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This kind of thing is easier to express without saying much, by simply acknowledging the "rejection"and then continuing to treat the young lady the same as always. "Actions speak louder than words," expecially in a case like this. So just say "OK" or "maybe some other time, then" or nod or in some simple way acknowledge their answer and then change the subject and act like nothing's wrong. Anything else you say about it is going to come across in some way other than you intend.
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I'm wondering why you use the word 'rejected' in this situation - it sounds pretty harsh . Are they really being hard on you when they say 'no?' If someone doesn't accept an invitation to go on a date, they might just be declining it, not rejecting it. There is a difference. I assume from the way you asked the question, that you don't have a lot of experience in asking girls out and that you are fairly young. Just remember that the girls might not have a lot of experience either, and not know how to decline an invitation to date very graciously. Don't be too hard on them. The other advice to take it casually is good advice; find a phrase or expression that accepts the girl's decision, but leaves the door open to asking again at a later date. You don't want to come across as either a wimp or as a guy with no feelings or sensitivity. Assuming that you really are OK with their decision and are not just putting a brave face on it, try saying something like 'Okay, thanks for your honesty, maybe some other time'. This leaves the door open, you come across as a gentleman and, who knows, maybe you will earn a reputation as a great guy because you showed respect and honesty, two qualities that many girls really admire. Maybe you are just asking the wrong girls out. There are just as many girls as there are guys and some of the good ones are shy or unassuming. Maybe some other girl really likes you but is afraid to approach you; if she hears about what a great guy you are from your behaviour, she might just be willing to take that extra step to get to know you. Then the previous 'rejections' will have worked in your favour, after all.
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omg act as if nothing happened, if you make a big fuss over it than shes gana be all uncomfortable and shit! dont just act if you are ok look for better chicks!
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its like how to take the fall infront of the camera in a good way just smile and "darn it" hehehe it aint yer last ticket you can always try again some other time well you could simply just be positive and not take yer rejection that seriously that you could give it a good break
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just say i understand you and ask her can you be friedns the best solution
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Just say thanks anyway ... and walk away. be a good person ... and soon enough they will come to you. Peace
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Huh, thats a tough one...actually I would be more sure about who I ask out and look for the right signs. Do they gush around you, do they always stare at you and then look away real quick when you catch them? Do they find any excuse to get close to you and smile and laugh at your corny jokes? If they just come up to you and talk to you that's mostly like just akin to a casual friendship. Still not sure? Tell them you have a casual date with another girl and see what kinda response you get from them.
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Say: "OK. Bye." And leave.
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