Ok your grandmother is dieing and u just can't cry u feel sad and scard but u can't cry is that wrong.
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It isn't wrong! It is absolutely normal! I do not know why it is like that, but it is normal.
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no, it's not wrong. people all grieve in their own unique way. you can't be expected to grieve the same way as others, and the same goes in reverse. don't feel guilty about it. just make sure you don't bury it either. take the feelings as they come. you're probably still in shock, and if this is your first experience of losing a loved one, you just have no idea how to deal with it. it's hard and i'm really sorry for your loss. take care.
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People feel and express grief in different ways. I know of no rule that says you HAVE to cry.
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I had the same thing happen when mine died. I was the only one not crying at the funeral, as sad as I was. My dad understood (she was his mom). My mom actually got mad at me about it and it started lots of drama. Now it's like it never even happened. I guess I'm just saying that it's normal, and if anyone does get upset, you'll all heal.
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No it's not wrong you will in your own time
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It is ok you are normal just as everyone has said; everyone handles grief in different ways. When my mother was in the hospital in a coma and there was little hope, my farther and sister where all in tears – I never cried, just felt like I had to remain strong and optimistic for them.
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No it is not wrong , some of us go into a sort of state of numbness and the tears do not come easily like they do with some people. The state of shock and grief is different in each person and you must not feel guilty about how you deal with it. When you are ready you will cry . I have had almost 4 months and still have not let go. You will let go when the time is right for you.
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