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What are the qualities that a best friend should have?

By ashlee ocallaghan Asked Sep 26 2005 5:38PM
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by emilyw on Sep 28, 2005 at 12:15 am Permalink

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Right, this question can have very subjective responses but I appreciate honesty, acceptance, and to be able to feel comfortable enough to be yourself around him or her. But then again these qualities would be ideal in any relationship. :)
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Avatar ashlee ocallaghan Sep, 28 2005 at 04:58 PM
thankyou for your response
Avatar Answers101 May, 05 2006 at 01:35 PM
This is true.

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by 007 plus Maverick equals Pure Awesome on Dec 8, 2008 at 7:06 am Permalink

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They should always be honest with you, even when you don't want to hear the truth. I had to dissolve a friendship with someone this week, just because they lied to my face. Another time this week, I got into some crap with some people and my buddy had my back. I need my friends to always have my back when I need them also.
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by Hieronymus_Bosch on Jul 11, 2007 at 3:58 pm Permalink

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kindness and honesty....also they should be someone you can turn to in difficult times, trust implicitly and be someone who respects you. And, if you return like for like, you have the basis of a true friendship.
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Avatar aardvark Jul, 11 2007 at 04:02 PM
Well put, I totally agree.
Avatar Hieronymus_Bosch Jul, 11 2007 at 04:07 PM
thank you aardvark ;¬)

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by DwarfClown on Dec 8, 2008 at 7:10 am Permalink

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Someone who will always be honest and loyal. Someone who will not only stand with me when things are great, but also when things are not so great. Someone that knows everything about me and STILL wants to be my friend. :-)

Sounds a lot like my bf...
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Avatar wthing8 Dec, 08 2008 at 07:32 AM
You forgot to mention Girthy.....
Avatar DwarfClown Dec, 08 2008 at 08:02 AM
Well, I don't look for girthy as a quality in a best friend, especially a female. :-)

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by Perryman on Nov 16, 2006 at 10:36 am Permalink

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A best friend should have good values. A best friend should have the effect of making you a better person through your association with them.

One Bible proverb puts it this way: “He that is walking with wise persons will become wise, but he that is having dealings with the stupid ones will fare badly.” (Proverbs 13:20) Many people select friends merely on the basis of whether they “hit it off” or not, how they feel when they are around them. Naturally, we like to be with people who make us feel good. But if that is the only criterion for our choice, with little or no thought given to a person’s real inward qualities, we may be headed for great disappointment. How can you know whether a person has good values?

To begin with, we must have our own good values. We need to know what is right and wrong, good and bad, and hold firmly to high moral principles all the time. Another Bible proverb states: “By iron, iron itself is sharpened. So one man sharpens the face of another.” (Proverbs 27:17) When two people bring ironlike moral strength to a friendship, they can help each other to grow, and the bonds of friendship between them will be stronger.
Our best friends, whether they are young or old, are those who help us to stay headed in the right direction and who correct us when we are about to do unwise things. The Bible says: “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” (Proverbs 27:6, King James Version) To strengthen ourselves morally and spiritually, we need to associate with others who have love for God and his principles
If you are interested in making friends with someone you have met, you might want to ask yourself, ‘Who are his or her friends?’ The type of close associates someone has tells much about the person himself. Also, what opinion do mature and respectable people in the community have of him? In addition, it is wise to consider not only how potential friends treat us but also how they treat others, particularly those from whom they have nothing to gain. Unless a person displays good qualities, such as honesty, integrity, patience, and consideration, at all times and to all people, what guarantee is there that he will always treat you well?
Getting to know someone’s true character requires patience and skill, as well as time to observe the person in real life.

The Bible states: “Counsel in the heart of a man is as deep waters, but the man of discernment is one that will draw it up.” (Proverbs 20:5) We need to talk to potential friends about serious subjects, those that reveal their true personality, motivations and, yes, values. What sort of people are they? Are they kind or cold? Basically positive and cheerful or negative and cynical? Unselfish or self-serving? Trustworthy or disloyal?
If a person talks critically about others to you, what will prevent him from talking negatively about you behind your back? “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks,” said Jesus. (Matthew 12:34) When it does, we should listen.
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by Joe-Speedy on Sep 27, 2005 at 4:40 pm Permalink

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Everyone is different on this subject, but I prefer someone I can trust.

Always.
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Avatar Answers101 May, 05 2006 at 01:36 PM
Not me, I prefer someone that I CAN"T trust!
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Why do you prefer someone you can't trust, Answers101?

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by game masta on Dec 15, 2005 at 5:51 pm Permalink

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Someone that treats you the way you want to be treated and respects you.
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Avatar Answers101 May, 05 2006 at 01:35 PM
Yeah!

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by Abdullah on Oct 14, 2009 at 2:38 am Permalink

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I think best have these qualities.

1. If there are tears in your eyes, a friend will come to you and request you don’t weep, but a best friend will ask you, don’t make this drama.
2. If you and your best friend go to bazaar and you eat some thing, he will not pay but will ask o cheater pay bill.
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by Just another CaRbOnPrOdUcT on Aug 21, 2009 at 7:46 pm Permalink

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Well, for starters, they should be fond of me and not be funnier than I am, return my calls, wanna be seen with me in public, give stuff back after they borrow it, ask before they borrow it first, don't kill me, too much.
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Answer 10 out of 30

by Rawrsers is suprisingly optimistic on Aug 21, 2009 at 7:44 pm Permalink

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Honesty,and sincerity
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