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Have you told him you don't know what to say? Or that you feel kind of awkward? If you haven't you should tell him! Make sure he knows you want to make his experience as pleasurable as possible, even if that means talking, but that you need some time warming up to it, and that you don't really know what he wants...If you think it would help ask him to ask you questions that you can answer...If you are more quiet in bed maybe you could try moaning or something more instead of having to use words...If you just feel uncomfortable in general, he should understand! The most important thing is that you are BOTH enjoying your experience...hope that helps...
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tell him that it makes you uncomfortable. from my own experiences it helps to hear if i'm hitting the right spot, faster slower harder oh god.....stuff like that.
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Usually when guys ask you to talk dirty to them during intercourse, they most commonly want you to tell them things that turn them on and get them excited. Telling him it feels good is great. If you're not uncomfortable with it, you could tell him to f__k you hard(excuse me, but that's what they like to hear) and other things like how much it turns you on when he's so hard and inside of you. Also when you're about to cum, let him know it, tell him how much his body turns you on and that he f__ks you so good, etc. Although if any of this makes you uncomfortable to say, then just be honest with him and if he's worth holding to then he'll understand. But who knows, you may begin to like it. Good luck! Oh and one other thing, it never hurts to tell him that he's the best-that's great for a guy's ego and will really make him feel good. He'll be smiling all day!
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Im still learning
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I couldn't be sure but maybe he wants to hear how much fun your having or how good it feel to have his b c in your t p
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I had a girlfried that used to talk all the time--and I loved it--she would say F--k Me F--k me harder More Faster she also would inform me when to change positons for example--shemight yell "doggy" i then knew what had to do next and my favorite quote when we were really going at it "my god, thats all your f------g dick"
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You could tell him how you are feeling, and tell him how wet you are and stuff. You could tell him what you want him to do, because you're being pleasured by this too. And if you still aren't sure, you could ask him to talk to you too. I know I love it when I hear my girlfriend say my name. It all depends on how you like it. If ya'll are freaky, ask him to treat you like a bad girl and almost role play. It seems like you two need to get more comfortable having sex.... and with eachother. Hope I helped :)
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I had sex with an elementary school teacher once and I loved telling her she was "dirty" as I f... her. We both loved it.
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my boyfriend always wants me to talk to him but im kinda shy about it i really never know what to say i feel weird saying the things he wants me to say i moan alot but he wants me to talk he wants me to say things like fuck me and yell his name..
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"i can feel you deep".."i love the way you feel".."you smell so good"..."God...keep f___g forever pplllss"... what keeps him comming back is the next day i'll text him or wisper in his ear..."i can still feel you in me"
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Say whatever comes to mind. What he's looking for is a good stroke job. An ego stroke that is. Give it to him. He wants to hear how great he is, and how he's built (i.e. hung) just right. He wants to hear how you can hardly take his entire schlong. He wants you to tell him how amazing it feels when he does you from behind. He wants to hear that you need it. He wants to hear how good he makes you feel and how you love his hot manly body. Writhe about, squirm alot, and pretend that he's better in bed than he really is. Scream, pant, yell, and thrash about. Then, when you grow up and realize that you're selling yourself short, break up with him. You'll learn that you won't be satisfied until you finally meet someone who actually makes you feel the way you will have pretended to feel with your (now-turned-ex-)boyfriend.
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just say whats going on! Be like oh yeah fuck my pussy Spank me oooo fuck yeah Harder, im so fucking wet oh yeah faster, Just like that baby oh right there oh my god! your such a nasty boy! and DRUM ROLLLLLLLLL OHHHHHH thats the orgasm;) dont be too loud. girls end up screaming and think its hot.its not i waqtch porn n i def dont get turned on if the girls making noise n the guys isnt even in her. Its sooo fake. Soooo say things but in a calm way, a little volume once in a while boosts their egos up! but none of the OOOOOO OOHHH OHH FUCK OHHHHHHHHHH OH OOOOOOOO YEAH OH FUCK ...no .... guys dont like that:| they think that ur faking it. or that theyre hurting you or doing something wrong:| CHEERS! hope i helped
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scream .. say hiz name out loud......
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You could make up stories. Like, you're walking in a forest and come across a secluded pool where he is swimming, and then you realize he is naked, and so you strip your clothes off and dive in to meet him....etc
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Have a talk with your boyfriend to find out what it is he wants, then let him know what you want. It is not all about him, you both need to take your wants and needs into consideration also.
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OK, here is my take on this. He needs to know that you are enjoying sex. He wants to know that you can feel him inside your body. He wants to hear you respond to what he is doing because it is an ego booster for him and it heightens his orgasm. So, you could tell him that you feel him deep inside. You could moan, alot. I will probably get some flack for this, but you can coach him by saying... "Give me your load, honey" "I want your seed deep inside me" "Come-on honey," "I can feel you DEEP inside me" "Come on, Honey, drive it on through" "I love to feel you inside me." "Oh, you feel so BIG." "I love when you balls bang into my clit." "Come on, Honey, make me suffer." "Explode inside me." "You can do it, Honey." "Oh honey, what are you screwing me with, a cannon!"
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walls will make your imagination stop. turn on the tv so maybe you can have something to talk about
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Dirty talk can be a challenge if you're shy or haven't done it much before. Some people naturally shout like sailors in bed. I'm not one of those people, so I can empathize with your situation. The long and the short of it (no pun intended... kinda) is that he wants both encouragement from you, to let him know he's doing a good job, and also to know that you're as into it as he is. Understandably, if the sex is either really great, or really lame, it's hard to come up with good dialogue on the spot. You've posited two possible questions in your overall request: you either want to know how to get him to stop asking you to talk dirty, -OR- you want to know what to say. In the first scenario, I would just explain to him that you're shy, and maybe buffer his ego (if he's worth having his ego buffered) by saying that it's too hard for you to concentrate on talking to him while you're having sex with him, or something to that effect. In the second scenario, there are lots of wells you can draw from for things to say. Men don't typically require a Monday Night Football play by play commentary when they're going at it, just something simple. The easiest way to learn to talk dirty, in my opinion, is to simply either use one word 'commands', such as 'faster/slower/harder/gentle' and the like, -OR- to ask him questions, 'Do you like it when I do this' (fill in 'this' with the act or touch of your choice) 'Are you going to cum for me, baby?' or simply asking him to perform other sex acts, "Do you want to do me doggy style?" or something to that effect. It's a given that dirty talk isn't for everyone, but due to insecurities, it sometimes helps for one partner or the other, or both, to get encouragement from the other. It boosts the ego, and makes them more eager to do it again.
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tell him how much do you like this-talk with passion ,tell him how do you feel with him inside you
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