I am getting an all nude erotic massage for my wife should i let him penetrate her or just massage all over?

It wouldn't be fair not to let him penetrate her. She will be aroused by all his attention, and I would hope soaking wet, so she will need a release. Think of it this way, if you were with a girl that got you all horny and then didn't let you finish, wouldn't that drive you crazy? No, you have to be fair to her, and let her have all the pleasure I am sure you want for her. My wife has had many many men, and she enjoys them all, and I encourage completion. Sex is sex, and love is love, and they are not even connected really.

How sweet of you to get this for her! I say if you're okay with it, let him penetrate her. She will be so thankful that she'll probably do some freaky stuff for you too.

No! she might not show or tell you, but she will loose respect for you. Allow her to experience orgasms, after it all it is all about her, right? Who cares about him, its what he does. Save the penetration part to be special between you and her. She will feel special knowing that you want to be her one and only.

Accually, if you are going to an erotic massage place him penatrating her would be prostitution. Most places (at least in my area) are very closely watched for that sort of thing.

Given that this is an option for you, you and your wife need to decide what you are comfortable with. Are you going to look down on her if she lets him penatrate her? If so, she probably shouldn't do it. This is more of a limit of what you are comfortable letting her do.

This is a cool gift idea, and I hope your wife has a great time, whatever you two decide. Best of luck!

I let my wife have one and she did it all. He put is cock in her mouth and in her pussy. He came in both of them and she seemed pleased

It is called an erotic massage for a reason. Reason being, if he is in tune with what makes her feel good and she would get so wet.... Wouldn't it be like if you had one with a woman stroking your throbbing high-hard-one in her warm, soft, oiled hands... Then she said ok- time is up. I say if he can get her there, let him finish the job. Do you want her frusterated or happy when she cums back to see you?

let him penetate and massage her all over so your wife can enjoy it so she may feel better

As a professional masseur who gives married women "sensual" massages (usually for out of town couples) at least 6-7 times a year, I can assure you that the clients' expectations in connection with these events...approaching 100%...is full sexual intercourse between the masseur and the wife. Anything short of this is quite rare. Many of my clients have explained that such an event, rather than being viewed as an outrageous act of infidelity and a violation of sacred marriage vows, is actually, to the married couple, an extention of the love and absolute trust they have in each other. The role of the masseur can vary greatly, but as a general rule there is absolutely no kissing, (nobody wants what even appears to be emotional involvement)and I have learned that the husband is generally more excited by witnessing the enormity of the pleasure his wife's vagina gives to my cock, that seeing the pleasure his wife receives from my cock. Thus, during intercourse I almost always verbalize how good the wife is making my cock feel and as I approach my own orgasm I tell the husband that I can't stand the pleasure his wife is giving my cock any longer and ask his permission to cum inside his wife's vagina.

If you are like almost eveyone else who explores this venue....plan from the beginning, but only with your wife's consent, for her to be fully penetrated by another mans cock and plan on watching as he ejaculates his sperm deeply inside her spasming vagina. I am told by my clients that it a wickedly delicious and memorable event. Since most don't go down this road very often and for many it will be a one time only event, find a masseur who is not camera shy and bring the video cam for many years of erotic memories. Good luck and if you want any advice or are looking for a masseur contact me at bill10231@yahoo.com

YOUR WIFE ALSO HAVE FEELINGS.IF U R OKAY I PENETRATE HER AND MAKE COMFORT...,

I suggest you do whatever works for you. You could draw the line at the massage and then you finish her off, you could draw the line at him fingering her and getting her off, or you can allow the act to go all the way and he actually fucks her. I think the big thing to remember her is what SHE WANTS? If she wants him to fuck her, then fine (if you are fine with it).

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NO This is so so wrong. What the hell are you guys talking about???? Doesnt your marriage vows mean anything to you guys? Pathetic if you ask me. Massage yes but as soon as it turns erotic this is crossing the line of infidelity & Adultery.

Sex is the closest thing a husband and wife can do but not any fricken stranger! No Fricken way! You may as well go and get a divorce and sleep around.

If this is acceptable to anybody your all nuts, no wonder this society is falling apart.

i think its u who must penetrate her !!!!!

It depends on how comfortable you are with it. If you're ok, then it's up to him and her. :)

that's a very simple question. NO !!! Everyone on here that says yes just showed how weak, uncreative, and unwise they are to let their wives make love with another man. That will only hurt you and your marrage. A few suggestions: buy a portabale massage table(80 bucks ebay) and put an 8x8 triple coated tarp under it(be as messy as you like and tarp doesn't crankle) get some sweet almond oil or any other natural oil, use on her whole body. Buy a micro binini for her to wear while you massage her. Role Play like you are just a massause. By dual Hitachi massage wands with some attachments and maybe some cuffs and restraints. Get some basic and advanced sex lesson dvd's and practice on each other to learn the techniques. Have her wear a blind fold and wear a doctor love or dynamic penis extension which rolls over your entire penis and suctions on(i own 2, works great), your options of adding 1, 2, 3, or 4 inches, thickness, or big head of realistic penis will put a big smile on her face. Maybe wear a ribbed condom over it. Wear something sexy for her, cut off must the hear or maybe ALL body hair, use some tan lotion after. Buy some different hair color wigs and match them with an outfit(cheerleader with blonde pigtail wig/ebay). Cook her the best dinner you can and make love on the dinner table during or after. Ect Ect....... there is no end to a good creative loving marraige. Just never give up(have another man please her, That means you are not a good husband.

yes she needs it my wife had one and she totally enjoyed

My wife and I have actually TALKED about this - getting her an erotic massage from an attractive male masseuse - PREFERABLY with her totally in the nude - and I've told her I'd like for it to INCLUDE an orgasm for her - whether by penetration from him or him just manipulating her with his hands ! She says she doesn't have to be naked or have an orgasm to enjoy the massage ! ( The reality is she's a bit self conscientious about being naked in front of another man - although she SHOULDN'T be - she has a GREAT body ! She's also said she'd be embarrassed to have an orgasm with another man because she's so vocal - I've assured her that it's a TURN ON for a man when a woman becomes vocal during an orgasm ! ) She's very passionate sexually and admits the THOUGHT of having sex with an attractive male masseuse after an erotic massage turns her on - but she's still reluctant to actually DO it ! If YOUR wife is WILLING to have the masseuse penetrate her and bring her to an orgasm as a part of the massage you absolutely SHOULD "let him" - for your WIFE'S pleasure ! I've HAD a massage from a female masseuse that DID include an orgasm ( even though she just jacked me off ) - I've tried to TELL my wife how pleasurable it was to have an orgasm after being so totally relaxed - and that I really WANT her to have that experience ! My wife is THINKING about it - if your wife is willing you should do it !

My wife wanted this for her anniversary gift. The Massuer was atractive to her. He gave her a long massage with oil, and rubbing her inner thighs. She laid her hands to the side and let his cock hit her hand. She felt his big hard cock and started stroking it. Next thing I know she is sucking him off. Then he got on her and put in inside her, she went wild. He must have been at least 9". Then she wanted me to come over and join.

My husband arrange one for me as a birthday surprise. He had watched me have a topless massage on the beach when on holiday in Goa and was very turned on by it.I
Afterwards I admitted to him that I wished he had gone inside my thong as was so turned on by it. He had met the guy before hand and told him the guide lines.
I was rather nervous but the excitement soon calm my nerves down. we sat and chatted for a while and had a couple of drinks before undressing down to my bra and thong. I laid face down on the massage table and he undid my bra and began the massage. after 20 mins or so he asked me to turn over and he massaged my boobs. before moving down to to my thong and slipping his fingers in it and I asked him to take it off revelling my pussy to him. He made me cum so many times I lost count but hubby reconed it was more than ten.
as hubby had laid down the ground rules before hand only his fingers went in me but he was naked and I did hold his cock some of the time. He asked if it was OK if he masturbated over me which I was more than happy for him to do and the massage finished off with him rubbing a load of cum all over me. A real birthaday treat to remember. So it was fun for all with no cock penetration

My husband arrange one for me as a birthday surprise. He had watched me have a topless massage on the beach when on holiday in Goa and was very turned on by it.I
Afterwards I admitted to him that I wished he had gone inside my thong as was so turned on by it. He had met the guy before hand and told him the guide lines.
I was rather nervous but the excitement soon calm my nerves down. we sat and chatted for a while and had a couple of drinks before undressing down to my bra and thong. I laid face down on the massage table and he undid my bra and began the massage. after 20 mins or so he asked me to turn over and he massaged my boobs. before moving down to to my thong and slipping his fingers in it and I asked him to take it off revelling my pussy to him. He made me cum so many times I lost count but hubby reconed it was more than ten.
as hubby had laid down the ground rules before hand only his fingers went in me but he was naked and I did hold his cock some of the time. He asked if it was OK if he masturbated over me which I was more than happy for him to do and the massage finished off with him rubbing a load of cum all over me. A real birthaday treat to remember. So it was fun for all with no cock penetration

there existed an internal desire in mostly all ladies that male barbers should massage her breasts and body but they can not fulfill their desire bcause of non permitting by their husbands to get such massage from strange men.however most ladies get their breasts massage from their hairdressers while going to hair cutting salons for getting their hair dressing / shampoo/ colouring/ undershaving/ etc where they sit in the chairs before barbers in nuded position upto navl areas with exposing thei breasts.Husbands should not restricted in it and they should allow their wives to get nuded massage from male barbers once in a month to delight their wives.your wives will be much enjoyed on getting nude massaging from male barbers and specially when male barbers draw milk from their breast and their breasts will become most healthy,beautiful in big,most stiffed, uplifted
,errected and conical pointed shape.and your wives will look most beautiful and handsome.

Why? Did she ask for it? Does this turn her on or just you? Fantasy is great (I know), but the real thing can be abusive (emotionally) If she is reserved and just likes to play along for your benefit then I'd say no. Save the actual sex for yourselves.

You and your wife should discuss this and if it is alright with both of you then give the massuse permission to do so...this should come from you the husband to give the permission for him to penetrate her.

Do you want her to cheat on you and possibly get an STD?

Surely you are going to get turned on by another male touching your wife.I think you are asking approval for this guy to mount her.Yes?True?

It is going to be a thrill for her and she will never see him again so let him do her

I think it very much time on the circumstances at the time of the massage.Putting myself in your position the fact that you are prepared to encourage her to have an erotic massage means that you must be comfortable with another man seeing and touching her naked so my view would be, if she becomes aroused and is obviously ready for sex then why not let him penetrate her and, hopefully, bring her to orgasm? Certainly I would recommend he uses a condom but other than that what is the problem? Why not just "go with the flow" as they say, and allow things to develop one way or the other.After all sex, in it's own right, is not love and has no bearing on whether you love someone or not. It is a bodily need that has to be satisfied like hunger etc.
Good Luck whichever way it goes.

mutual consent you & your wife...

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Of course you should let him fuck her.....unless she does not want him to.....

Wife and I both got a nude massage from a bi guy....she loved both of us at once and wants to do it again and again....lucky me

I can tell you from Experience that if you're letting her have an erotic massage and she agrees to it, then she will definitely also appreciate the man having sex with her. Just keep in mind that you cannot be jealous afterwards and use it against her because that would be seriously unfair. Keep in mind that she is not cheating on you, she's putting on a show for you and the situation is turning her on even more than the act of having another man.

The ideal situation would be if you were with her in the room and just touched her and continued massaging her while he has sex with her, because then you're sharing the experience.

I organised one for my wife, expecting only that she had a good massage. When she asked that I come into the room while she opened up to him, I was taken aback, and hesitated. By the time I was taken in by the receptionist some time later, I found my wife in the throws of a full on act, and enjoying every moment of it.
As she explained later, at her age (59) she wasnt going to pass up the opportunity.

Yes, go for it. Let her do what she is comfortable with. Its not your call.

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It's up to her. I get sensual massage and sometimes I take his penis and sometimes I don't, sometimes I take it in my mouth and sometimes I take it in my vagina and othertimes, it's a nice handjob with him cuming on my tits or my ass. Again, it depends on my mood and it is up to me...you shouldn't "let" her or not "let" her but rather, let it be her call. You should just enjoy the show and be glad your wife is opened and honest about what she wants.

you are getting nude massagng of your wife from male masseur and you have let male masseurs to do nude massaging of your wife but what obstruction has left if you let male masseur to penetrate your wife so that your wife should should enjoy on getting such erotic nude massage from male masseur.in this nude massaging every week,your wife breasts will develop very well to become stiffed and in upliftingand errected position.Hence you should let male masseur to penetrate
your wife without any hesitation and shyness.Zarina

It is up your wife - go with the flow. She may prefer to let you penetrate her and - if you both agree - let her wank the masseur, Agree the ground rules before you go - I don't want to sound clinical but it will avoid problems later - P x

speak to your good lady... openly... 100% open... talk through all the options and then make the decision. By doing that then there should be ;ittle or no confusion afterwards, but perhaps you should both agree that if neither of you are comfortable with it then it shouldn't go ahead right up until the point where he is about to enter her.

I think both, first start with massage all over ,then let him penetrate her

i think if she feels and like it better allow her to do. if the man can touch her all over body, why he cn not do service full. If i were i would allowed her and encourage her to do .just for funi

If I were you, I wouldn't want him to do her. I would like him to leave her hot and aroused so that I can take over and have a memorable ending for me and my wife. I would love to see her enjoy the massage, but I won't like to see her do it with him.

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it depends how secure you are in your marriage. me personally I would let someone do my wife if it was mutual that I did some other woman..it could be a very erotic experience and if your wife is into that I say...hats off to you.. good luck

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i would say yes. better do. and encourage her to do.

This is just my opinion, but I say NO. It could cause major problems later, and if you were a real man you would not even consider this. Youre married remember. Did you say your vows in front of GOD???

Old questions never die - this guy was a 1 month stand here on AB back in 2007, with almost no activity.

There existed an internal desire in all the ladies that male barbers should do their full body nude massaging and breast massaging and should get penetrate from their male barber.Hence husband should not made any restrictiions and they should allow their wives to get such services from their male barbers so that their wives breasts should becme most beautiful.errected and in uplifted positio and their should get under shave from such male barbers. Zarina Begum

on one side,you are getting nude massaging of your wife from a male masseur then what shyness or hesitation has left if your male masseur should get fuck your wife and she will much enjoy on t if any body fuck her very hard hence i think that the husband should let male masseur to fuck you wife.there is no matter of shyness or hesitation. zeinat bai

If you are both comfortable with it by all means go ahead and let him penetrate her, after all it's not like she is going to see him again, the alternative is to have a female masuse to give her an erotic masage, that way there is a female/female penetration, it's what you are both comfortable with.