ANSWERS: 5
  • I thought you are trying to divorce him. The idea is to be in different places. Let him go. Move on. Or is it the MONEY you're worried about?
  • does he have credit cards, on-star in his vehicle. You are legally married you should have some legal rights on tracking him down. Maybe count your blessings!
  • It's often about the money. If you can separate yourself fom that issue, it will be possible for you to end up a free woman, and to find a new life for yourself. If you are intent upon destroying him then you will end up a bitter woman. Do you know what bitterness will do to your life? ...If there are children involved, you need to let us know how they fit into your situation. You don't mention any, so I assume there are none. If my assumption is correct, then let him go. Forget him. Make your life anew. And stop obsessing about him. Be free and new.
  • Your position is difficult. For reasons that are impossible to know he doesn't want to pay or he can't pay. His reasons don't matter. You are eating your heart out and it is possible that you will (or have) become obsessed with squeezing money from him. I know you probably need it. The money would make your life more comfortable. But, in the end, the process will cost you more money and heartache than it's worth. Let him go. In your heart try to forgive him. Then forget him. Move on to a new life free of him and all the dirty, poisonous baggage of that old relationship. Concentrate on your son and yourself. Take a deep breath and fly into a new life. You can do it.
  • http://www.usa-people-search.com/ is free (i just did myself, and was shocked!) http://www.ussearch.com is the one used by Sally Jesse Rapheal and Oprah. No results, no charge.

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