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by Gonzo on August 12th, 2007
You ask her. If she wants to, she will, if she doesn't, she wont.
by PrettyPirate on August 12th, 2007
You can't.
If she doesn't want to participate in something that would make her feel uncomfortable or that is against her belief's system, it is not up to you to try to change her mind. Respect her wishes and drop it.
by Liangkozi on August 12th, 2007
You selfish jerk...having some other men screw your wife JUST TO SATISFY your dirty secret sexual needs.
Forget this stupid fantasy and manage to bring the sparks back between you and your wife!
by P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines on August 12th, 2007
You don't. You shut up and leave it alone. You can't convince her to do everything you want just to keep you happy. That's not how sex in a relationship works. In fact I'm woundering why you even got married in the first place. What you are asking her to do is to degrade and humiliate herself with other men while you watch them treat her like a sex toy. In fact that's what both of you would be doing. It's not healthy and it's not respectfull of your wife. If I was in her shoes I'd be out the door. And if you keep pushing that's just what she'll do. You need to be looking into therapy not trying to convince you wife to do this.
by killdrphil - reasonable for a madman on August 12th, 2007
What is the appeal of that for you?
You can't convince her of doing that. And you shouldn't even try to.
by Highlander is semi-retired from AB on August 12th, 2007
Your a pervert.
by Keysha on August 12th, 2007
Why? Can't you manage to have a sexual encounter with her, yourself?
by Arisztid on August 12th, 2007
If she said no, she said no.
I am assuming you already asked because you said "convince".
I would tell her that if she ever changes her mind, let you know... then drop it.
by Lemonyellow Di Vintage on August 12th, 2007
You should have mentioned that to her earlier. You know, before the wedding.
by Anonymous on August 12th, 2007
Can't deliver the goods, huh?
Seek professional help you sick bass turd.
by Yeux on August 12th, 2007
You are a sicko. If you are successful in achieving this and the other men satisfies her sexual appetite, and she leaves you after, you begged for that to happen to you. You are being so disrespectful to your wife, don't you have pride?
by Stillme FBB on August 12th, 2007
How can I reach your wife? I wonder how long it will take me to convince her that some men would kill at the thought of anyone else touching their wonderful wife. When she married you, she gave her love to you, and only you. You have totally broke those vows!! Giving of ones self is the highest form of love, you have made it into a dirty joke to get your jollies. You should be ashamed of what you've made your wife feel like.
by franziska von awesome -ex neko- on August 12th, 2007
You don't.
by I love my baby on August 12th, 2007
Have you ever heard of AIDS? I have heard it is pretty bad to deal with. You will be divorced with-in a year if you do brain wash her into this. If I were you I would give it some serious consideration before asking again.
by Loves2share on August 12th, 2007
It is not that she doesnt want to, she would love to do it, but for some reason feels unsure. We have acted out the fantasy a few times, and she loved it. For some reason she suddenly refused to continue. Wondering why.
by 2old2dieyoung on August 12th, 2007
You DON'T. Asking her to do that against her wishes is horrible!!! If you push an issue like that, you will be guaranteed to end up in divorce court.
by pagan-babe on August 12th, 2007
Lucky wife lol your basically giving her permission to have sex with other men
by Lambchop Good Wool Ambassador on August 12th, 2007
You spend the next 10 years doing all the house work, the laundry, the cooking the shopping and after 10 years of doing this with joyful enthusiasm you ask her if she'd mind. Works every time!!
by JohnOBonno on August 12th, 2007
You can pack your bags and leave, then after a few months, years, whatever, you can try to sneak up and peek into the window while she's making love with a real man who actually appreciates her. Just don't get caught, peeping toms get shot.
by Stay Strong Stephen Murray on August 12th, 2007
I'm serious about this but I can't tell if you're joking or not. Either way you're a sick pervert.
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on August 12th, 2007
why did you bother getting married? do you want to share your toothbrush with random strangers too.
seek some psychiatric help at once
by katydid15 on August 12th, 2007
If she's not interested, pushing the issue will only alienate her. Give it a rest.
by Mentalmum is back on August 14th, 2007
You cant, and you shouldnt try to, if she doesnt want to then let that be the end of it. dont try to force her - its not natural in my opinion for a husband to want to share his wife or vice versa. Maybe you need counselling???
by Loves2share on August 19th, 2007
I would suggest several of you try toread the chapter
"How do I write a good answer" when you answer a question. Sick or not sick, kink or not kink, we have survived over 23 years together, and there is no shortage of my love for my wife. Has any of you ever heard about taking your loved one to the ultimate places of satisfaction and exitement, and to share one of the most intimemnt experiences together is not all bad. Sorry , it can be all good as well. There is a reason why there is swingers clubs and information all over the place.
Still loves2share
by Joe on May 26th, 2008
drinking helps
a hot tub is a great place to end up
where u guys from
?
by OHsprinks on August 14th, 2007
you don't
end of story
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Best answer here.
by Halskiisaklink on August 12th, 2007
It's jst logic.
by Gonzo on August 12th, 2007
Yeah it is, but he's pushing.
by P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines on August 12th, 2007
First rate answer, Gonzo.
by Arisztid on August 12th, 2007