I am not sure what this "sticky" fluid could be, but my educated guess is a Candidiasis (Yeast Infection). In women, signs and symptoms of a vaginal yeast infection are a white cheesy discharge that typically itches and irritates the vagina and surrounding outer tissues. On occasion there may be pain with sexual intercourse or burning with urination. However whether you are a virgin or not yeast infections or any other type of infection is never good. I suggest you go to the pharmacy or clinic and speak to a nurse there. They can more accurately describe what type of infection or other "problem" you might have. You can also ask them about sexual intercourse and any other questions you might have (since you want to become sexually active). This is a big step, do not take it lightly. If the nurse cannot help you they will refer you to a gynecologist. Do not take my word for it rather ask a professional and then get the proper medical treatment. If you do have a Yeast Infection discontinue the use of coloured soap bars and toilet paper and switch to a white soap and white toilet paper instead. Also eat yogurt (preferably Bulgarian). Do not apply any perfumes or anything of that nature to your vagina. It might make it worse. Google this infection, here is a website you can visit: https://www.msu.edu/~eisthen/yeast/ There are many others. Hope this helps!