Why do we at some instances have to let go when in-laws do something wrong? is it for our spouse's sake?
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I think that it depends on the degree of the wrong-doing. Most stuff I let roll off simply because I don't want to put that kind of pressure on my husband, but every now and then I talk to him about it just to let him know that I am going to be having a conversation with his mother about whatever is bothering me. He always appreciates the heads up.
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I think it's for the sake of the spouse and the marriage, as well as your relationship with the inlaws. It's just like anything else -- you pick your battles. You'll be part of this family for the rest of your life. Is it really worth making a big deal every time your mother in law implies she makes better biscuits? Probably not. On the other hand, if something is repeatedly happening and it bothers you a great deal, you and your spouse should look for a solution together. Being forgiving and gracious doesn't mean being miserable.
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I guess it kind of goes with the saying "Do you want to be right or have peace?" In a family, never underestimate the value of peace. Be very sure you can handle it if you want to be right instead. Yes, there are times when you have to stand up for something, just make sure that you as a couple agree when that is to take place.
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We let go of people when it's futile to hang on to them and quite often with the letting go, comes a freedom we never knew before and which more often than not enriches our soul :)
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