ANSWERS: 26
  • I believe teenagers fall deeply in love too fast. As did all of us. They need lots of boundries and rules. They will love us more.
  • being that i used to be a teenager,i know this answer!!! you all have A LOT of growing up to do. what i know now is far different than what i knew as a teen. a whole different world actually.when you have to pay your own bills, and take care of yourself, you want something totally different than when you were young with no responsibilities but to have fun and go to school!i may have thought i knew it all back then, in reality, i knew NOTHING!!! youll see!
  • I believe there are problems everyone face, but teenagers face most accutely. I think there are two main ones: -Lack of maturity in a relationship. -False expectations and goals set. Of course, everything depends, but as a small generalisation I have come to see from my fellow peers, the first problem is lack of maturity. With the guys it tends to be 'ah yeah, she did this, she did that, we got this far, I'll flirt with someone to make them jealous etc.' and with girls it tends to be 'oh she was looking at him, we did this, he loves me, we are going to be together forever, blah blah blah.' All this tedious, pathetic he said she said bollocks tends to get in the way of the point Now as for false expectations, that is often the fundemental belief held by so many that you must spend every waking second with your partner, and if you don't something is wrong. You must go as far or further than everyone else is, or it is wrong. I tend to see following the crowd and the implications of the environment and peers have a VERY big influence over the average teenage relationship. I believe with so many outgoing factors playing the major roles of a relationship, that is why they fall apart so easily
  • Unreal expectations, not being mature, and trying to hard to grow up too fast to fit into the unrealistic expectations that have been created.
  • To handle their new hormones outbreak. The new chemical reactions in the teenagers bodies unchain behaviours that sometimes are noxious.
  • In romantic relationships, I think the biggest problem is that everything seems SO important. The intensity of feelings teenagers feel can be overwhelming, but they have no frame of reference with which to measure those feelings. In familial relationships, I think the biggest problem is lack of respect for those that have gone on before. We have ALL been teenagers once, but teens seem to fail to realize that their experience is not unique, it is universal. Also, most teenagers do not see the value in family. Spending time with family, contributing to family welfare, embracing family. That is something most people gain when they get a little distance from their family. I guess, in both cases, it boils down to perspective. It is impossible to take a step back when everything seems so immediate. That perspective is typically only gained with age. Time is exponential. Teenagers, while not children, are still in the very earliest stages of their lives, but try telling them that!
  • The biggest problem I feel in teenage relationships is the teenagers not knowing what they want from the relationship. A "Monkey see/Monkey do" of what adults (parents/peers/siblings...) do and wanting to show their maturity and ready/willingness. I feel it also has to do a little with the maturity aspect and them having alot of growing up still left to do as Vaska07 suggests.
  • Wanting everything too fast, too hard, too soon. SInce they lack both experience of the learning kind and maturity they don't have the tools to cope with what happens. They see things around then and think they have the right to hve those things right now. I've noticed that very few young people have patience and self control anymore, like it's allo right to do whatever becasue they are young and have their rights. But each period of our lives have their lessons and if you skip over them, you never learn the right lessons, gain the beneficial lessons to grow and mature into a well-balanced person. Rush, rush, rush, that's all I see around me. There is so much time in your future for all things. You'll get there when you[re ready, why bring on the anxieties of older ones now. You'll find them soon enough and many of them will hurt. I'd love to save you the unnecessary hurt and pain of rushing in too deep or too casually. And don't forget that it's possible to hurt OTHER people, not just yurselves.
  • that they are teenagers and at least one (mostly both) are way to preocuppied with themselves, as in figuring out who they are, what they want to do, and finding themselves a spot in the world/society apart from their parents son or daughter.
  • thinking they love each other but they really dont because they are still young
  • Immaturity. I think that's what causes the petty arguments, the jealousy, the total lack of understanding about the priorities of a relationship (which are not all about sex). Immaturity mistakes desire for love. Immaturity causes the self-centeredness so closely associated with being a teenager. Immaturity can't see there are consequnces to actions. Immaturity is what casues teens to think there will never be a moment more important than this one. But it's all a learning curve. Without the practice and learning during the teen years, we wouldn't go on to form lasting relationships.
  • One problem ive seen, which isnt adressed to much, is how they take hurt from the past. Most girls, are hurt at one time or another early on, and because of that alot of girls nowadays decide to take the jerk role in a relationship, to make sure they dont get hurt again. The same can be with a guy, (not as often) and thats one of the biggest reason people get used, screwed over, etc.
  • Immaturity and being unrealistic in their expectations. Letting peer pressure control their relationship and actions.
  • That they're teenagers
  • Sub-standard parenting...role models...their inability to shake that "know-it-all" attitude before hurting, especially offspring, and being hurt. In a word, selfishness!
  • Weird exprimentations with body and emotions.
  • The biggest problems with teen relationships is that they rush in. They dont understand commitment or value the fundamentals that are needed to make a relationship. They rush into having sex and that end ups taking over the relationship. Instead of it being a caring and loving and emotional realtionship it becomes a purely physical one.
  • thinking they have to have one indentifying themselves by their relationship status
  • being too young and too emotional. my friend's boyfriend lives 300km away from her. she thinks he's the one so she wants to run away and marry, although she's only 16
  • I'm an older teenager and i'm not sure if i really have any problems. I mean any relationship in existance will have problems, i don't think anyone has a pefect understanding of their partner. But if i had to summarize what i thought was the biggest problem for a teenager in trying to have a relationship, it's that we're not entirely free. We can't always stay out late with them, we can't invite them over to our house for the night, we can't take them to dinner and many nice other things(for some), we can't feel mature in the relationship because we're too emotional and everyday our parants tell us of how young we are. The best one could expect as a teenager is a best friend.
  • they got characterless parent.mother have sex relation with many men and father have sex relation with many women too.unfortunately it is the biggest true of Christ society.
  • Their brain is not fully developed, thus the sexuality aspect takes over.
  • As a teenager i can tell you what the major problem is boys and their boy penises that seem to think a woman is a sex toy and thats its perfectly fine to sweet talk them into 'putting out' when majority of the time neither one is mature enough to handle it.
  • INEXPERIENCED, TOO YOUNG.
  • we try to move to fast
  • Whether or not to engage in sex

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