Say you go on a 1st date & it's going really good. at the end of the night, where do you draw the line, as far as physical affection goes? also, what age catagory are you in: teens, 20-25, 25-30, 30-35, 35-40, 40-45, etc.?
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im not the best at first dates but then again for me it all depends on how well i know the person to begin with. & by the end of the night the amount of physical affection depends on how comfortable i feel with the guy (i'm 16 by the way =]..) I'm usually a little shy so they'd end up with a couple kisses and flirty touches, hand holding etc. nothing too serious but enough to let them know i'm interested
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maybe a kiss and i am in the teens
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I'm 25. I say draw the line where ever you feel the most comfortable. I say don't drink too much so you will be in control.
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I'm 23, If I really really like the guy and it's been an awesome date, the night will end with a peck on the cheek...i don't kiss on first dates. If he really wants to pursue something with me, he's gonna have to work harder then take me out once.
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Just say no on number 1. I'm etc. But it goes for all age groups. If they like, they call back.
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okay first of all anyone of any age can have a first date. and anyone of any age and experience level and yes gender can say no, and draw the line so to speak. the fact that bad car dates only happen to girl virgins in their teens is a stupid stereo-type.
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I am 20-25, and I will kiss on the first date, but won't go any further than that. I believe in saving some things for later dates after we've become better acquainted.
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Well If I were dating, it would all depend on my date and how the evening goes... I am 43 (hush now, you didnt hear that) any way so I am sexually more open and not affraid ... if it is something I feel comfortable with I may not draw any lines! ;) but if I do not feel comfortable with things on the first night I would let the date know upfront if I suspect they have hopes of going a bit further that its not going to happen at least not then. and of course if I feel that way it would be said... We will see how things go as we get to know each other...a little kiss might be where the line gets drawn... a nice heavy makeout session but nothing further might be it,...as long as he understand... that I am not trying to lead him on!
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I am 45+ and I draw the line at, "good night." I never even kissed on the first date!
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if i am atteacted very much bu the date and the man ı draw no lines and let it goes sexually.
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I am 28 and on a really good first date he MAY get a slow soft kiss. I also think it is important to stay lose enough to make him feel comfortable. If he tries to push you into anymore than a single kiss, then he is not worth your time to begin with. Also, I date older men and they are the same rules. The guys my age are usually the ones that try to make it to home base while the more mature men usually know that it will be better to wait and get to know each other a little better.
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I would go as far as making out. Nothing screws up a potentially good relationship like sex on the first date. There was one time I went all the way on a first date, but there was something special there. We were together for almost 3 years after that. All the other times I went all the way on a first date were one night stands. (only a couple of those) I am 25, by the way
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Soft good by kiss (maybe).. I'm in the etc. group.:)
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If it went real well, we end it at breakfast!!! LOL. Im in my 30's
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Well, why force a line at all! If the vibes are excellent and you know that you're sufficiently sober to make informed decisions then just continue to whatever point you are comfortable with! I'm in late 20s (male) and really I might be disappointed if everything is going really great on a saturday night and the girl decides to take off after dinner.....for one thing I'd feel stranded on a weekend night (more so when we were having a splendid time), and secondly it'd seem as if she had some other plans or something....and finally if she herself wanted to stick around but took off because of the "lines" she likes to "draw" then she wouldn't be worth the time and effort anyways! Of course I'm not implying that all great dates must end with sex but the reasons to not go as far as the couple wants to should be more objective (for example - potential health reasons, working next day, distance etc etc) and not just some imaginary "line" that everyone must draw!
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30-35, I (generally) stop at a kiss. This might depend on how long I have known the person - have we been friends for years, and finally are starting to see each other?
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Just give her a pecker on the lips and leave.
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