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  • <h4 class="dechead">On One Hand: Yes, it's your attendance that's important

    Dressing up for a funeral, especially in a black or dark blue suit, is an outmoded tradition that is past its time. For many people who aren't members of the immediate family, attending a funeral is a brief event, so if, for example it is a work day, whatever one is wearing that day must suffice. Attendance at an event as emotional as a funeral should be what counts more than dress.

    On the Other: No, etiquette calls for proper dress

    The respectful tone of a funeral calls for an equally respectful outfit. That eliminates any casual wear in favor of dark colors, suit and tie, dresses and other modest clothing. Wearing flashy clothes or clothes that draw attention to you may take attention away from the mourning family. Also, today's fashions of casual dress, such as clothes that show too much skin, can be offensive to some.

    Bottom Line

    A popular rule of thumb about dressing is that it's never a mistake to overdress for an occasion. This rule holds true for events like funerals. You risk no chance in offending anyone attending this sensitive event if you dress according to tradition. Dark clothes, including a suit or dress, will keep you from drawing attention away from the family.

    Source:

    The Funeral Planner: Dress Etiquette

    Speaks Chapel: Funeral Etiquette

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