ANSWERS: 6
  • Nothing, as I'm not worthy.
  • I'll start with an over-view of who I am and the significance of this question to me personally before I get on to my answer. I am going to be 34 years old in December. When I was 4 years old I used to have dreams of a very old man, race indeterminate, who would escort me around through my dreams, explaining things to me. I was once shown a sequence where a man, looking like an older version of myself was laying on a couch with a red haired woman, reading a newspaper using an ink pen. The two look up and a couple of children enter the room: a boy and a girl, though the girl seems older. The kids race to the couch and lean over the back and there's a group hug. The sound cuts in for a moment and it sounds like the man calls the woman Rachel. I have spent my life wondering if this Rachel is real. For the first 17 years of my life, I refused to get involved with any girl at all, since I already knew who and what my dream girl looked like. Eventually I let go of the hope and dream of finding this woman from a dream as a child. In ways this has let me have happiness though it has also led to the fights and aggravation that come with relationships in an unstable world. Is the mate of your dreams a real person or merely an ideal that you cling to and unfairly judge the rest of the world by?
  • Absolutely nothing. I learned a hard lesson long ago to avoid all social encounters. +1
  • I would say nothing, as my dream man exists only in my imagination. I can't tell by a simple sighting, what this person is like. He could be drop dead handsome physically, but as soon as he speaks, his attractiveness could fade.
  • I don't know... I don't know if I even really have one..
  • I'd let her walk on by.

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