everyones nervous when they get married silly

wedding jitters are common, you are adding a new chapter into your life..change can be scary:) if you are truly happy it will pass :)...congrats by the way ;)wish you a happy life.

Yes, nearly everyone feels the same! I was scared poo-less!

Good, If you didnt feel nervous, something would be wrong. your about to link with someone you really like for the rest of your life if everything goes well. It should be a good nervous, but still should be there.

It depends on what you are nervous about.

Nervous is exactly the way to feel. To enter into a marriage lightly is the first step to a divorce.

Depends on who you're marrying...

I think that being excited and nervous is to be expected even if it's a terrific and happy match. It's such a big important life altering step :-) I was nervous for mine, so was my husband but we think it's the best thing we ever did together, 36 years ago

Let me preface this answer with a warning. It's just an opinion and my only goal is to try and help you self analyze your decision. . It is perfectly normal for someone to be nervous about getting married. In fact, I'm sure almost everyone is when they get married. However, when first marriages fail as often as they do, it's important to understand that you will not always be able to change the things you may not necessarily like about your s/o. It's easy to make the commitment, not so much when you realize you have to deal with that person for the rest of your or your s/o's life. A lot of problems arise from those situations ocassionaly putting children smack in the middle whether it was intended or not. . Throught your life with this person, finances will always be a topic. Obviously, you won't be able to survive or take care of children without money. Can you imagine still loving this person just as much if something terrible were to happen and you both lost your jobs and had no savings left? If you can put your s/o up higher on your list of priorities than money, then you are definitely in the right direction. . The other important thing to remember is everybody's human. Humans are ever evolving, mentally, which means they are guaranteed to make mistakes. Being too sure of anything is a recipe for disaster. If you and your s/o can evolve with each other to shed past misperceptions and continue to learn AND accept each other while it's occuring, then you have someone that is worthy of putting it onto paper that you are married. . Other than that, it's really only tradition that pushes us to get married, as well as the tax "benefits." If you can care about another person enough to love, be loyal, respectful, and happy, then does it matter if the U.S. gov't says it's official or not? I don't think so. I think you should look at yourselves as your own personal society where everything you do will affect the other person and NEVER, NEVER let materiality or established frames of mind get in the way. That's when the divisiveness begins which will lead to you to reexamine your decision in the first place of whether or not to get maried. . Hope this helps. Good luck to you and congratulations. +3