first thing and most importent is not to be worry, relax, and think about that; one day a little baby should come out of that tight vegina! now, comparig the size of the penis to that, well, there isn't such a big penis. for the act of intercouse, I recoment you use some lubricate, based on water, not some oily stuff (not vaseline!!!), it help alot. and the best position I can recomend is, girl on top, let the girl controll everything, she fills her self and know how much pain she can suffer, if any will occur. I am pritty sure that when relaxing those vegina mascles and with the right lubricate, everything will be just fine.

use a viberator on her clit and try to relax her sometimes the vibrations help and ASTROGLIDE, best stuff EVER!

I dont have a super long penis, but I have an extremely thick penis(I cant get my hand all the way around it). Im assuming this is more of your problem, not the length. My girlfriend and I found a solution - having her on top is actually worse. Shes not able to relax because shes tightening those muscles to balance herself. The missionary position is much, MUCH easier because she can relax and even better she can press against my hips if I go in too far. After I would say... 20-25 nights, our problem became MUCH less problematic. I hope this helps! And of course it goes without saying... astroglide!!

maybe you should try finger fcuking the woman vagina b4 you actually have sex with her. my boyfriend 's penis is actually thick and also quite long.. at first i am afraid of that but as time goes by , finger fcuking could loosen the vagina. the man should try to make the woman high , of course must make her feel comfortable, ( my guy does that ) and shouldnt make her feel stressed otherwise she would tighten her vagina.. like me at first ... anyways, good luck :D

It is a matter of relaxing.If a baby can come out of a vagina i am sure it can acommadate any penis just a matter of relaxing and feeling comfortable for the girl.

Ok, I'd suggest two things: Foreplay & Lube. Foreplay because when a woman gets turned on her cervix will rise higher to accommodate a longer penis. You can have pain from a larger partner if he's slamming against your cervix during sex. Not fun. Lube also works wonders. Astroglide is a big hit, I love the stuff. If he's more thick than long then adding some lube to yourself can help out tremendously.

just ram it straight in n forget about the pain

u lot talk shite

It works

Iagree,finger pop her first-mines as thick as a soda can and it was a couple of weeks doing this foreplay(until I was able to get 4 fingers in)and time!now she takes it no problem!

You need to force it in. It's OK to use a little lubricant, but don't waste time trying to ease it in. You need to just get it DEEP up against her cervix in as little time as possible. There will likely be some screaming, and maybe a little blood, but there is really no other way to deal with this problem.

First of all, in this case a more than adequate amount of foreplay is essential - however it's done the lady should be dripping, sopping wet. Then, with the lady on top, place penis at vaginal opening and slowly rotate while giving a little pressure. When penis head is quite wet as well a little more pressure is OK. She'll let you know! Many small in and out thrusts, perhaps entering a little deeper every few strokes is best - let HER control how far in the penis goes! She soon will be comfortable with the huge penis going in her and quite nicely will have it ALL buried deep up inside of her. Hope you can hold back on your ejaculation!!

slowely ease it in might be a little pain till all your meat is in her vaginal opening then squeze her stomach and thats it no more pain her vaginal opening will loosen and it will feel good now push harder each slide too make sure its definetly loose. trust me im a docter

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Hey. Me and my boyfriend have this problem. The most important thing, as you've probably already heard, is foreplay. (Most important to her, not you for this issue!) Make sure she is relaxed and spend a long time on it, making sure she doesn't feel uptight or worried or there will be no point. If plenty of foreplay still doesn't make things any easier, use a lubricant. Just make sure it isn't one that's going to damage a condom, if that's the contraception you use. When you go in, start off gently. If you push too hard or force it, it can be painful for her - maybe not too painful immediately but it will be sore and irritated for several days. Damage in this way, aside from disrupting your sexual relationship and causing discomfort to her, can also make her, and by extension you, more susceptible to yeast infection! So be careful. You'll find that once you've got into it, everything will work fine. Just make sure you aren't going in too far, if this seems to cause her discomfort. Some positions are better for this than others. It might be best to let her control this aspect. Oh, and don't listen to the "if it'll fit a baby it'll fit a penis" line. that's bollocks, who wants to go through that pain every day? Good luck! And sorry for the essay!

Holy shit! This sounds like a lot of work. Im glad I dont have a big penis! Lol. I can do any position. I dont need a lot of foreplay although I injoy doing it a lot. I thought bigger is suppost to be better. I guess I was wrong. Im only 5 1/2 inches long and shit I can fit it through a toilet paper roll. So ya make fun of me all you want but I can get the ladies off just as good and maybe better then most people.

Holy shit! This sounds like a lot of work. Im glad I dont have a big penis! Lol. I can do any position. I dont need a lot of foreplay although I injoy doing it a lot. I thought bigger is suppost to be better. I guess I was wrong. Im only 5 1/2 inches long and shit I can fit it through a toilet paper roll. So ya make fun of me all you want but I can get the ladies off just as good and maybe better then most people.

Work that dick in deep and ram that mother $%#@*! all the way in and enjoy! Whoohoo, youa luvky son of a bitch! :)

nothin they are both screwed. screwed get it?

Get a new man. Sorry, it was hard to resist. Try taking a bath together...seriously it works. ( eye wink )

LOTSA LOTSA LOTSA lube and make sure really wet b4 u start bcuz the vagina will expand if u r... and don trush him in u gotsta take it slow cuz hes giant adn ur tight

plenty of fore play and lube will do the trick you have to remember that the vagina will strech

first off having a partner that fits like a snug glove is the best i am seven inches and my exwife used to make fun of me and call me small and she was a virgin when we first tried after we separated i met my current wife who is perfect in size down there 2 fingers is comfortable and i have been happily humpin for 6 years now so if you have a huge penis find a girl with a larger vaginal capacity.