Perhaps he has had his heart broken before and is afraid to let it happen again. Maybe you are not giving him the attention he needs.

Hmm. I notice that you pointed out how attractive this guy is twice... and refered to him as a "hot guy" rather than just a guy. I'm getting a strong vibe that the #1 reason you like this guy is for his heart-throb looks, and if so, that's your problem. Perhaps he's figured out that you only think of him as a "hot guy" and are ignoring all of his other good qualities (assuming he has some). If he's got any intelligence at all, he may have already figured out that once a "hotter guy" comes along, you're going to drop him like a dead skunk and chase after the new face. Nobody wants their partner to think of them as a piece of meat, and if he's cabbaged on to the fact that this is how you think of him, it's only natural to be insecure. He may be fishing for you to tell him that you like him for who he is, not how he looks. You might be well served to think of him as your "very sweet bf," or your "funny bf," or your "really smart bf," and let him know how you feel. If you find that you can't think of any other positive adjectives, do him a favor and hit the road--and do yourself a favor, and do some serious and mature soul-searching about what you want in a partner.

He's either insecure about himself, and/or he wants reassurance that you and he have the same feelings about your relationship.

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maybe hes worried that you only like him for his looks.

Probably he's been burned before and worries it'll happen again.

Welcome to reality. People who are perceived as "hot" can also have a low self-esteem.

Emotional insecurities are not limited to people who are not 'hot'. Insecurities develop over the course of our lifetime and it can be very difficult for those suffering lack of self esteem to believe they are truly loved by their partner. It may take a lot of time and reassurance until he is able to fully trust that your feelings for him are genuine.

Either he is insecure or you are inscrutable. Or both.

i'm guessing it's because looks aren't everything and you've got a guy smart enough to know that

He is emotional man ,who always care about his beloved assets!Congrats for having such good man in your life! Preserve him!

Hehe I can't understand what it has to do with the fact that he is good looking? Good looking people also have feelings and insecurities. He attracted you with his apperiance but he is keeping you now with his personality.

Because he is a real person, with feelings and emotions. Maybe he has already caught on to the fact that he will be single again once his looks start to fade.

Because he is a little insecure or he needs more security from you....Just because he is good looking means little...he still has his own unique needs....

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