by Singingismystyle on August 23rd, 2007

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Do you have social Phobia?

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  • by quarkum on December 26th, 2007

    quarkum

    I do. It's not an easy thing to admit in public, for that very reason :) It's interesting because I can see it in myself, understand the reasons and know the fear is illogical, but it's still hard to stop feeling it.

    I've found that being well prepared for a situation usually helps me a lot e.g. visualising it beforehand, knowing who else will be there, checking the location if I don't know it, etc. That way when it's time to go and I start to feel stressed, there's nothing else to add to the anxiety :)

    In my case I think the phobia stems from not quite fitting in anywhere as a child. I was non-white in South Africa but looked white [and remember, we had to live in racially demarcated areas, so all the other kids in my area thought I looked weird], plus I went to a wealthy, upper-class school with seriously rich students, but my family was nothing like that, and then finally I was a complete tomboy and didn't behave at all the way a girl 'should'. So I always felt a bit awkward and out of place.

    You'd never know it if you met me though. People often remark on how at ease and confident I seem in situations, when actually I had to give myself a pep talk to walk in the front door [and often I'd like nothing better than to walk straight out the back again!].

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  • by Filthflarnflarnfilth on September 20th, 2007

    Filthflarnflarnfilth

    Yes! It's affected my entire life and I'm still trying to overcome it. I've made a lot of progress over the years but it has taken a lot of work and many tears. Maybe when I am 80 I'll be over it. I'll let you know then.

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  • by Crazy is looking 4 Imperfections. on September 20th, 2007

    Crazy is looking 4 Imperfections.

    Nope!

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  • by crayonwaxy on August 23rd, 2007

    crayonwaxy

    I wouldnt call it a phobia, as much as the fact that i get very anxious and tense when around people. This includes people i am familliar with, such as my live in girlfriend, and parents. Im not much of an introvert really, its really all inside. Im not sure if that counts, but there it is :-)

    how about you?

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  • by Done. never again. on June 29th, 2008

    Done. never again.

    A bit, sometimes.

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  • by lady love on December 26th, 2007

    lady love

    no i love bieng around alot of poelple.

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  • by SaraZita on December 26th, 2007

    SaraZita

    yeah most people annoy me seriously...holy hell

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  • by TWA on December 26th, 2007

    TWA

    Oh yes. Crippling social phobias that mentally and physically impair me when in the presence of more than one person at a time. The only way I've found to combat it is getting ridiculously drunk before I see people. Obviously being a recluse is better than a drunkard, though, so I'm still alone a lot.

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  • by Anonymous on December 26th, 2007

    Anonymous

    I guess I do because I HATE being in crowds.

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  • by bigkado69 on December 26th, 2007

    bigkado69

    Yeah i hate it when people approach me and i try to stay away and talk back as much as possible.I could never be a people person cause id probably want to fight them.

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  • by Mrs.Dufresne on September 20th, 2007

    Mrs.Dufresne

    Yes, but not all the time. I have discovered this correlation (in myself) between symptoms of PMDD(Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) and Social Anxiety Disorder.

    http://www.pmdd.factsforhealth.org/what/

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  • by JustCurious on September 20th, 2007

    JustCurious

    I did for most of my life. Fortunatly I have gotten a lot better in the past 10 or so years. It took a major life change tho.

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  • by Feller on September 20th, 2007

    Feller

    When I was a kid I didnt like crowds. and I was prone to violent outburst that usually left somebody injured.I got help and I don't have either problem anymore.

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  • by American idle on September 20th, 2007

    American idle

    Not in the least.

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  • by Saltlick on September 20th, 2007

    Saltlick

    Yes

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  • by Lady Lavender on August 24th, 2007

    Lady Lavender

    Sometimes.

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  • by gone on August 23rd, 2007

    gone

    People .. and speeding vehicles.

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  • by sm00z on July 2nd, 2009

    sm00z

    Only when I feel indifferent and I need a lot of alone time for myself.

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  • by Redhawk on October 2nd, 2008

    Redhawk

    I think I do...When I'm out and about..if I've eaten, and not been able to brush my teeth..I worry, (probably excessively) that there is food between my teeth!

    I like to smile...and of course if I'm freaking out that there could be food stuck between my teeth, that SHOWS... well it is definitely a smile blowing situation!

    I usually keep dental floss on hand to correct this problem and put my mind at ease..but heaven help me, if I forgot to take my traveler out of the glove box of MY car...if I'm riding with someone else! lmao

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  • by Atlas on October 2nd, 2008

    Atlas

    Yes I do, and it sucks. But, thankfuly, medication has made the symptoms dimminish substancialy, so I recomend anyone who thinks they have socialphobia to contact a theapist so that they can get medication because the medication really dose help--alot.

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  • by meowry on July 10th, 2008

    meowry

    Yes, but it was not this bad, before. It got worse, because my social life has disappeared. I'm sure I could get it back, if I had help. But who would help me?

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  • by khammer on June 30th, 2008

    khammer

    What! your freaking mer out!

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  • by meowry on June 30th, 2008

    meowry

    Very much so that it even affects me online (mainly in MMORPGs like Warcraft).

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  • by Sweet T on June 29th, 2008

    Sweet T

    Yes, I have, Enosiophobia, a fear of crowds.

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  • by Anonymous on June 29th, 2008

    Anonymous

    i would say so at times. it depends on how many people are around and who the people are.

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  • by Atlas on June 29th, 2008

    Atlas

    yep...

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  • No. I have a strong dislike for what passes for social events, like parties, relative gatherings, those awful events that one is supposed to attend like holiday events. Not because I'm phobic, more like I'm bored to tears and detest a lot of small talk with people whom I have zero in common. If it is a like-minded grouping of people with a task in common, I love it. I have to be doing something and not just standing there listening to a bunch of usless babbling.

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  • by Theby on October 2nd, 2008

    Theby

    Yes. It is very rare that I find myself feeling comfortable in a social setting.

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