by EyePod on April 4th, 2007

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Is sex on the first date ever acceptable?

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  • by Sketchy Mess Jeoffory on April 4th, 2007

    Sketchy Mess Jeoffory

    Yes. Sex is acceptable whenever two adults both want to have sex and agree to do it. It could happen on the first date or the 100th date or on your wedding night.... only you and your partner can decide when it is right to have sex.

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  • by StacieO on November 25th, 2009

    StacieO

    Well, I've done it once or twice.

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  • by Cat Shillingford on October 9th, 2009

    Cat Shillingford

    If it feels right do it, You only live once, Just be careful.

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  • by jimmysaki on October 9th, 2009

    jimmysaki

    if you are true man you say yes!!!!!!

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  • by Moley the contrary female dragon on October 9th, 2009

    Moley the contrary female dragon

    If it was someone I already knew well and this was just the first time we actually dated, it would be ok with me.
    Not with a virtual stranger though.

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  • by Anonymous on October 9th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Probably not the best idea.
    +5

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  • by yaytez on March 15th, 2008

    yaytez

    Too many times we put this high price on sex, emotionally, physically, financially. Whats wrong with having sex on the first date? If you are desiring sex, and the guy is turning you on...sure go for it. Many say he will not respect you, but I dont think thats the case. And if it is the case, who cares, you had sex and you know he wasnt the one for you.

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  • by EyePod on April 4th, 2007

    EyePod

    i would say yes if it feels right do it

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  • by DrMcNasty on November 11th, 2009

    DrMcNasty

    it happens from time to time. whether it's a good idea or not depends on the situation. Sometimes you just connect so much with someone that is seems like you have known them forever. Sometimes you have known someone forever and get the opportunity out of nowhere. Sometimes people need a one night stand and as long as it is made clear and both parties agree then thats ok too.

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  • by Anonymous on March 15th, 2008

    Anonymous

    depends if it is 1 night stand

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  • by nada on October 9th, 2009

    nada

    I've done it. I can't say I regret it, but I don't think I would recomend it.

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  • by Anonymous on July 7th, 2008

    Anonymous

    well, I am 58 yrs old, almost 59 and have not had sex in almost 10 years. I was on a mini-vacation and met the owner of the establishment where I was staying. We took an instant liking to each other. I was attracted to someone for the first time in 9 years. He may or may not believe that, but I told him that anyway cause I wanted him to know that I am selective. WE enjoyed each other's company for several hours and I just liked him so much and I thought, if it has not happened for 9 years and I am leavig to go home in a few days, it will likely never happen. I decided to go for it but am now feeling guilty, stupid, like I used terribley poor judgement, that he will think I am easy, a slut etc. I am not! I had one sexual encounter in the 12 years since my monogomous marriage broke up. I was married for 11 years and was totally committed and did not cheat or even think of cheating.
    Is there any way of salvaging this. I really really like him and at at 58, it is really hard to find the right match. And lets not forget that I have not been touched or held or had any loving for over 9 years and thats a very very long time.

    I am now back in my city 365 kilometres from him and have not heard from him. I don't think he will call. I think he probably thinks I was a dumb, easy person and chalked it up to having a good time. Of course I am looking for a long term relationship, but, I knew I was only going to be there a few days and time was an issue. I thought...do I go for it or not? and I went for it. Maybe a very very bad decision.
    what do you think,
    guilty, disappointed, hurt, feeling unimportant.
    HELP, suggestions for keeping this relationship (for lack of a better word) going are appreciated and welcomed.

  • by Steve 313 on November 10th, 2009

    Steve 313

    I belive that once you know that there will be a second date and that it is'ent going to be a one -night -stand that is ok.

  • by flasher on November 26th, 2011

    flasher

    Most guys would love to have sex on the first date, and there are a lot of horny women out there who would enjoy it also, so why not? So if you're both looking for the same thing, I say go for it!

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  • by Sir.K on November 23rd, 2009

    Sir.K

    it depend but if the guys ask? just say no its not a good idea but if the girls ask? why not..this is why you girls dont even try to offer sex for first date even testing your man for that task or do joke about that..

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