This question is not offensive at all but I don't find it to be erotic but to each is own

I personally think 2 men together is TOTALLY hot (in fact I tease my bf about finding him a male playmate so I can watch/join in), but for the most part I find that it IS a double standard. Most women I know- hell, most PEOPLE I know think male gayness is disgusting, while those same people think female gayness is unnatural at worst, and the epitome of sexiness at best. I may not be the best person to answer this, though- as a bisexual female I don't really see a difference. You also gotta keep in mind that, ESPECIALLY when dealing with sex, what floats one person's boat will sink that of the next. What one considers erotic is HIGHLY personal. So as long as they're not making nasty commentary at or physically assaulting gay people who are affectionate in public, they're allowed not to be aroused by it. ^_^

I know several women who do, actually. Certainly it isn't all women, but it isn't uncommon from what I understand. I also think that there is a double standard. I had several exes who suggested a threesome, and I wholeheartedly agreed. I asked where we'd find the other guy. I also had several exes who said they wanted to watch me have sex with a female, as it would really turn them on. I told them that I wanted to watch them have sex with a guy, as it would really turn me on. In both cases, I mostly got blank stares of confusion and, "that's effing sick," as a response. I have no idea why guys think it is ok to say/ask things like that of women, but the reverse is unthinkable.

"To each his own" I believe in making yourself happy, as long as there's no criminal activity involved. I also think some prude people might be offended by your question. Just don't mind them. But if someone bitches around here, just tell me, I will go after them. What are trolls for?

I find any two attractive people together erotic whatever their genders. I find seeing two attractive guys together sexy, and I find two attractive girls together sexy too- sex is just sexy... I think there are quite a lot of women who find homoerotica a turn on - it's just that most porn is aimed at a male audience, so we don't get to know about it as much.

Whatever floats your boat, I guess..

i'd imagine they do

Yes there is. I on the other hand think that seeing two women together is fine, But two men together is just so HOT. There is nothing so erotic to me as seeing two men in a gentle embrace, kissing.

I was having this discussion with a friend just the other day. Personally I don't find two men together attractive at all, I find it a bit of a turn off actually. I'm predominantly straight, I go for guys, however I do find two women together very sexy. I have had the odd threesome with one man present but I don't think I'd ever consider having a threesome with two men, that just really doesn't appeal to me. (btw- my friend who I was having this discussion with does find two men together attractive, so there are some women)

No, I do not find it attractive when two men are together.. whether that is having been raised that it is "wrong" and that still sits somewhere in my brain.. I am not sure. I guess being taught it is wrong.. then hardly ever seeing or hearing it until these past years.. it is just not something I am use to. I really do not try and think on it to be honest. I want people to be with who they want and I want to be with who I want so I believe in the whole live and let live. I love people but whatever their sexuality is.. really is not something I seek to know because I do not think it is my business.. but gay or straight I am not less loving towards them. I have walked in on two men before when I lived downtown back in my early twenties and this house was split into two apartments. My neighbor was a gay guy who I adored and we got a little too comfy living so close.. we would knock and come in at the same time.. borrow stuff... watch movies together.. it was nice.. until one evening he came to borrow something and I was in the shower and he yelled "come over later if you want" .. so after the shower and some dinner.. I headed over, knocked and entered.. and walked into the living room and WHAM. I am not going to lie.. I just stood there as if in fascination or something. They even started laughing because I just stood there.. I do not find it sexy at all. It looked brutal! and... I see men as strong and masculine.. that did not seem masculine to me.. to ME anyways.. but to some it obviously does.. so to each their own! As far as women.. well I was young once and I had the chick thing happen but again.. not something I really dig. I think women are beautiful and sexy but together in an intimate setting? Kissing one on the mouth? Ah.. Nah.

As a bisexual female, my view may be a bit skewed, as opposed to a completely hetero- or homosexual. Seeing two guys together doesn't really get me excited, to be honest. Much like seeing a guy and a girl doesn't. But, undeniably, when I see two women... Well, you know. There's just something about it that is... amazingly sexy. In my opinion, anyways. But I know plenty of women who find two men together sexy, mostly completely straight women. They tend to have large yaoi collections, and if you're not sure what yaoi is, I'll give you a simple definition: sexually explicit japanese-style comics that involve male-on-male action. In any case, I don't think there's anything wrong with finding two men, two women, or other combinations sexually exciting. However, my view really isn't the majority; most people find male relationships more offensive than female, but there are more male homosexuals than female, statistically speaking, so... I'm a bit baffled, as much as I would be if someone didn't like two people of different ethnicities together. Do what you think is right, and you really can't go wrong. Don't let others opinions stop you from enjoying what you like, and you'll be able to be happy.

i find that two women together is sexy and more normal but two men together is just a total turn off and no offense intended but i find it disgusting as i beleive men are suppose to be masculan

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I've known bisexual women that thought two men together was a turn on.

I think that two women together is okay, but two men together is pretty hot. As with any situation like this, the more attractive the people involved, the better.

I love seeing two men together (hello, has anyone HATED "Brokeback"?? NOT!). Not only that, but I love reading 'slash' or "M/M" stories. To go one step farther, I have purchased novels which include slash as their main theme. My favorite male/male stories include spanking, so I guess I'm a perv twice over. As my biker friends say, "DILLIGAF?" bratlady