If you are in a happy commited relationship. From a males perspective. Do you believe that once a cheater always a cheater? Can you say that sometimes it was simply a one time mistake? Is there always a reason why?
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okay i have been with the same girl for two years. i think that it can just be a one time thing and especially during a rough time in your relationship. i also believe that there is always a reason why. i believe that usually it is because of a problem in the relationship or a problem with just one person in the relationship, no necessarily between the two who are dating.
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well to me, it's once a cheater always a cheater. tbh, i've been through it too much to put up with it anymore and i just don't tolerate it as much
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there are always reasons but there are no excuses.it is possible that a one time cheater is more wise after the fact and although they werent the person u thought they were before they may have, through the experience,developed into the person u thought they were to begin with. they once thought u were worth the dicipline of monogamy.now she knows it.maybe.
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Once a cheater allwase a cheater. but most importantley once you tolearate a cheater you allwase will and you wount be ableto get out of it untill youre in a state of loosing it...
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I do believe once a cheater always a cheater.When you forgive and take them back then they will lose their respect to you alltogether,and will cheat on you again. So no matter how hard it is or how much it hurts,if somebody disrespects you like that,leave them!They dont deserve to be with you they dont deserve your love. No matter the reason behind it cheating is cheating and there is no excuse for it! I dont see cheating as mistake i see cheating as a calculated action. Because you knew what you were doing,you could have said No you could have walked away,but you chose not to! So its never a mistake.
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I don't believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. I think that is just something that self-righteous people say. I know people who have cheated who feel really guilty for what they have done who haven't done it again since. There are people who will continue to cheat, but there are also people who will have learned their lesson. The state of the person's heart is what matters more than what everyone else says about him or her.
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i dont believe in "once a cheater always a cheater". I think there are circumstances around everything. For some men, i think Chris Rock put it best when he said: "men are only as faithful as their options." Meaning that if men are not cheating, its b/c they do not have the opportunity or that they only cheat when the opportunity presents itself. Sort of sad, but true. Although, i DO NOT think all men are like this. I know many very faithful men who HATE cheating and would never cheat.
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Cheating is a symptom of a relationship problem, not a cause of it. Given that there are TWO parties in a relationship, both are at fault when cheating occurs. The only difference is the blame aspect. The cheating party gets blamed, while the non-cheating party stays 'clean'. However, BOTH parties are at fault. There is no cheating gene in a person, people cheat because they are unhappy. It takes two to tango, and both parties are at fault almost always.
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