt like the quote (I really don't like quotes but here it is true) in the Bible that says "cast not your pearls before swine lest they trample them underfoot and turn again and rend you." I've felt that way many times.....that I've given my best to people to only have it trampled on. Im a Scorpio that is very loyal until you humiliate me or betray me then I walk away from that person. I've even done it to family members who do not care to see their ways. Sorry to spill my guts but that is how I feel tonight.
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I do not view myself as a reject, I often just reject them. I don't know if that is the best solution, but first you have to see that you are not less of a person than anyone in society. I often do not fit in to groups because I don't like following people, I like creating things. I also have beliefs that many other people in this society today do not agree with, so many other people don't understand that. For the most part, it seems like people only want to spend a lot of time with people like themselves. If you find like minded people, or something like it, then you won't have to be a loner. Sometimes they are no where to be found. Most of the times you have to look for them and ask new people questions to see if they have the same sorts of interests as you. The main thing is that you look for social situations where you are an equal. If people treat you like crap then tell them, and if that doesn't work, then don't bother with them.
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