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If you love the guy and you intend to stay with him you have to make a choice. If you family cannot accept your choice just stay away. If your Dad has already been inside for Murder he is on Licence which means any threats or bad behaviour and he is back for the rest of his sentence.
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Are you a minor? Do you live with your family? If not, then simply stay away from them if they cannot accept your new love. If you are a minor, though, then you are in a bit of a pickle, as staying away from your family is not really a choice you can make.
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Well, what does "really like" mean? Have you just known him causally or do you have an ongoing serious relationship? . How do you feel about your family? How important are they to you? . Looking in the longer term, if like blossoms into love, are they ever going to learn to accept it or are you going to have to choose one or the other? Do you think that you would be willing to give up your family for your love? . It seems to me that you could likely manage meeting with him now in secret, but if your family will never accept him or you are not willing to cut ties with your family, wouldn't you just be setting yourselves up for hurt later when you have to break it off. . I think it must be very hard to have to deal with such issues before your relationship has even started. . Good luck!
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Do him a favor... ...leave him alone. Your "really liking" him could get him killed.
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When I see a question like this, where the asker has responded to all the answers and is seemingly too dependent onthe advice of complete strangers, I have a quick peek at their profile to see what else can be gleaned - if they seem genuine I will give it a real go at helping them. If not, I tend not to waste my time and energy on them. What a tough few months you have had - with your grandmother dying, your boyfriend announcing that he was married and all that on top of having a child taken away at 15 and hating your mother ever since. Not to mention the beatings, rape, torture and general abuse you claim to have suffered as a child....gosh, I wonder how you cope with the real world!
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If you REALLY love him you will know what to do.
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