Which do you think is harder, realizing you haven't changed, or realizing you have?
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euneirophrenia
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For me just changing has been hard but its a good thing I have.
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At times in my life, I've achieved states of being that I cherished and tried to hold onto with every ounce of myself, only to feel those wonderous times and perspectives and feelings fade away from me like fog in the sunlight. And sometimes, I've just had to come to terms with the fact that I still had a lot of issues that I haven't worked out, no matter how much I'd tried to or even thought I had. And often, I would find myself at the empass of only being able to change for better by giving up things about myself by sacrificing things I didn't want to. By themselves, changing or staying the same as a person can be very difficult and painful, depending on the specific circumstanes. But in my experience, that empass of trying to juggle both can be a hundred times worse than either.
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