I used to use a method that was introduced to me as "self-guided imagery." I found it to be an extremely effective way to get myself into a deep sleep quickly. The steps that I am going to outline here may be modified as you feel fit, but the person who taught me insisted that you had to have the same number of steps to achieve this level of deep sleep. He also informed me that the same technique is used by some hypnotists, except as a guided process rather than a self-guided process.
Relax in your bed or another comfortable place and close your eyes.
(I was told to keep at it while imagining the colors, until I could actually "see" the colors in my mind's eye. I have included "visual aids" that worked for me, but use whatever image will work for you.)
Imagine the color red (i would visualize a red delicious apple)
Imagine the color orange (a Sunkist orange)
Imagine the color yellow (daffodils)
Imagine the color green (a grassy field)
Imagine the color blue (the sky on a sunny summer day)
Imagine the color purple (grape jelly)
Imagine yourself at the top of a set of white stairs. There are twelve stairs, and a white bed at the bottom of the stairs.
Proceed down the stairs one at a time counting (to yourself) as you go. Stop on each step, until you can "see" all the details of that stair. Is it made of marble? If so, are their veins in the marble? What color are they? Is it made of wood? Is it a simple design or ornate? Is that step clean, or is there dirt in the corner of the stair?
Remember to stop on each stair until you can "see" it in your mind's eye.
When you reach the bottom of the staircase, step onto the floor and walk across to the bed. Lie on the bed, close your eyes, and go to sleep.
I have done this exercise many times, and it has always worked well for me.
I just want to add a note here: I used to work as a firefighter, and frequently had difficulty falling asleep at the station knowing that the phone or the house gong might ring at any minute. One time I used this method to get to sleep while at the station. I was on the fourth step from the top on my white stairs, when the house gong went off. I was immediately wide awake, and I was unable to fall asleep for the next three days. Every time I lay down and closed my eyes, I would hear the house gong going off and would sit upright in bed, wide awake. On that note, I would suggest you only use this method if you know you will not be disturbed.
Another note: An old girlfriend, who I taught this technique to, always imagined her white staircase as being made of white chocolate. She confessed to me that she would imagine herself taking pieces from the staircase as she descended and eating them!
Comments
I'll second the valerian root.
by Repsychler on July 26th, 2003
Never heard of these roots; will try them. Thanks.
by Santaanacanyon on July 30th, 2003
Works every time.
by Andy Is Wicked Married to Penal Colony on April 22nd, 2004
Never knew that! Thanks for the info! =)
by aeonflux on September 18th, 2004
i will definitely try this! maybe will be able to go off the valium!!
by Kelly Masters on October 19th, 2004
i never knew this either , thanks for the info
by DUKDWNBCC on December 3rd, 2004
works great if you can get past the smell
by Ithilwen on January 25th, 2005
I'll give it a try , thankx.
by nay-nay on January 30th, 2005
Valerian is a drug and can interact with other drugs. It is not "completely harmless." Consult your doc or pharmacist...
by webgrunt on April 11th, 2005
Sounds great, i think i'll try it. but, is it habit forming?
by G-Diddy on July 26th, 2005
my wife valerian root pills in my sunday suit. wondered why people moved away
by Anonymous on March 19th, 2006
It does smell funny but it works great! The only "natural remedy" that ever worked for me.
by lizvelrene on August 1st, 2006