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  • I don't know which teenage girls you're referring to...
  • They have unresolved Oedipal complexes and are seeking their fathers. So says Freud. I have no idea. Maybe money, maturity and more money has its appeal.
  • Where are these girls? Are you referring to yourself and trying to validate your preferences? You have got me scratching my head a bit.
  • No, I am not referring to myself. I know a girl at my school, about the same age as me, 17, who told me she is attracted to one of her teachers who's probably about the same age as her grandfather. And wondering what is up with that?
  • I'm 45 and if I found out a 15-18 y/o girl had a crush on me I'd get her head examined by a psychiatrist.
  • Two words: Father figure
  • I think George Michael put it best but it's weird cause he really don't like girls, he like guys.
  • They are? That's new to me hehehehe
  • Because they have facial hair, deep voices and more knowledge to educate them. Older men wear cologne and know how to treat women respectfully, I think.
  • :S thats messed. Girls between 15-18 dont like men 30-60+ they like guys a few years older. mainly because they are more mature then guys their age. but being attracted to a man 30-60? thats just not right. I dont know what kind of girls you hang out with, but thats not normal!
  • 1. Better un-cracking voices. 2. Experience. [Who doesn't love that?] 3. Maturity. When we know our peers aren't mature, we go for what is!
  • The girls see a father image in these men, as psychologists would say. They are projecting their father's image to these older men.
  • I am an 18 year old girl, living alone, on the other side of the world to my family. My work colleagues are mostly older men and I spend a lot of time with them and genuinely enjoy their company. I am attracted to a man who is a year older than my own dad. I don't think it's because he's a father figure at all. It's for the same reasons I'm attracted to other guys; he's good-looking, funny and makes me feel good. I would never go there, it's too taboo for me. But I don't think it's unnatural to have feelings for much older men.
  • When I was younger I always dated guys older then me. It wasn't that I was looking for a father figure, I had a great dad didn't need to replace him but older guys were more mature, they usually appreciated the time they spent with you & liked to spend their money on you. Younger guys when I was that age just seemed to be into sports or drugs or spreading lies & older men were usually past that. I never went out with any younger guys until I was in my 30's & that was only because they were mature acting. And the drama, I never liked alot of drama & most younger guys were into the fighting & arguing all the time & most older ones weren't. And there was a certain mysterious sex appeal about older guys can't really put my finger on it, maybe like one ABer said experience or the ability to teach you what they know.
  • because they had the pleasure of meeting me. youre welcome
  • Well I was and still am attracted to older men but not to much older im 18 and im thinking between 20-23 is great.
  • i'm 15 and i have to say, that is untrue haha
  • WTF??? where are you getting your information from? I think that is very untrue. It is uncommon for a young girl to be attracted to a person over 30 much less over 60! I never was. I was attracted to older guys but it was just to make up for the level of maturity difference and nothing else.
  • I find this hard to believe, but if they do its because the guys misrepresent themselves and pretend to be younger than their real age.
  • Since when?
  • Umm, haven't heard that one before. I know some young people and they dont even like guys that are 10 years older than them....ewwww. Who the heck do you know that likes a 60 year old man? gross
  • I know a few of my friends are like that, but I personally think it's pretty gross - not gonna lie. :)
  • Some of the girls are looking for a father-like figure, while others are looking for someone who can "teach" them the ways of the world.
  • they are?? im 18 and this first i've heard about it... except for the crush i have on Johnny Depp.
  • Well I haven't the slightest idea. To me (A regretable 15 yr old) the idea of dating anyone... hell 18 and older is sort of disgusting. Especially a 30 year old. They just seem like the most disgusting foul private fondling desperate fools on the face of the planet and it'd be so disgusting because I wouldn't be able to stop thinking about my father *shudders* (no offense to any 30-60 yr olds on here. I simply meant those 30-60 yr old men who are creepy enough to LIKE the types of girls who are like, 15-18)
  • 60+? Shit!
  • I'm 18 and my average boyfriend is around 30. I think the reason why is they are (usually) well-established, mature, more goal-oriented than younger guys. Also they know how to treat a woman and have more experience. Younger guys are more about partying and having a good time, and most younger guys are all about sex. Older men maybe want kids and like the calmer life.
  • I was never attracted to anyone that much older then me, especially at that age. Girls that do are mostly looking for a father figure or fell for the lines that these guys like to feed them...because the guys are looking for a vulnerable young girl to take advantage of.
  • Replacement for their dad?
  • they pay them...
  • I wouldn't go so far as to say 60 but older because they're much more mature, they're already on their own and have a life started, and some girls just come from families where they're treated like crap so they want someone who can "love" them and do things with them.
  • 1. They have better things to talk about than World of Warcraft. 2. They have manners. And use them. 3. Oh, please... you can't tell me Sean Connery isn't DEAD sexy. ^_^ 4. Grown-up men better fit the mold of "Prince Charming" than some 21 year old frat boy that keeps track of all his sexual encounters in a Composition book.
  • I dont know but being 30 i find it kind of odd. I get hit on a lot by 18+ girls, who say its because i got a job and own a few cars, have a house. Honestly i think women want to settle down at an earlier age. Men 30+ are settled and not into playing around. I don't really know, but i do know its both flaughtering and disturbing at the same time when that young girl is hitting on you at 30. It might too that a lot of guys in their 20's are still dating girls in their teen's 16+ and its becoming a slowy acceptable social norm for 15+ to date 20ish guys now. While still illegal, many societies at our stage of development in the past have historically moved to this kind of dating. Look at Roman, greek, 18th century europe all had provisions in their laws for marrying off their daughters at 13, and it was considered normal for girls at the onset of their first period to be married off and bear children. Many of us now consider that a perversion of nature, and in light of current events in the news find it deplorable that the type of behavior could be allowed, but what you don't hear about in the news is the teens, 14-18 who sneak out to meet up with that 25+ year old guy and have sex. And they sneak around to do it becuase its socially unacceptable along with parentally unacceptable to some parents. As a father I know I wont be able to prevent my daughter from doing it, but I will try as hard as i can to educate her on why she shouldnt.
  • Well i'm 16 and although i deffinately see the attraction i'd never actually date anyone that much older. but older guys tend to be more mature and quite a bit better looking.
  • Because that's the age that they rebel in their own little way, and they do so by either looking for another father figure, or by thinking that they are so much more mature than boys their age, or that they will be envied in school because they've got a boyfriend who's not in school anymore. It's not just between 30 and 60. One of my cousins drives me absolutely insane because when she was 14 she was dating an 18 year old, then when she was 16/17 she dated a 29 year old, and a 22 year old, and now she's 18 (legal) and she's dating a 25 year old. She's made me promise not to kill any of them, and I haven't because I love her to death and don't want to disappoint her, but these guys definitely are intimidated by me, and don't usually stay with her too long, and I'm okay with that.
  • I'm not going to guess as to why some younger girls are attracted to older men but I'm an older man who is attracted to younger women. as long as they're from 18 years old to mid-20s. I prefer to hang around with them. While true some men may be perverts or dirty old men, that's not always the case.I was always called "ugly" by my own a-hole of a father. You hear "ugly" EVERYDAY you believe it. Believing it(wrong or right)means I shied away from asking girls out. Never had a girlfriend. hell! First time I went to see a prostitute and had sex was when I was 32 years old. Wasn't enjoyable because I longed for a relationship. 13 years later have not gone to any other prostitute(that one experience turned me off from it)but also still haven't asked any girl out. As much as I try to forget anytime I want to ask her out the voice "you're ugly" comes back to haunt me. I've tried blocking it trust me! But I do find I'm much happier when surrounded by a female from 18 and to mid-20s. I used to work with many females in that age group before I left for another job. Guess their happiness and fun reminds me of all the stuff I never had. Besides they made me feel handsome for a few seconds. So you see not all men are dirty old men. Don't be too quick to judge if you think all 45-year-olds want sex from the younger ones. NOPE! I'd be happy just chatting at the local coffee shop or going to a rock concert or other event. I have so much to catch up on. And can live my life through them(if I ever decide to ask--though not shy as used to be still am somewhat around females).
  • Coz they will die first and leave them all their money n stuff not always true but..
  • most girls turn to older guys because of lack of a father figure growing up. They want a husband and a father figure
  • Because they are watching too much t.v. and seeing what's going on in hollywood, and hinging their hopes and expectations on the same kind of stupid bullshit.
  • oh gross
  • Because boys their age are so immature. A girl who is 16 has the maturity of a 20 year old, whereas a boy of the same age has the maturity of a 12 year old. (girls act 4 years older than their age and boys act 4 years younger than their age.)
  • Simply put, many grew up with the absence of a father, so they seek that type of love to fill the void that was left.
  • I read a lot of the answers and they appear to be from posters who do not see this happening. I am in my 50's and have had 3 different happenings of just this. They get a crush on you and want to show they are mature. As to the reason they do this I don't know. You just have to show politeness and let them down genital.
  • well heres a story for everyone to gauk over. Im sixteen. the MAN I am sleeping with is 29. we work together. we drink together. we sleep together. hes good looking. im good looking. all seems fine other than the age.. ill give a little background on myself and the man. I am white. hes hispanic. hes married for citizenship, but is not technically "together" with his wife. he acts much much younger than 29, hes sort of obnoxious when hes drunk and hes always feeling me up and being self absorbed in his looks.. i would say he has the mental capacity of a 19-21 year old. maybe this is because he hasnt fully adapted to the american lifestyle...i dont know. I would say that, personally, i am attracted to the situation more than i am attracted to him.. i like keeping a secret at work and i like feeling risky and kind of dirty.. i like watching girls want him..and me knowing on the inside that ive had him... its become an unhealthy obsession i have to admit though.. maybe just cuz i want to keep him mine and keep him under my lock and key. i think it all boils down to..we all like having a dirty little secret. and with movies and the media telling my generation of girls indirectly that older men are the forbidden fruit...we want it even more. the grass is always greener on the other side...
  • I'm fifteen... And I can personally say I am attracted to older men... aged 25-45... Fifty and Sixty is way too old... But 40-45 isn't far off... I don't meet them in person, all online... and nothing has really come out of it, yet, but... who knows? Most people believe you have control over who you like and who you don't. I don't believe that. You're heart makes up the decision... and you can;t guide it. It all comes down to matters of the heart. Whether you do something about it or not, is up to your mind. Your heart chooses who you fall in love with... your brain chooses if you do some thing about it or not. I honesty can't say why I like men who are twice my age. I just do. I'm very mature, for my age. I'm fifteen going 25 or thirty. I rarely ever ever type in 'IM' mode. I look at least eighteen when I want to. i don't like guys my age because they seem like little kids. I don't do anything with attraction, it'd just there. I talk to guys older than me, in chat rooms, when I'm bored, or want to 'feel loved'. Mostly because I'm bored. I'm more open online. I like myself better when I'm talking to older guys, because they make me feel like I'm only a few years older than I really am. Unlike when I talk to guys a few years older than me, or who are my age, and make me feel thirty. I like the feeling of actually feeling young, talking to 25-45 year old's, than feeling old talking to guys 15-20.
  • I don't think that is necessarily true..I am 59...I am not attracted to 15-18 year olds at all...I don't think you can generalize on issues like this...I am gay so it doesn't apply to girls with me..but I like men...I consider anyone under about 45-50 way too young to offer me anything...I want someone with similar life experiences...Just my 2 cents worth:)
  • we're not, that's just disgusting. the guy I'm attracted to is 19, my best friends dating a 20 year old and my sister likes a 23 year old but I think 23 is the oldest most 15 year olds would be attracted to
  • Bloody hell! I'm not! :0
  • Wouldn't it also go the other way. Why would guys want someone the same age as their daughter? I would think that would be awkward but then again look at Hulk Hogan's family. I guess to each their own but the guys can go to jail for that in some cases.
  • I think its very normal thing
  • i dont know anymore.
  • because its refreshing for old men.. and fun for young girls?
  • Just they are a bit immature. Childish crushs.
  • id just end up disappointing them more than i already have. everyones parents are different. and trust me. mine are DIFFERENT.
  • The question isn't why are teenage girls attracted to older men... If that was the case we should ask why are teenage boys attracted to older women? The question is simply, why does it matter? Why do we care? When celebs date and marry people twice as old as them or more, we talk about it for maybe a day or two... But when it's normal, everyday people, middle class people, we it spreads everywhere... This is a new era, people... More and more people or becoming bi-curious and gay. Soon, it'll be the straight people who are ostracized, like gays and lesbians were 20 years ago... hell, even today, you are kicked out of your church if you come out. It's pathetic... We sit around, saying change is good... But when it starts to happen... We choke on our words... And we turn on those people who are letting change through...
  • ok im 16 and i have NEVER even thought about liking 60+ man wat the hell????
  • I'm 18 and have always dated guys much older than me. I could not believe how mind blowing sex was with an older guy. An older guy has no inhibitions and can be animal like with a young girls body. Boys my own age just think of there own pleasure and are ignorant / smelly and boring!
  • I'm 18 and have always dated guys much older than me. I could not believe how mind blowing sex was with an older guy. An older guy has no inhibitions and can be animal like with a young girls body. Boys my own age just think of there own pleasure and are ignorant / smelly and boring!
  • I wouldn't go so far as to say 60. I'd say it's more 20-30 year old men. and the only answer I can give you is women are attracted to confident, mature men and you never get that out of a teenage-18 year old guy
  • I might get downrated for this or get no points at all. The truth? I'm 17 years old and is attracted to older guys. They are mature, funny, sweet, and caring. they are unlike the younger guys, who are immature, lies all the time, and is easily distracted by other girls. I like the sex. They have more experience. And they have more money.
  • will one person please say WHY its creepy? yes the age difference is incredible but im a young woman and i feel like i've always had much more experience in life than other girls my age. i feel like a 40 year old in a 19 year old's body. im attracted to a man who's 36 years older than me, and no matter how much i tell myself its wrong, we have alot i common and i can talk to him better than any guy ive ever met. age shouldnt matter once someone's 18 or older should it? atleast not if the chemistry is right.
  • I'm 20 years old, and I'm not sure if I should just ignore my attraction to this man whos 55 that find myself daydreaming about being with whenever hes around. The more we talk the more I like him. He's not successful so thats not why I like him. I dont want to get married probobly ever so I dont want to settle down. I guess it may be that my dad has never really talked to me or told me I was pretty, but I feel like I'm at the same maturity level as my mom who's 65. I've always felt more at home amoung her friends than people my age. So what if I could actually benefit from having an older male to talk to and be with? I am so interested in what men have to say about anything, because I've never had a man's perspective on life and I think that everyone needs that. This is the first time I've been attracted to someone this much older, but I've always liked being in the presence of men because it was comforting and what can replace that? I dont want to be rescued because I've come this far without a dad and have always relied on myself. I honestly can't put my finger on it. Maybe I've just watched too many old movies that have opened my mind to putting no limits on age...as long as it's legal.
  • Look at Hugh Heffner though, he has like 3 girfriends that are way younger than him. My grandma is 88 and can go to the bathroom, feed herself, and live on her own. So maybe the only reason it grosses people out is because they think of their parents, but the reason im not attracted to my parents isnt because they're old...its because it's INSEST!! big difference!
  • They understand, good listeners, respect the younger partner, no drama, teach them how to really injoy sex, we older men appreciate younger women more at our age than when we were their age. We see more than jus the sex part. We see life, spontaneous, appreciation and much much more. I know how it feels to be un appreciated because I am maried and wife doen't even lknow when i get my hair cut.I would really injoy company of a much younger woman. bertram_55@yahoo.com
  • im 18 and my bf's 25.. oler guys are more mature and know how to please a woman.. they are sweet and arent embarrassed to show how they feel.. 8 years is the biggest age gap i would go for though..
  • im 16 and i am attracted to older men but the age limit is about 55. i think the reason is because i have an absent father. but there are also other reasons i cant explain: i like the fact that older men have wrinkles and deep voices and know things about the world and i wouldn't even mind being controlled and told what to do and being 'grounded' by this man. not all girls with absent fathers can feel like this, though, because my sister is a few years older than me and has never been attracted to anyone more than a couple of years older than her and find paedophilia disgusting whereas I don't really find it that bad as sick as it sounds, infact, I might even be slightly attracted to them. A lot of girls my age are attracted to older men but not to the extent that I am. I am told I'm very attractive but I only seem to find true appreciation for my looks with older men who don't want stick thin girls just because everybody else thinks they're cool. Im told I have a great body but i get just as much attention from older men in my school uniform which i find great. im starting to wish i could just get to 17 and stay that age forever. i dont want children for fear ill mess them up and i just want to be the child in my sexual relationships forever, i mean i just want my partner to treat me like the little one and worry about me and spoil me and stuff. i am extremely attracted to my teacher as well who is almost 40.
  • I am 30 years old and good friends with many teen girls. Most people overall think I am only 20 to 23 years old. Most young girls who are 17 to 20 around where I live, ARE going out and seeking men in their late 20's and early 30's, for assumptions of better sexual experience. Being attracted to people IS Natural, so they say :P If I am attracted to a teen girl but don't say or do anything to that girl, then it's good right?
  • I was also gonna add, from the answers I see posted, I'm still a virgin and have turned down sexual offers from girls younger than me. Those girls today are in married relationships now. I am patient, but most say that my maturity helps people feel more comforable socially around me. A lot of teenagers look up to me, just for someone to talk to.
  • I have a heory and it may not be right and it may not apply to all but here goes; I think a part of this is the need for girls to have a father figure. Being that 70% of marriages end in divorce and in the case the couple have children the majority of the time the mother has custody. Because of this girls are looking for a father figure and this manifests itself in being attracted to older men. The other theory I have is that aside from girls looking for father figures there is also a percentage of girls (unfortunately) that grow up with mothers that are only looking for a man who can provide them with financial stability. No one wants to admit it but there are women like this. These girls suddenly realize that they can date a guy their own age who has absolutely nothing or they can date an older guy and he already has a house, a car, a job, he is able to take care of her and she has to do nothing at all. In that sense he can also play a father figure to her as well. IT takes all the work out of having to grow up and be responsible and provide for ones self.
  • Wow this thread has grown since its original question, and a lot of good opinions. There are women out there who use guys to get pregnant, have kids, then alienate them not realizing their daughters grow up at 14 wanting a 30 year old. It's a sign of the times. My advice, don't add to this by being that older guy or younger girl and dating that far out. If you feel like your attraction is to the big age difference then so be it, but what will your children be like if you do so?
  • Yea I agree. And if my daughter choses to date someone much older i would be ok, but the laws and society arent. The persecution and problems that follow such behavior can ultimately destroy a family. Too bad too, but statutory rape laws were written by those who find it disgusting and want to keep their children from being both married off or pregnant at a young age.
  • It sounds to me, like your question should stem from your view of the teenage girls in where you witnessed this type of attraction. Otherwise, the question is too broad, with too many possible sinario's to be practical to answer correctly.
  • The questions is, "IS it ok for teenagers to be attracted to older men, being late 20's and older? Is it ok for older men, age 20, 30 or 40 something to be attracted to teen girls? Just from MYself asking others in person, attractions are totally normal, as long as there aren't any illegal sexual activities, consentual or not. I have asked some teen girls who I am friends or acquainted with who say older men ARE more mature overall...sexually or not. If I am attracted to a teen girl, I'll just start talking like a good friend or compliment on what they're wearing. All they do is smile and say thanks. Another teen girl who I am friends with is very pretty and still a virgin, but deals with personal rapdi arousal issues. She KNOWS sex is for after marriage and absolutely won't go that far. Her and I talk about personal issues, because she doesn't want to approach her parents about it and trusts the older guys in our social group for help. Also to add, she is more mature than teens her age.
  • My 17 year old just said "ewwwww...yuck...that's not true." I think the ones that are must have "daddy" issues.
  • Well I can say that I am 16 soon to be 17 and I find myself attracted to much older guys... People say that im looking for a "father figure" but that is not the case at all. My manager at work is about 55 and I am very attracted to him...
  • im a 19 year old woman and i have just had a baby with a man of 36. He lied when we met decieved me in every way possible..every week he had a birthday. there were children with multiple women, marriages, divorces. Needless to say the man had much more than baggage... more like bondage. I cannot imagine what was going through his mind.... although around his friends that were his age or older i would hear him reger to me as "fresh meat". so i am guessing it was an ego thing or control thing. He was also very violent. So girls beware of men like this that are lurking out there just waiting for a girl to think that their jelousy is flattering when its frightning. I thank the Lord every day for my son but i believe that i was taken advantage of not phisically but mentally. I was 17 when i met him and when i found every thing out it was too late. He has lived his life already and was robbing me of mine and my experiences by playing mind games with my head that he knew he'd won because hes done this many a time already with how many other women God only knows. Point is he was selfish.... girls this is not flattering RUN when this comes by you.
  • ew. im 16 && im not attracted to them. unless you count like thinking george clooney & some older male actors are hot. lol. but i have a 18 yr old bf. and maybe some of them are just cause theyre idiots.
  • Christ! I'm not!
  • These older guys must represent power, money and success, I guess..I personally wouldn't want a wrinkly, jowly, wheezing old guy anywhere near me if I were a cute young gal. That would be gross..ewwww..yuck. :) Happy Thursday! :)
  • i think well i like older men and i'm 16 i just think its the fact that they've been around and know what their doing most of the time and i could count on him more then someone my own age and things sometimes are better with age lol and also the fact that they would know how to make me happy like in bed hehe=)
  • I see here that most teenage girls look for maturity in older men. I see teenagers starting their lives out, learning new values and morals for themselves. I see a lot of women my age or slightly younger who have already committed to men, sexually and maritally, to the point of separation and divorce. I prefer meeting girls as friends more than anything, just so I don't become a divorce/separation statistic and screw up my own emotions. I get along well with teenagers in my social circle and they all know I"m friendly and casual, not demanding and desperate for a relationship with them.
  • for my experiences i would say because they are more mature and serious...and they already know life they've experienced many things in different prospectives... ...
  • I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 51....I meet him when I was 15 and we started dating the day I turned 18. I fell for him because he actually cares about me and takes care of all my needs.
  • do you think that is is ok for a 18 year old girl to have a long term realationship with a 59 year old man?
  • well......i am not sure why, but personaly i find them sexualy attractive. there are also guys my age that arouse the same feeling in me, but the fact that the older men are much wiser and make better desicions adds to their attraction. i also dont know why i like doing things for a man...like catering to him...i dont know if that is a diseas....i feel like i have too much of a sex drive for someone my age...i am 17. is there something wrong with me...medically?
  • i like older guys because they are more experinced and i can learn a thing or too about them so thats why i date older guys
  • im 16 years old and im very attracted to old men also, i find them more experienced and nice, I've never been in a relationship with1 but i wanna try!
  • i am because i feel like they would be more experienced and nice, im attracted 2 older men but I've never been with 1, if anyone knows how i can attract them and what to do then please let me no!
  • They don't know any better!
  • one of the most amazing people i have ever met are in their early 30s... Age is often irrelevant when it comes to attraction. I think its because maybe older men very often have better, more structured builds, and have had a longer time to look after themselves and understand their women ;) But of course its not just 30+, i am less attracted to guys my own age though... Its just how nature works
  • You wish.
  • Maybe its just a natural thing, because for hundreds of years families would make their daughters marry older men to give them a better life. Even if they didn't want a good life!!!
  • The answer is simple. Men around our age act less mature than most girls our age. We want a man who is sophisticated, educated, and mature. A man anywhere from 12 years older to 45 gives us that pleasure of the ideal attraction.
  • I'd guess that they're seen as a father figure.
  • I'm a 37 year old male, so I can speak from my own experience only. Many younger ladies enjoy the company of older men because lads of your own age usually don't know what they want, when they want it and what they're going to do when they have it. Older gents do. We've been there and moved past that stage when we've figured it out. I also think that some people are getting love and making love mixed up - there is a massive difference.
  • I think there's two different reasons for this. 1. many have not had a father figure in life and seek this out through a romantic relationship with an older man. 2. some have figured out they can date an older man who is already established, has a home and a job and a good income and they themselves will be a kept woman and not need to work or do anything. Instead of dating a guy their own age, working and slowly buying furniture, etc like others do they just go from living at home to living with sugar daddy.
  • well from me and my experiance..older men only wanted me for fantasy....but when it came down to emptions and feelings...and all that complicated stuff they get scared..and dont know how to handle these feelings they have in front of them..which men neeeeeed to know this is vital to us yunger lady women girl...if we dont see that in you it scares us away...so men buck up to (its ok to have emotions)......
  • because of your primal need to secure a "nest" to continue the bloodline to allow the human race to survive...an older man taps into that part of your brain to let you know this is a good candidate to do this....
  • Truth is, most girls that age are "not" attracted to older men. Your fantasy, maybe? Or, imagination? Probably. Most girls in this age range would be horrified at the idea. In my experience the only girls interested in "much" older men don't have a father, or don't have a good relationship with their father, or they have been sexually abused. In fact, the only young woman I knew that was attracted to much older men had been sexually abused by her father from the time she was five years old. Then again, it could be the money factor. Or more the "attention factor", than attraction. Ask any pedophile.
  • MAINLY, because their mom and dads FAILED in responsibililities and their childs self esteem and securities....WHY would a boy or girl allowed theirself to be SEDUCED by teachers with no 'character "?????? because those 'teachers' weren't raised any better either..... its peer pressure......and underage should NOT BE allowed by parents to go above their maturity,age, status...it was one of my WORST mistakes with my daughter ..too young and too early...i DID not make this mistake with my son...now , my DAUGHTER will not make it with her son....... one example; since he was 6, older ballteams have wanted him to play with him....she will never allow it....he stays with his age.....i started her off with a team ,2 yrs. older.....she wanted to run around and act 2 yrs. older....i did not see the harm......til too late....thatsJustme:)

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