Give her your credit card:) Seriously, I've found oral to be the most effective. Not sure what that says about me:(

you got to fuk her real hard abd stick you fingerin her butt

Candles, massage, wine, kissing, touching, go down on her, intercourse slowly at first if she's really wet than you know she's ready if she's dry go back to licking her clit, make sure she cums before you do, then hold her. Figure out if she's faking the orgasm. If you do it right she won't be. Do all the sex stuff again including the kissing and touching. That's the really short version.

every woman has different needs, try something then try something else - she will answer this question quite loudly when you find the right spot

I can only give my experience. Firsrt of all, I have done most of my sexual carousing from 54 to 64. I am bald, not fat, but the 6 pack disappeared a long time ago. I had prostate removeal eight years ago and was rendered impudent. A year later I received a penile implant. My urologist said I would be better than any 19 y/o. From my experience, he was right. Now I'm not saying you should run out and get one. You will experience 3 weeks of physical distress that you would be better off without. Yet it was worth it. You can be hard 24/7, which means you can go as long as needed to satisfy your partner. All you need is the stamina, well conditioned legs and hips and pray you don't get a muscle spasm in your calfs. If you do, suck it up and fight through it. For those of you faced with this situation there are a couple of negatives beside the 3 weeks of post surgical discomfort. You are going to lose maybe up to 2 inches off your size. You will not have a wet orgasm, (you will have a dry one instead, but they are just as pleasurble) so if your partner is into swallowing or spraying they are out of luck. Despite the loss of size I have never had a complaint. I am 64 and I can still have up to 4-5 dry ones in a 12 hour period. Over the last ten years I have dated 2 strippers and a high dollar legal prostitue from Nevada. These relationships lasted 2-4 years and were with women 16-21 years younger than me. By these women being in the sex industry, I learned some very helpful hints to pleasing a woman. First, strippers and hookers are very different from the avg. woman. They have no inhibitions, they don't get jealous,generally, and they are very experimental. I mean who else walks around naked while working. One of these women told me while I was "courting" her, she wouldn't date anyone under 45. And I have found when women hit their early 30s, more than you imagine feel this way. Now for the things I have discovered. Giving prolonged oral sex. I'm sure most of you have heard if you perform the A,B,Cs with your tongue on the clit, you will be a real crowd pleaser. Experiment with different positions, different fantacies. I have found that alternating your thrusts between in and out, and a circular motion really gets them off. Another method is thrust, pull out slowly to where the head is barely in and thrust back forcefully. I discovered this technique in a conversation with a stripper buddy of mine I have not been intimate with. She is bisexual, a sex addict, beautiful, and another 30 y/o who won't date any man under 45. I was complaining I was developing a belly, and needed to lose some weight. She said she liked men with that little belly, because in the missionary position by the mans stomach pressing on hers, it really helped her to get off. So I started using this method toward the end of lovemaking. I have the woman put her heels on my shoulders, I put my knees against her hips and thrust. My testicles bounce off her hips, which really turns them on. As I am about to climax, I gently press on her abdomen with my hand. This seems to speed up their climax. At 64 I'm still out there experimenting and learning. I'm sure I have much more to learn. I hope this is helpful in some small way.

In a box with a bow on it.