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I would make sure (if at all possible) that the sicko who hurt my man went to jail. I would try to take care of him (the boyfriend) as much as possible and let him talk if he needed to talk, or ignore it if he needed me to not bring it up. And I would encourage therapy for him, just like anyone should have when they have been abused. I would also make him see a doctor to make sure he was ok physically. All those things, not necessarily in that order. That's a hard thing to overcome and, cliche as it is, my heart would hurt for him.
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Be there for him. Let him know that you still love him and don't judge him for it. Strongly encourage him to go to counseling for it as well.
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