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If you didn't mean it, you should never have said it.
:):)
by Funkycherry on September 3rd, 2010
Selected by the asker, Stephanie_A. (What's this?)
By your question I get that you just said that to him out of anger, and didn't really mean it. I don't know what he did to you or if he's "worth" it. but he really seems to be respecting your feelings.
by WABOO on September 3rd, 2010
So you said to him what you didn't mean when you left him and now wonder what its like if he had not taken it seriously?
Does he deserve what you said that you seem to like him to disbelieve you?
It's kind of confusing.
Leaving him puts a period in your relationship, so why bother to wait for him to visit you again? He has left you instead in body and spirit, so don't expect him to come visit or see you.
You've had a chapter of your life with him and that's all part of the past now. Move on to another new chapter of your life as he has moved on to his next chapter. Life is a story...
by ALF - Gordon Shumway on September 12th, 2010
"Be careful what you wish for."
by aiar on September 4th, 2010
what part of what you said is he supposed to doubt? you did it so make the best of it
by angel1000 on September 3rd, 2010
Yep! When I say that I REALLY mean it. Ha ha!
by Seeya says Dont Ever Give Up on September 5th, 2010
I personaly had a similar breakup, best thing that happened to me, she turned out to be a player. enjoy your games while you can they will catch up with you. good luck to the guy as he will be happy taking people at their word. no games to sort out.
Will you throw my clothes away if I said I didn't care?
by eaq5003 on January 27th, 2012
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I am feeling really insecure about my current relationship.
by amandafohio on January 31st, 2012
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My bf recd a Fathers Day card from another woman and he still has the card on his fireplace mantle, it bothers me. Shld I ask him to remove?
by Anonymous on January 31st, 2012
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Do your relationships last more than a couple of months? Mine last a couple of hours.
by HoboJoe on January 31st, 2012
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my boyfriend is in the army and this girl kkeps flirting with him and im concerned about things.any advice?
by cobojovein on January 17th, 2012
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You're reading I told him i hated him when i left him and to never call and forget me.Is it possible he believes me because he never calls or comes by?
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That wasn't the question!! GENIUS!
by Stephanie_A on September 5th, 2010
Perhaps, Stephanie_A.
But my comment is very true, nonetheless. People often don't realize the power behind the words they say, or the way they see them.
You said you left him. And during that action, you also told him you hated him, he was to never call you, and to forget you.
When you string all that together, what other possible answer to your question could you arrive at except that he believed what you said?
Because of this, I found your question to be "rhetorical".
Please note the ":):)" at the end of my answer. This signified that I wasn't posting my answer to irritate you, but as a simple statement of fact.
Words have power, Stephanie. Especially among those who know each other intimately. Choose them wisely, lest they bite back.
They may even bite back, if he was the one who was a cad in the first place.
If you regret your actions, then it is up to you to do something about it.
Best of luck, whatever your intentions with this guy.
:):)
by The Chief on September 6th, 2010
I can be very hot headed... and for that. I thank you. Your words hit home. Thanx!
by Stephanie_A on September 6th, 2010
You are most welcome, Stephanie!
by The Chief on September 7th, 2010