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Jackstain
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Because some behavioir which is okay when single is not okay when married. But it's not just husband's who have these problems, but wives too. I think in my marriage, both me AND my husband needed to learn how to handle things differently. We love each other, and we were ready to commit. But some of our habits were not good for a "team" For example, he still struggles with telling me plans. Like major plans. He can go out, and buy something worth $200 and NOT discuss it with me. That is not something a husband OR wife should do: as a couple, we plan together. EDIT: Futhermore, when one spouse complains.."They want to change me! They cant accept me for who I am!" They did accept you, and still do. But to keep a marriage running smoothly the spouse needs to make COMPROMISES. If they dont want to change at least some of their life, marriage is NOT for them at that time.
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The same reason why men wish the woman they dated would never change. Because they want what they want. I always tell a women love the man the way he is because that is the way he will stay. Don't get me wrong as we age we do change but generally speaking our personality remains with us throughout our life.
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