Who agrees being an attractive woman can be a curse...??? unwanted attention alot of the time..
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belinda
ANSWERS: 18
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Yes i do, i get alot of unwanted attention, and they are mostly the same type! The type that aren't good for you :)
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It is not a simple unwanted attention. It is para-psychological in nature. In folklore terms, they suffer from the effects of 'evil eye' - that is a real curse. To the conscious mind, it appears as unwanted attention. The whole pain will be sensed by the sub-conscious mind. A part of youth-hood energy in the body gets drained to fight aginst it. It invariably leaves scars of unknown agony. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil_eye http://www.luckymojo.com/evileye.html http://www.discovery.com/area/skinnyon/skinnyon970425/skinny1.html http://www.themystica.com/mystica/articles/e/evil_eye.html http://ezinearticles.com/?What-is-the-Evil-Eye?&id=20447
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i am thankful i am ugly, people leave me the hell alone
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An attractive woman may get unattractive very easily and will not call attention. All it takes is to remove the makeup and wear unattractive clothes. That's the cure for the curse. It is not hard to look ugly or just not call attention. The opposite is very hard. I bet many ugly women out there will love to have "that" curse.
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I do believe it's a curse, .. But I would'nt want it any other way
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'nuff said!
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its not the unwanted attention, its not being taken seriously. in my profession i am tested everyday.
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Yes it's a big curse. Couples are my number one enemy. I wish I could change places with a happy, slightly overweight woman. I chat with very few people now just to avoid the couples/the genital thinkers/ the nasty bitches etc etc etc. I don't see myself the those types do and it's those types that ruin my life and my childrens. I don't have an ego, I have a thing called dignity.
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It's dreadful unwanted attention, I curse! It's over, I curse!
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I agree in some ways, Personally I don't see myself as attractive Im 17 and pretty average looking (in my opinion) However I often get a lot of attention of men that id rather not have attention from especially if they are in their 40s and 50s and are creeps basically. So in some ways yes, also guys tend to only see you as an object rather than a human being =.
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I do. One of my best friends worked with me. She was an absolute ten. Men would follow her, go out of their way to be near her, act like fools. The worst part was at work. The women hated her. They treated her like total crap-constantly complaining about her, making up reasons why she should be fired. I was one of the few people whose ego could handle that she was young and beautiful. She was actually a super nice person. Beautiful inside and out.
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I agree!! I do not even consider myself all that attractive, I am a mature woman now. But I suspect that female friendships are still hard to find. I am a dedicated friend (I think) and have so often been dumped the moment female friends get a boyfriend. I find it hard to fathom why women presume I would be interested in their man, and it is such an insult to my integrity. Most of the time I think I am just being paranoid. I have gone as far as attending a counsellor for this. On the outside I might look ok, but I find it hard to trust people, and feel very lonely. I wondered if being an attractive woman can impact on your relationship with your mother and sisters?
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i like aggresive women is sexy i like women that know what they want
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I wouldn't know as I'm not attractive at all. People leave me alone.
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In a society which judges women based on their physical appearance and sexual activities, being a woman in general can be a curse.
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If being an attractive woman can be a curse, it's relatively easy to ugly yourself up you know. : )
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Unwanted attention can be a curse. But I don't think that being an attractive woman is a curse. In most cases, it's a blessing. But I do agree that attention can get tiresome. Sometimes I wish I could become invisible. But I still think that being average is a curse. Just shy of good enough? Of course! And being ugly is 5-times worse. Maybe it's just a curse, to be a woman.
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i definitly see it was somewhat of a curse! i like to look nice so i wear makeup, do my hair nice and wear nice clothes.... i get attention from men a lot and i don't mind it b/c its a compliment... but it bothers me when i think that guys only want to GET with me and not BE with me. it feels like a curse b/c i'm still a virgin. i'm not wait for marriage i'm waiting for a good parnter who i can trust. i've been on a few dates and every guy seems to not want a virgin gf! its like they run from me =/ and its not that i go for the same type of guys or anything either! so it feels like a curse to me. its very frustrating and i'm only 23!! =(
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