I'm a straight women,is it normal that I have never injoyed having oral sex done to me?
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Miss sexy
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Normal for you, yes - normal for everybody else, no. Sexuality is a complex thing, it is far much more than just a physical contact. EXAMPLE: If the thought of having one's mouth where urine comes out is a turn off for you then you are just expressing your take on what is clean and not clean (I throw that as example). That thought would have a huge impact on the experience for you. The main sexual organ is the brain, what we think of the experience and how we relate to that experience can make or break it. What is right for you is not always right for the majority, what is right for the majority does not always have to be right for you. Unless you suspect other, deeper issues related to oral sex (perhaps past abuse), then you should consider professional help. If it is more of a "ew, how can you put your mouth THERE?!?!" then the issue is not a problem. I bet you have your turn-ons as well as this turn-off. BTW oral sex is something that most people develop a taste for by experimentation and practice. Few people actually just start off without knowledge or experience with oral sex.
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It might just be that you've never had it done to you by someone who knows what they're doing! Next time, try talking to your partner about what feels good and (kindly and gently!) what doesn't. Just encouraging noises can be enough. It might also be that you haven't felt comfortable around previous partners and need to relax a bit more. Being tense, or uncomfortable is never going to be very conducive to good sex. Or... it could just be that it's not your thing. Everyone has things they prefer or don't like. Though saying that, I have a friend who always claimed he didn't like oral sex... that was until he met his now wife... his opinion has changed somewhat now, I believe.
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From the other side, I as a man didn't enjoy having oral until I found a partner who knew how to do it properly. It was very, very different from the way previous partners had done it - and wonderful. So maybe you haven't found a partner who knows how to do it right. Or maybe you really don't enjoy it: we don't all have to enjoy the same things. I would put my money on the first, but not much money.
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It may be normal for you, but for most women it would not be normal. You may have past issues of which you are unaware. Much may depend on how your husband feels about it, how he goes about it, how he lets you know. I have never met a woman who did not enjoy cunnilingus. One of my lovers once had 12 orgasms from oral sex, before I ever entered her, and way more than two dozen during intercourse (which lasted over 20 hours). Alas, it was our last night together. She left nme for a textbook salesman.
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