by iceberg137 on January 28th, 2010

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I cheated on my boyfriend after only a week of dating. 9 months later and I still haven't told him. Should I?

Basically the reason I cheated was that I used to be kind of wild before we started dating and I guess I wanted one last fling. His last girlfriend cheated on him a couple of times and now I think he won't forgive me even though our relationship is going so well.

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  • by horny123 on March 23rd, 2010

    horny123

    Addicted2luv IS FUCKING WRONG. you have to tell the poor guy! a relationship is not true unless there is honesty. "what he doesnt know wont hurt him" if a fucking stupid thing to follow. think about it this way; if he cheated on you and your friend found out he did and told you.would you be more hurt if he told you himself and was honest? or would you be more hurt if your friend had to find out b4 you bcuz he just didnt have the balls to tell you. ?

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  • by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2010

    Anonymous

    Don't tell him. If you are serious about not doing it again. No need to cause him that pain. Besides it was only a week in and you were a wild child. Nothing wrong with that.

    But if you think you might do it again, you need to be in a relationship with someone that you can have an open relationship with. That way there is no need to worry about hurt feelings.

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  • by katkatattacks on January 29th, 2010

    katkatattacks

    I don't think so..
    i mean if you kept it that long..
    i'd be even madder you kept it..

    I mean just forget about it would be my advice.

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  • by Crims on January 28th, 2010

    Crims

    No - that early on, you weren't emotionally a couple yet. Back in the old days you would date first then gradually become a couple when feelings mature. These days people hook up on the first date and they are automatically 'a thing'.

    Nothing good would come from telling him that if you do honestly believe you'll never do it again.

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