There certainly nothing "wrong" with you. A lot of women have trouble achieving orgasms during sexual intercourse. That doesn't mean that this can't change, though. What are you doing differently when you do it to yourself? Why can't you achieve an orgasm? What could be changed to help you? I don't know what you've tried, but I'm sure there are things you haven't tried yet. Don't give up, eventually you'll find something that will help you.

First off, I don't know whether you are a girl or guy, so I'll assume either. That said, how relaxed are you when you are with him? Are you enjoying the moment - or (like many people) worrying about how you look or what chores you might have to go do afterwards? Can you fantasize still when your lover is right there? Achieving orgasm is often as much mental as it is physical. Also,(if you are a guy) are you using a condom? Of course, I highly recommend condoms for their health benefits, but if you're using the wrong size or its lubed too much or too little, you might not be getting enough stimulation. If you are female, make sure he knows how to touch your clit in a way that is enjoyable and not painful. As mentioned previously, do figure out what you do that feels good and communicate this to your partner. Don't be afraid to show or even demonstrate. And don't feel like you have to let your partner do all the work. You just might need all the hands you can get to achieve enough stimulation. Just be sensitive, though, to your partner's feelings since he might feel like he's not good enough. Assure him that everyone is different and that is really more about your needs than his abilities. I wish you two luck :)

You are among thousands of women(hoping you're a women) out there I was one of them. But my first orgasmic experience was with a nother other than my husband at the time. The man made me orgasm during giving me oral sex! Have you tried that? The oral sex part, I mean. If that doesn't work think dirty thoughts while he's on top and your'e on the edge of the bed and him sucking your nipples and rubbing your clit (at the same time)(clit has to be really wet-use lubrication if necessary) and think of yourself as his sex slave or vice versa, smile and enjoy. He'll love the feeling you give him also with the pulsation of your orgasmic walls tightly massaging his penis. You may just cum together which is a WONDERFUL HIGH! Good Luck, :)

Fear is your enemy not your boyfriend.. Relax and enjoy.

i am still dealing with this similar situation . We have talked about it and we try different things out but to no avail. I had orgasms with oral sex in only one of my past relationship with an older man and i know i am capable of reaching an orgasm also because i have no problems reaching it myself we have tried oral sex together but i know he does not get it cause he still cant make me orgasm doing that. I have tried giving pointers but i just think and feel that he does not enjoy giving oral sex. in turn it makes me feel uncomfortable when he tries to go there and i stop him. but its startiing to strain me...i have not had an orgasm with anyone other than myself in 2 yrs and i am starting to feel very emotional about this. I care a lotabout him, and he is a good guy in other aspects...which is why i have also stayed with him, i believed he would get things right but still not..what the heck can i do now

maybe u need to try a different positions and don't have sex in the same place all the time and remember to relax