ANSWERS: 3
  • No...what you are doing is wrong...if that is the kids father then you need to let your son make the choice. Unless he is being physically abusive, verbally abusive, or putting his lif3e in danger, you need to let him see his father...
  • i have heard divorce can be more traumatizing than a parents death to a child. i dont know personally but it may well be true. parents are a childs whole world (especially when they are young) and a sudden change such as a divorce can shake up the feelings of stability and security a child needs. dont take these things they say so personally. children act out of their emotions and lack the experience of appropriate reactions. imagine how powerless he feels in this situation, and understand he only does what he can with what little he knows. these words are nothing but emotions in chaos. influence is what he lessons he comes to learn about the world, not are not the things he mimics on a whim. i wish you just strength on these matters.
  • You should really let him see him, even if he is a bad influence. The most important thing is that you communicate with him directly, and especially tell him WHY you think his father is a bad influence. It may be hard for him to accept, but life isn't easy.

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