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by Anonymous on October 23rd, 2009

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Should i let my boyfriend go out? hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months now. and im just wondering he asked today if he can go out tomorrow night to play poker with his co workers. i work tomorrow night so i cant go. should i let him go?

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  • by Grant aka Guybrush Threepwood on October 23rd, 2009

    Grant aka Guybrush Threepwood

    depends.
    do you wanna be a good girlfriend & let him live his own life?
    or do you wanna be a controlling bitch with a mommy complex that tries to decide everything for him & eventually run him off?

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  • by Gideon on November 16th, 2009

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    If you're even asking a question like this, you're not mature enough for a relationship. You hold no dominion over your boyfriend, nor he you.

    You are two separate people with two different lives who've come together to share each other. If he has no life outside your relationship, he's not a whole person. If you are so jealous as to not let him enjoy his life, you are not a whole person. You should encourage him to go out with friends and enjoy life.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on November 16th, 2009

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    "Let him"? You are not his parent. He can do whatever he wants, so long as it's legal. Even if it isn't, he can still do what he wants. In that case, though, he should be aware of the consequences.

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  • by Ms.Fits on December 3rd, 2009

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    wow.. yes he should go out and have man time and have fun with friends

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  • by downtide on November 16th, 2009

    downtide

    Yes of course. He asked first, which is great. Show him that you love and trust him. Maybe one day there'll be something you want to go out for by yourself, and he'll be much more willing to let you go too.

    Relationships where the partnes try to control each other, and making demands about who they're allowed to see and where they're allowed to go - those relationships are doomed to fail.

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  • by Anonymous on January 27th, 2011

    Anonymous

    Be a controlling bitch you put your foot down and they will take the whole leg.When you see he will have a bitch in your place.Who is going to run? He don't like it then he need to stay single.

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  • by ROXiE on October 23rd, 2009

    ROXiE

    You should let him, I mean you need to have trust in the relationship, unless there's something your are suspecting?

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  • by Aries RSA on November 16th, 2009

    Aries RSA

    Let him? Girl, the fact that he had the decency to ask should tell you a lot about him. You can't babysit him 24/7.

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  • by spice8581 on January 5th, 2010

    spice8581

    dear, this man is not your child and nor do you have any rights to him because he's not your husband. if he decides he wants to be with someone else he can, because there is no ring saying otherwise. grow up and stop trying to be his mother. now, if you want a ring so you can have those rights, stop being controlling. i say this with no disrespect intended. you can not claim anything that isn't yours. commitment is when he marry you until then stop.

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