gemini woman, taurus man or gemini man, taurus woman?

Gemini's love of constant change and variety can be upsetting for Taurus who likes to stay put. It will be an impossible mission if Taurus should try to possess Gemini. But there could be thrills and spills if their Venus's don't meet in a heavenly hug.These two have such contrary concepts of what life should be like that they can clash time and time again. Taureans are fixed folk, so need a steady substance to their existence. And because they belong to the earthy element, they're serious, sexy and sensuous subjects, with a passion for possession. Geminis being airy individuals,need to feel free, unhampered by the restrictions other folk try to force on them . Geminis are ruled by mischievous Mercury, making them irrepressibly impish. Even if it's in their own minds, they never grow old. The Taurueans get tired easily. Now, don't get the wrong idea and think that all taureans are tiresome, because it is nowhere from truth. Bulls love laughing and they're always amongst the first in the queue for a knees-up. But if a bull who holds his hearth and home higher in his estimations than the local lido, then there'll be trials and tribulations at every turn. www.findyourfate.com/compatibility/gemini-taurus.html

Im a gemini woman who was married to a taurus man for a couple of years. Gemini needs security and freedom and if a Taurus man can give it to her, then she will be content. Do not expect your male taurus to understand when you want to talk because to him its foreign. He will never be able to understand why you are so fickle and changing. The Gemini woman has to give in most of the time if she wants the relationship to work.

I felt compelled to respond... I am a gemini woman who recently dated and then quickly separated from a taurus man. It is true that he was sensual and passionate and contrary to taureans being silent, he was quite the communicator. His lovemaking was phenominal...I truly adored these qualities. The disconnect came with him wanting to possess every aspect of my being. He immediately wanted to control whom I associated with and talked to, who rode in my car, what I bought and wore and often criticized my choices. It was ridiculous of me to purchase Louis Vuitton bags but complete acceptable for him to purchase a $130,000 Mercedes Benz. He wanted to pick and choose which topics and conversations I had with him (my job was off limits); He became angry and disturbed if I said things that were not to his liking. His selected restaurants where we had any given meal were always superior, he was quite envious of a friend of mine whom I considered a brother and wanted me to limit the friendship considerably. He even wanted to dictate which toiletries were "better" for me. He never admitted it, but his mantra was "I say jump, and you say how high." Needless to say we argued constantly because of this and after each argument, he placed the blame solely on my inability to "let a man be a man and lead." As quickly as I began to like him I began to loathe him; I had no choice but to bid him adieu. This was by far the most challenging relationship I had ever been in and I'm proud to say I will not go through this again. In my case, Taurus Man/Gemini Woman is a no go.

Quite the clashing pair actually.