I am getting an all nude erotic massage for my wife should i let him penetrate her or just massage all over?
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bellman
ANSWERS: 35
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It depends on how comfortable you are with it. If you're ok, then it's up to him and her. :)
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Accually, if you are going to an erotic massage place him penatrating her would be prostitution. Most places (at least in my area) are very closely watched for that sort of thing. Given that this is an option for you, you and your wife need to decide what you are comfortable with. Are you going to look down on her if she lets him penatrate her? If so, she probably shouldn't do it. This is more of a limit of what you are comfortable letting her do. This is a cool gift idea, and I hope your wife has a great time, whatever you two decide. Best of luck!
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speak to your good lady... openly... 100% open... talk through all the options and then make the decision. By doing that then there should be ;ittle or no confusion afterwards, but perhaps you should both agree that if neither of you are comfortable with it then it shouldn't go ahead right up until the point where he is about to enter her.
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I think both, first start with massage all over ,then let him penetrate her
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I think it very much time on the circumstances at the time of the massage.Putting myself in your position the fact that you are prepared to encourage her to have an erotic massage means that you must be comfortable with another man seeing and touching her naked so my view would be, if she becomes aroused and is obviously ready for sex then why not let him penetrate her and, hopefully, bring her to orgasm? Certainly I would recommend he uses a condom but other than that what is the problem? Why not just "go with the flow" as they say, and allow things to develop one way or the other.After all sex, in it's own right, is not love and has no bearing on whether you love someone or not. It is a bodily need that has to be satisfied like hunger etc. Good Luck whichever way it goes.
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How sweet of you to get this for her! I say if you're okay with it, let him penetrate her. She will be so thankful that she'll probably do some freaky stuff for you too.
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i think if she feels and like it better allow her to do. if the man can touch her all over body, why he cn not do service full. If i were i would allowed her and encourage her to do .just for funi
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i would say yes. better do. and encourage her to do.
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No! she might not show or tell you, but she will loose respect for you. Allow her to experience orgasms, after it all it is all about her, right? Who cares about him, its what he does. Save the penetration part to be special between you and her. She will feel special knowing that you want to be her one and only.
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This is just my opinion, but I say NO. It could cause major problems later, and if you were a real man you would not even consider this. Youre married remember. Did you say your vows in front of GOD???
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bellman--why not give your wife an extra special treat and let mr giggy man massuese go all the way and be sure that he wears a jimmy hat.
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It wouldn't be fair not to let him penetrate her. She will be aroused by all his attention, and I would hope soaking wet, so she will need a release. Think of it this way, if you were with a girl that got you all horny and then didn't let you finish, wouldn't that drive you crazy? No, you have to be fair to her, and let her have all the pleasure I am sure you want for her. My wife has had many many men, and she enjoys them all, and I encourage completion. Sex is sex, and love is love, and they are not even connected really.
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ofcourse you should let him penetrate her if not what is the point ?
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i think its u who must penetrate her !!!!!
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It is going to be a thrill for her and she will never see him again so let him do her
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Not if she doesn't want to. Let him start massaging her from back- neck to back to butt to legs. Let him ask her to turn over completely nude and continue massaging her boobs, tummy and pubs. By then you'd know whether to let him go all the way or not...
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If you are both comfortable with it by all means go ahead and let him penetrate her, after all it's not like she is going to see him again, the alternative is to have a female masuse to give her an erotic masage, that way there is a female/female penetration, it's what you are both comfortable with.
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let him penetate and massage her all over so your wife can enjoy it so she may feel better
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NO This is so so wrong. What the hell are you guys talking about???? Doesnt your marriage vows mean anything to you guys? Pathetic if you ask me. Massage yes but as soon as it turns erotic this is crossing the line of infidelity & Adultery. Sex is the closest thing a husband and wife can do but not any fricken stranger! No Fricken way! You may as well go and get a divorce and sleep around. If this is acceptable to anybody your all nuts, no wonder this society is falling apart.
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It is called an erotic massage for a reason. Reason being, if he is in tune with what makes her feel good and she would get so wet.... Wouldn't it be like if you had one with a woman stroking your throbbing high-hard-one in her warm, soft, oiled hands... Then she said ok- time is up. I say if he can get her there, let him finish the job. Do you want her frusterated or happy when she cums back to see you?
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Surely you are going to get turned on by another male touching your wife.I think you are asking approval for this guy to mount her.Yes?True?
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I suggest you do whatever works for you. You could draw the line at the massage and then you finish her off, you could draw the line at him fingering her and getting her off, or you can allow the act to go all the way and he actually fucks her. I think the big thing to remember her is what SHE WANTS? If she wants him to fuck her, then fine (if you are fine with it). Difficult one ---
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Do you want her to cheat on you and possibly get an STD?
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You and your wife should discuss this and if it is alright with both of you then give the massuse permission to do so...this should come from you the husband to give the permission for him to penetrate her.
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YOUR WIFE ALSO HAVE FEELINGS.IF U R OKAY I PENETRATE HER AND MAKE COMFORT...,
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I let my wife have one and she did it all. He put is cock in her mouth and in her pussy. He came in both of them and she seemed pleased
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Why? Did she ask for it? Does this turn her on or just you? Fantasy is great (I know), but the real thing can be abusive (emotionally) If she is reserved and just likes to play along for your benefit then I'd say no. Save the actual sex for yourselves.
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Old questions never die - this guy was a 1 month stand here on AB back in 2007, with almost no activity.
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there existed an internal desire in mostly all ladies that male barbers should massage her breasts and body but they can not fulfill their desire bcause of non permitting by their husbands to get such massage from strange men.however most ladies get their breasts massage from their hairdressers while going to hair cutting salons for getting their hair dressing / shampoo/ colouring/ undershaving/ etc where they sit in the chairs before barbers in nuded position upto navl areas with exposing thei breasts.Husbands should not restricted in it and they should allow their wives to get nuded massage from male barbers once in a month to delight their wives.your wives will be much enjoyed on getting nude massaging from male barbers and specially when male barbers draw milk from their breast and their breasts will become most healthy,beautiful in big,most stiffed, uplifted ,errected and conical pointed shape.and your wives will look most beautiful and handsome.
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There existed an internal desire in all the ladies that male barbers should do their full body nude massaging and breast massaging and should get penetrate from their male barber.Hence husband should not made any restrictiions and they should allow their wives to get such services from their male barbers so that their wives breasts should becme most beautiful.errected and in uplifted positio and their should get under shave from such male barbers. Zarina Begum
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on one side,you are getting nude massaging of your wife from a male masseur then what shyness or hesitation has left if your male masseur should get fuck your wife and she will much enjoy on t if any body fuck her very hard hence i think that the husband should let male masseur to fuck you wife.there is no matter of shyness or hesitation. zeinat bai
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you are getting nude massagng of your wife from male masseur and you have let male masseurs to do nude massaging of your wife but what obstruction has left if you let male masseur to penetrate your wife so that your wife should should enjoy on getting such erotic nude massage from male masseur.in this nude massaging every week,your wife breasts will develop very well to become stiffed and in upliftingand errected position.Hence you should let male masseur to penetrate your wife without any hesitation and shyness.Zarina
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when you are getting a nude massaging of your wife from a male person then shyness have baen left behinde and why you are hesitating to get penetrate your wife from the same person.Hence I advise you to get penetrate your wife also so that she should enjoy and become relaxed.Zaitoon @ hilltop express.com
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on one side,you are getting nude massaging of your wife and on other side,you are hesitating to get penertrate your wife.i suggest you to let the male masseur/barber to fuck hard your wife and she will enjoy very much as she is enjoying on getting her nude massaging from male barber/male masseur.However I am an expert male barber and masseur of ladies haircutting,undershaving,breasts massaging and full body nude massaging of ladies.if you are willing to get good haircutting,undershaving,breasts and nipple massaging and full body nude massaging and penerteration of your wife,then visit my salon in bombay.I will do her erotic service upto her satisfaction. BOOTA NAI ,Ladies hair dresser and breasts massager,marwari bazar bombay
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mutual consent you & your wife...
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