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  • The person you love arguing with you everyday. That would lead to a brake up faster. :(
  • Ignoring because you could never figure out what was wrong.
  • I would say that ignoring, "Lack of communication" would be worse.
  • ignoring..at least if you are arguing you are comunicating :)
  • I think whichever one it is, you are definitely with the wrong person. Arguing all the time or being ignored all the time is not being loved any of the time.
  • Ignoring... that is a really messed up thing to do. Arguing at least makes it where no problems are built up
  • Ignoring for sure, that drives me insane. If you can't be mature enough to discuss something with me then why are we even in a relationship?
  • Being ignored would be far worse. Ambivalence demonstrates no feeling. At least arguing shows they are listening to your opinion, whether agreed upon or not.
  • I hate to be ignored, at least when your arguing you are communicating.
  • i would say being ignored. because you don't know what is happening, you don't know what the person is thinking at least with arguing you have an idea of what is happening.
  • being ignored, just not interesting
  • Right now I would pay to be ignored. LOL
  • Ignoring me...
  • Being ignored... It would drive me completely nuts!!! At least when you argue, there's some degree of communication... Actually, I can think of one thing even worse... Them not returning your love at all....
  • The latter by far.
  • As much as I dislike arguing, I lose my mind whenever my wife ignores me. ANYTHING but that!
  • Being ignored, we pretty much argue every day as it is and I hate being ignored!
  • i rather have someone to argue with than them ignoring me because it shows they care about something?????
  • I vote for someone arguing with me would rather have someone argue with me than ignore me
  • Oh God. Both of those are depressing. Can't make a choice sorry. Maybe if the arguments were very small ones and could be resolved easily...
  • ignoring me. at least if we are arguing, we are communicating. and if we are communicating, then maybe we will be able to resolve some issues.
  • Both are bad.
  • ignoring me, because then if i have someone arguing at least i am getting something
  • Being ignored is ten times worse. At least there is a chance of figuring out the problem if you're arguing and communicating.
  • I've lived both and it's worse to be ignored. Being ignored is living in an emotional wasteland.
  • Being ignored is alot worse, my partner ignored me for a whole week and i lost half a stone because of it.
  • Being ignored....arguing shows that they're passionate about you...
  • They are equal. I would pack my bags and move to Canada. Before i left, i would introduce each one of these parties to the other and let them work it out.
  • believe me....arguing is way better....hurts less
  • I hate arguing, but being ignored is bad, too. Short term..I think I would choose to be ignored, it's quieter anyway.
  • Ignoring, definitely. Without their attention, be it negitive or positive, you feel unloved. Besides, if you really love each other, the argueing will always be about little things that you can forgive each other for. Otherwise, argueing everyday would suck too. Maybe I just hate being ignored, lol.
  • Ignorance is bliss but very killing in relationships involving hearts
  • Being ignored is painful
  • FOR US FUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP PEOPLE NEITHER ARE GREAT. BUT I WOULD SAY BEING IGNORED BECAUSE THATS LETTING YOU KNOW WHERE THE PERSON IS MENTALLY THAT THEY ARE JUST TIRED. ONCE SOMEONE STOPS HAVING AN OPINION ABOUT THINGS A JUST RATHER NOT DISGUST IT THE RELATIONSHIP IS GONE BECAUSE THERE AT THE POINT WHERE THEY JUST DONT CARE ANY MORE. IF YOUR ARGUEING ALOT THEN YOU NEED TO RE-EVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE IF YOU DONT ONE OR BOTH OF YOU WILL GET TO THAT POINT WHERE YOU RATHER NOT BE BOTHERED AND AT THAT POINT THE RELATIONSHIP IS FOR THE MOST PART DONEZILLA.
  • Ignoring me! :O( I HATE that!
  • Being ignored really bites. Your mind runs and runs without finding a reason for being ignored. Making mountains out of molehills is an understatement when someone plays the silent game.
  • I'd rather be ignored. Thank God for boats and motorbikes :)
  • Being ignored. Focus. You whoo, right here.
  • If they are ignoring you they are probably TIRED of arguing with you. Would you really want to argue everyday? I'd Rather be ignored than constantly arguing!
  • Sometimes its hard trying to live up to another persons expectations of you. If one day you are wrong and you know it, wouldn't you want them to correct you rather than just have them agree with you on something that they know you are wrong about? When you argue with the one that you love, it shows that you are human and that you don't agree on anything, because if you agreed on everything there would be no angles to your relationship. When you want to have a long lasting relationship, just go with the flow, get upset, it’s natural. Ignoring the person you love will never fix the problem. Just know that you are human, and you are not perfect.
  • Ignoring you Everyday!
  • Ignoring you everyday is the WORST feeling in the world. I go thru it constantly!
  • arguing is a lot better! at least you have some contact and you know what is bothering each other
  • arguing is better, because you can make up... and you also know what is bothering each other
  • arguing is better than being ignored,you get to know how they think and how he feels about you.
  • i like it silent and be ignoring, arguing can do a lot of mental damage!
  • arguing.
  • Ignoring
  • Maybe a person that you love that argued all the time would be better (But not much). At least there would be communication, but someone ignoring you all the time is worst because it's as if you are alone withoug someone, and I'd rather truly be without someone than to be foreverly ignored by them. It would give me room to find a better man.
  • If you have nothing left to argue about, ignore.
  • The opposite of love is not anger, but apathy. I think your loved one ignoring you would be worse.
  • The second one. If a person love to have me as his arguing partner, I would be glad, rather than staying alone, having no conversation with nobody.
  • Ignoring, no doubt.
  • Being ignored is like being in a no-man's zone, at least if he argues with you it is communication, poor, but above apathy!
  • Being ignored. I haven't even seen her in almost a year :( I would argue with her every day if I could, it would be better than not having her in my life.
  • i am ignored and i'd say it's worse to be arguing. that is far more uncomfortable for me
  • Ignoring. At least there is life and passion in arguments.
  • Ignoring is worse, it leads to other person to "talk to themselves." Meaning they tend to start guessing, assuming, and making there own rationale and decisions. Eventually there really is no need to speak to the other person because they figure it out for themselves or just run to someone else who will listen and respond. Arguing is bad, but is a form of communication. Everyone knows communication is key!!!
  • Being ignored is much worse because their is no potential for constructive communication. Good question +
  • Well to be honest, I am in a situation where we argue a little over the phone and then he hangs up and if I try to call back, he ignores me! So it really hurts me to the point of me crying because I'm one who likes to communicate when something is wrong in my relationship because you can learn so much more about a person by talking it out. He is so stubborn though that once his mind is made up, it takes a whole lot to change it. But definately being ignored because at least when you argue, you have a great chance of making up.
  • been there for both and i gotta say if u truly love them u would hate yourself if u didn't talk to them. i would much rather talk to them and be argueing then not. in fact gotta go argue with my ex right now
  • Personally I would go with the person you love ignoring you everyday. As currently the guy that I have been with for three months seems to pretend that I no longer exist as he never calls, or returns my calls. Lately over the past three weeks as he works the security on the train that I commute to work on when he walks by he acts as though I am just another passenger. It is frustrating as he has never officially said hey I am no longer interested in you. At least with the arguing as with my x-husband I knew that we could no longer make things work so it was easy to exit the relationship, however with the ignoring thing you don't know exactly where you stand. So since he was the only reason that I was taking that particular train, I have decided that I would save myself some grief and just wait until the next train leaves the station. I guess in a matter of thinking give him a taste of his own medicine so he can see just how it feels to be ignored so to speak.....
  • The person you love ignoring you everyday, I'd rather argue, at least I'd know that they cared.
  • ugh neither.. but i guess the arguing if i had to pick
  • Oh to ignore me and I love you is like a knife peircing me in my stomach. It is very painful. argue with me anyday at lease he is noticing me. That is what counts. Please don't ignore me. That's worse.
  • right now im being ignored it feels like, so i would have to say argue so i could at least talk to her
  • I'd say ignoring, because at least with arguments you have the chance of making up, which we know can be very exciting if you know what I mean. LOL
  • In my relationship, we do both. When we aren't ignoring each other then we are arguing. I prefer to be ignored as then he leaves me alone at least.
  • i'd say the person you love ignoring you everyday.. that would suck... cause i'd rather have bad times wit them then good times wit someone else
  • being ignored...to answer your question, but the worse is loving someone who agrues or ignores you...
  • Being ignored is one of the worst feelings you can have. It's a proven fact that people HATE being ignored more then anything else.
  • Being ignored. If we're arguing, at least we're TALKING!
  • Yes arguing shows the person cares at least and you can work on the communication interpersonal stuff but if you are ignored give up they are not interested.
  • Ignored... When my wife is mad (not normally at me) she goes quiet... She won't tell me anything, she sits staring into the TV without really seeing it, and kinda doing things robotically. It can last two or three days. TRUST me... I'd rather have her railing at the world than that!
  • ignoring would be the worse ... will but you in a confusing, make you feel that there is something wrong with you ...
  • ignoring would be worse...getting the cold shoulder, to me is much worse than arguing...
  • They are both the "Pits
  • Wow, interesting question, I bet men would prefer to be ignored and women would prefer to argue. I think both are a bum deal. Everyone argues occasionally. But if someone is ignored it is disrespectful and no one gets their needs met.
  • Ingnoring hurts and solves nothing.... arguing leads to a solution as it also leads to a disaster but to be honest i would rather be arguing because that helps u find out how much that person really wants to be with you.
  • Neither one would be good, but being ignored would be the worst.
  • indifference is the oposite of love so i would say to be ignored is worse
  • Being ignored is terrible. I called one of my exs in TEARS on the phone to try and feel better and he wouldn't talk to me and left me hanging. Good thing I had some good friends to rely on!
  • Ignored, you don't know how they feel about you anymore... at least with arguing there is passion and can lead to make up sex haha
  • Ingoring for sure!
  • Being ignored!!! Ignoring someone is a form of mental and emotional abuse. Although arguing can be a difficult thing to deal with, if it is done with maturity you can deal with issues as well as become aware of your own faults.
  • Arguing means there is still some sort of passion. Ignoring means, well, they just don't care anymore. At least with arguing there is some sort of communication.
  • I'd rather the person just come right out and call me a son of a bitch -or- just come right out and tell me to go to Hell instead of ignoring me...... I like to at least know where I stand . Honesty I can respect . Mind games I cannot !
  • The silent treatment is the worst. But both will eventually cause me to leave the relationship.
  • Ignoring is worse. And if you really into someone, and that person ignores you... it's very humiliating in a long term relationship...no feelings showed. If you argue you still can see feelings..
  • I would rather he argue...at least its a form of communication. Silence is deadly to a relationship.
  • THE PERSON U LOVE INGORING U IS WORST
  • hmmm-live with someone that ignores me all the time, can't rememeber when we had a full conversation. I think it may be a toss to argue or be ignored at least I would know that I am not invisible. How do you think I have grown to love AB so much?
  • Being ignored would be worse. At least if they are arguing, they are somewhat invested in the relationship.
  • Ignoring, because it is in human nature to be inquisitive. At least when you argue, you have some kind of interaction and confirmation, even if it may be negative. In my opinion, I have found that not knowing something causes more frustrations than anything else, because your mind is free to come up with anything.
  • The person you love should do neither of these. Part of loving someone is having the feeling reciprocated.
  • well ignoring is seriously worse! because when you're being ignored it seems like they don't care about how you feel or anything and even thought it feels terrible to argue a lot at least there they are giving you some attention..

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