Do you think that you can cause someone to cheat on you? you know you don't give them enough attention.
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Of course not!!! It just shows that your partner has less faith to you than he/she was showing! Low moral character on their part is what causes them to cheat...
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Sounds like an excuse to me. If you weren't giving them enough attention, why didn't your partner speak up and try to resolve this issue, rather than going outside the relationship for attention? Cheaters will use any excuse - that doesn't mean that you have to buy their excuses.
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No, it's their choice. Deficits in the relationship can give them reasons but will not CAUSE them to cheat, which is ultimately a defect in moral fiber. In other words, it's about them, not something you did or did not do. If someone is unhappy in their relationship it's up to them to work on making it better or ending it and not becoming a cheater.
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In a situation like that, it seems like there is no communication...If there were, expressions and feelings would be exchanged and eachother would be understood and the necessary changes would then be made to keep that bond that got them together in the first place! :)
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Not cause but contribute. I heard from a radio sexologist that he most common reason for cheating is not sexual desire but lack of positive self image. When you don't appreciate your spouse but the other lover looks up to them and makes them feel special then that will make your spouse more likely to chose to cheat.
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No that is a choice they make all on their own...sometimes he/she will try to justify what they did because they weren't getting enough attention, not enough sex,blah blah blah blah.....no excuse is tolerable. You want out?....leave the relationship first them do what ever you want.
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No, they make that decision all by themselves. People w/weak character blame someone else for their actions.
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No there is no excuse for cheating. If you feel you are being neglected talk it over with your partner. If they blow you off keep trying. When you have had enough of being ignored don't cheat pack your stuff and leave them.
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If you're not getting what you need from the relationship, then why stay in the relationship? It is far less cruel to get out than it is to stay in and drag someone through the hell of cheating.
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Yes, usually its a clear sign that the relationship is not, or has not been working.
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I have seen situations where one or the other totally withholds ALL affection, and that could be a contributing factor, but it is never right to cheat. It if is unbearable, get out of the relationship. And, most of the other answers are correct. It IS low self esteem that makes people look elsewhere, most of the time. There is almost always someone out there who will give your spouse/partner what they feel they need that they are not getting from you. And, many times, that low self esteem will cause them to jump at other opportunities, because it makes them feel better about themselves. But, It is still NOT RIGHT. If the relationship is no good, get out of it. It causes too much damage to drag your family thru it. And, they ALWAYS find out.
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The Bible advises: Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." (1 Corinthians 7:5)
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