How do you know when you love someone?
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Texas Forever
ANSWERS: 80
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When you don't have to ask that question.
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When having them in your life makes you feel more free.
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Trust me, you just KNOW!
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Time will tell.
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Here is what love is to me...you know how certain quirks or idiosyncracies drive you bonkers in someone? Well, you know it's love when those quirks/idiosyncracies become less annoying over time and soon some of them even become charming traits. That's love.:)
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Here is what love is to me...you know how certain quirks or idiosyncracies drive you bonkers in someone? Well, you know it's love when those quirks/idiosyncracies become less annoying over time and soon some of them even become charming traits. That's love.:)
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It seems to me that you know the difference between love and like already, just a bit of information some people say they love the other person just so they wont hurt their feelings by telling them the truth. I say go with your instinct that’s why we have them. No one can tell you what love is to you only you can do that.
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It's when you can't see your self without them. When all you do is think about them and want to see them. And when you do see them all you want to do is spend time with that person and make love to them and do whatever it is that makes you both happy. Whether it happens or not when you feel this way you truely love another person.
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You just know. You can't stop thinking about them, when they walk into a room, your mood lightens and you can't stop yourself from smiling, you feel a bit wiggly in the stomach, you want to touch them all the time, even just on the arm, or hand because any thing you touch is a part of them, you love looking at their skin and every tiny detail just because it's them... in short, your slightly obsessed with them. This is called lust or infatuation - and in most cases it is just that and not love. But if you have a relationship with them, (they reciprocate the feelings and you see each other a lot and have a steady proper realtionship) and all of the above feelings are still strong within you, then it will be love. If those feelings are not constant over a fair period of time with eachother, then I'd say you're just infatuated with them... if you get all you want out of the relationship though, and STILL feel all that, then it' definately love. That's just my idea, it's different for everyone, but there you go = ) happy lovin' xx
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You Cant Stop Thinking About Them But The Worst Thing Is Sometimes You Think It Won't Work. You Get Buterflies In Ur Stomack When Your Around Them And You Never Want To Leave Them Alone. Ryan age = 12 Computer Agency
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you dont stop staring
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Well from my experience... [I'm only 15 though] Its like you care about them more than you care about yourself. You would do crazy things if it means making them happy. When they are upset, you want to change whatever is that is hurting them. They are always on your mind. You miss them before they leave. When you're doing something, you wish they were right there with you. Even if you havent spoke to them in days, feelings havent change. That feeling you get in your stomach when they're around. Things like that =)
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When you think about him/her all the time. And all you want to do is be with them. Or when you read thier txt/e-mails over and over again! or keep looking at when they last called. Or if you go over in your mind what you guys said in person or over the phone. But other people have different was of telling if they are in Luv! Find out for yourself!
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Trust me you'll know if you're in love! LOL Good luck!
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Before I read a lot of the questions and answers on this site I would have answered simply, "You just know". However, now that I've read all about people that love two or three people at the same time, or have been in love half a dozen times, or want to sleep with two and three people simultaneously I can only conclude that it's impossible to know because the word has become too devalued.
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If you're a male, it's matter of simple math: 1) count up the number of times in a day you think of the other person (not "of" in the sense of "about", but in the sense of thinking of her interests and what she wants/needs.). 2) count up the number of times you think of yourself. 3) subtract the later from the former. 4) if the result is a positive number, you're in love. If you're female, it's even more simple: if you're actually asking the question of yourself, you're not in love ... though you *are* probably a late-stage adolescent with silly school-girl ideas and expectations about what real love is and what it feels like. Ultimately, love is not a feeling. It's a choice. Moreover, it's a decision... and an irrevocable one.
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At the risk of being corny and unhelpful...you just know. It's not something that you can really put into words, if you love someone you know it. If you wonder, then you probably don't, or at least not yet :)
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That'd have to be one good question. I still wonder that myself about my husband whom I have been with for about 13 years now. Is it love or is it an old habit? Does your mind feel like it won't be whole without the one you might think it's love about? If you are with them a lot do you still watch them with wonder and yet familiarity? Is it important that the one you feel you might love, be happy? Even when they do something that just might irritate the living f**k out of you, do you still feel like you can forgive? I know there's so much more...and it still doesn't begin to explain anything... but I hope this helps.
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When you've been with them a long time, and, you realize that you want to be with them for a long time to come.
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She consumes every part of my life...I would do anything to see her happy...even if it meant not being a part of her life...
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Well, I think that when you see him or someone is talking about him; your heart starts to beat fast in a way that you can feel your heart beat... Which mean that you Love him and you care about him. and you wish to be with him for your whole life... :)
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I believe it's when one feels the other person accepts them unconditionally . . .your best friend plus body heat! Someone who you can share the glories of your victories and the agony of your defeats and know they'll never beat you down with that info in the heat of a disagreement. They don't hurt you with mean things they say. I actually feel lots of people are addicted rather than in love. Tell me to shudup!
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I always get this feeling that everything is going well. It's like a warm and fuzzy feeling that stays with me 24/7. It's like being in a state of total contentment. You carry that person's face around in your head all the time and that makes you feel that life is very meaningful.
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I think a clue would be if all of your plans for the future include this person and that you cannot imagine your future without him/her.
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When you start writing bad checks.
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When sit down and get that warm kinkyy feeling inside that makes you smile for no apparent reason and you think of your partner.When you rest your head on that person feeling saved and loved
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you just feel it. it clicks in your haert.
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If you have to ask the question, you know you are not in love.
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When you feel like you could do anything in front of them and know they would accept you, no matter what. And you feel the same way about them.
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When you feel like you love someone, you just can't stop thinking about them.
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When you want to spend the rest of your life with them.
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Because your heart flies out of your chest at the mention of their name or the sight of them.
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You lose your common sense. ;)
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When you want to spend every waking moment with them think about them constantly and you get that butterfly feeling every time they walk in the room.
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You think about them all the time...You can't wait to hear from them...Your life feels complete...
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If you can't stop thinking of that person. If you long to be with them and miss them when you're apart, If you can't picture your life without them in it, If you can put their needs before your own needs without any hseitation, if you take their feelings into consideration and consult with them whenever a major decision has to be made that will affect both of you, If you can sucessfully turn down an opportunity to be with someone else who may be better than them, chances are you are inlove with that person.
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No dull moments with him.
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When you can't eat or sleep and you want to dance all the time.
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If that`s the person you`re thinking about while writing this question. And, if you don`t need to ask this question anymore. :)
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You can see it in their eyes and feel it in their touch. Are they running through your head as you wrote this question? :)
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You don't. There is no standard measure to determine an answer to your question. "In love" is girl talk for certain tingly feelings. It's like what your dog feels when you rub his tummy and he kicks his leg. Is it "love"? Who knows? Who cares? Everybody is happy. Try this experiment: Get rid of the word "love" from your vocabulary. That single word causes more trouble and wrecks more relationships than it's worth. Either you're happy together or you're not.
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its not really something that can be explained...only because there are so many things that feel like love. Lust being an exmple, it can actually feel just like it. You want to be with the person as much as possable, when you see their name on caller i.d your so excited you almost forget to pick up, you want to tell them how much you "love" them every chance you can, and if they say they feel the same you feel like your heart is melting, every word they say is so important you hang on it, you are willing to do anything to make them feel better about something, you actually want to do stuff for them like get them a drink or make them food, when your with them you can't help but smile... all these things can eaither mean love or an innocent case of the lust monsters *lol* but....you'll know when you know...you know?
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When you make a child together and you think and feel in your heart it is the single greatest decision in your life. That is love.
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Mr_Natural couldn't have said it any better. Actual Love is something that grows over time I was told, and it makes sense. I think real love is those old couples you see that have been married for decades. Thats Love lol. I dont believe in love at first sight honestly. Thats lust. You have to know someone to love them.
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If you have to ask....you're not.
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I'll explain the closest thing to love that I'VE ever felt and you can compare. When he would speak I would tune everyone else out so that his voice would stand alone in my mind. Each of his characteristics were perfect. The way he would over pronounce some of his words like "McDonalds" into "Mac-Donalds" was so adorable I would unconsciously mimic it, along with some of his facial expressions. There was nothing better in my life then when I would go and see him, talk to him, and be with him. When I was away from him even for just a day I would feel so hurt because my heart just couldn't bare to part him for another day. He was my life.
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You stop asking yourself that question.
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You know its love when even when you start to question yourself about it you find yourself looking for extra ways to see them, pulling out pictures, listening to "your song", things like that. and you know it when even when they do something that wouldve embarrassed you if it was anyone else, doesnt embarrass you. or whenever theyre around, you cant help but smile even if you were angry or sad just before that. you cant stand to be away from them, you zone out when theyre not there, and when every decision you make involves them in SOME way. you appreciate little things they do, and you wonder if youre doing enough to satisfy them. you appreciate all of their flaws, and you love every single last thing about them, and you notice little things they do that others wouldnt notice. like if their face twitches, or if they talk from the side of their mouth, or certain fidgets and such. these things will be adorable to you.
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To feel that you love some one requires you to have see that person and his/her character / activities for a while. When you start liking him/her for what he/she is good in and continue to like him/her in spite of knowing something about that person that you don't like generally from your perspective, then it means that you are in love with him/her. As otherwise would be just crush or infatuation. Love is the only game where both the players win!. Good luck.
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My heart will say all to me!Amazing 'sixth sense' will guide you!!
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When you call the person all the time & you feel touched sentimental about the persons clumsiness.
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when you can't stop thinking of that some one, and you wanna call him all the time even though you jst hung up on him...
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well the clock strikes 12!!!
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I'd like to know. But no one replied when i asked :-(
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weight loss insomnia .... bit like flu
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When they are the first thing on your mind in the morning and the last thing you think of before you close your eyes...and thoughts of them pretty much occupy the rest of your day.
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Hell, I just checked out Disko Fari's profile and WOW!, I think I am!
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you just do....
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When you stop looking.
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you cant help it but think about him evry single second.. evry love song remindes you of him.. you put him befor you own needs.. you just care 4 him alot ..
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You can't stop thinking about them. You are sad when you aren't near them. Or when you feel that things between you have changed into a deeper level.
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Your body fills with an overwhelming amount of emotion, there is not a single person out there that you want more, and he/she is the only person that is on your mind for quite some time.
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When you don't like the idea of staying / living away from him even for a minute/second :)
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If you have to ask, you're not in love.
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signs: -your heart beats faster when you see them -your hands starts sweating/gets clammy -you stutter when you talk to them -you think/dream about them all the time (including daydreaming.) -you talk about this person -you wish that they belong to you. i had all this happen to me so i know what it's like.
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You just do. I'm sorry, I can't think of a better answer. You just do.
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When you look in their eyes and you feel whole, and warm and fuzzy inside...and you can't see yourself with anyone else but them.
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Because you want their happiness even to your own detriment. and it doesn't matter what they do. When both people feel that way it's excellent...when only one does... it sucks out loud!
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Woody stands up !! :) Opps sorry I misread your question. LOL :)
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They always end up hurting you.:(
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i think if ur in love u wont question it
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The same way that you know when you don't.
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You just know. That sounds too simple but it is true.
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Would you sacrifice yourself for them?
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you don't.
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When their welfare and happiness mean more to you than your own.
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when you don't even feel the need to have sex with them? hahah who am i kidding
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When just being together for the long haul regardless of what is going on around you...you would sacrifice your life readily and easily for their protection...when her (or his) welfare is the most important thing in your life...when sex is important but secondary to all other things...when you know God has spoken to you both this is in His will. Someone very special means this to me and even more so...I hope she sees this answer
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When you wake in the mornin and that person is the first thing you think of.. The last thing you think of b4 you fall asleep.. When you dont hear off them you feel empty and when you hear there voice your heart races.. when they touch you it feels like you got butterflies..
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You miss them all the time, can't wait to be around them, want to do everything for them.
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