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I love it !
I will try to answer this question as best I can from a males viewpoint. Males are extremely aroused by women! And have been for eons. We love everything about women! From the sound of they're voice, to the flow of they're hair, they're suculant breasts and curvacious hips and small waist, (which whispers fertility). They're long lengthy legs that tease what ly within.The very way in which a woman carrys herself gives rise to reproductive instincts.
Women are glorified in every nation as sexual objects by men, not to take away they're humanity or God given rights, but only to speak a true point. Women really are sexual objects in a positive way. If women didn't look the way they do, our species would die off. Nature selected the way a woman looks and it has worked out perfectly for human continuity. "Women truly make the world go round"... In the words of Hugh Hefner anyway. Men are slaves to a womans sexual and seductive power. Most women don't even realize they possess such power. I myself am subject to such slavery.
To the point of why do men like fucking a woman in the ass is a wonderful question. Men and various mamals are attracted to a females rear. Many species including our own are seduced by such body parts. A man unconciously makes seveal sexual oberservations about a target woman. For example the way she carrys herself and portays her readyness for sex. A man keenly makes note of these cues and makes his move. A long story short, once engaging in sex, a man is greatly turned on by feeling dominant and loves feeling in control. We love nothing more than a beautiful girl submitting to every sexual desire of a man. You see anal sex is something most men never receive with out coersion or a fight. When a woman gives up her beautiful ass to a man willfully to please him, she gives up her sexual rights to the man and gives everything over for his pleasure. It is a great sacrifice on the womans part. Men are turned on even more by this submission and feel strong and powerful.... dominant! They feel in control and the cromagnon beast is unleashed. But who is really empowered? who is dominant? Who really has control? The illusion of power is a temporary gift given to men by a good woman. You see, when a woman gives up her ass, she is really glorifying and empowering herself. Men know anal sex is a no no or something only to be in adult films by privilaged few. Privilage, yes that is a good word to describe anal sex. Like I said before, men are slaves to the beauty of a woman. Some women know the seductive power of they're asses and use it to their advantage tit for tat if you will. Or they do it out of love or to be kinky.
Now the question: Do women like being fucked in the ass?
From my knowledge, most women do not like anal sex, for several reasons, it is unclean, girls are taught that the anus is dirty at a young age and should avoid the area and wash after touching, or they simply hate the pain that anal sex brings. Some women fear being dirty/unclean and emabarrassed during the act. There are women however that crave and love anal sex. I have read that some women love it as much as vaginal sex. I find this hard to believe, but I think it is more of a psychological pleasure than physical, I may be partially wrong?? However, SOME WOMEN love the idea of being dominated and love giving up what is most sacred and untouched... They're ass!! They love being treated as a sexual object and love the fact of releasing they're sexual power giving it to the man. Some simply enjoy the feeling of they're asses being filled but not fucked while they masterbate. I have read that virtually all women love double penetration and have orgasms unlike any other. And most women when comftorble love anal stimulation but not penetration.
So is anal sex so bad?? It doesn't have to be. Like I mentioned it is a psychosexual game/gift. I have read that some men enjoy receiving anal sex as well, probably for the same reasons, but reversed. I myself am not comftorble with such a thing, but couples need to fulfill each others sexual desires and fantasies. Men are extremely sexual and most men that do cheat on their spouses strictly do so for sexual reasons, not for intimacy reasons. A sexually satisfied man does not cheat or even think of cheating or look at other women! It is just a fact. Most men love bragging at how amazing their woman is in bed and the naughty things she does. My advice to women is be sexual and enjoy the power you have, play with it and enjoy the change in your man when you go that extra sexual mile and give him something he only fantasises about. You will feel proud of yourself and have more confidence in yourself when you do. You will feel powerful and happy that you can be a walking dream come true. Men, tend to your womans emotional needs, spoil her, make her feel like a real woman, shower her with verbal praise. Tell her your heart everday and work out, be fit, romantic and clean the house, yes clean. Being married, it makes a world of differece for my wife! and I am rewarded for it. I also recommend the book called the "love dare", yes it has christian emphasis in it, but the daily challenge and tasks are the same and good for building a solid marriage or relationship.
So my opinion, I love anal sex and love the female ass. I love being crazy sexual and meeting my womans needs. I love the power she gives me to penetrate her ass and I love the smile she gives knowing she is pleasing me beyond measure. When I am satisfied, all I want to do is make her feel amazing. It should go both ways. I work harder happier and take serious thought to what she needs when I am sexually fulfilled. Have fun in your sexual lives everyone and know that anal sex can be amazing for both partners if you surrender and connect to one another on a higher sexual plane.
I love it, guys prefer it because its tighter than up the front.
because it is something painful and it tells you that you can how much the girl loves you. every one fucks the pussy. your liking for the girl is shown by you fucking her in the ass too and her allowing it makes it all the more pleasurable.
Simple because it feels so fucking good and it is such a turn on for your wife/GF to give you something so personal. My ex would ask when the sex got hot and she came a few times, she asked me to fuck her ass. I would and she would sometime cry because it hurt, she wouldn't let me use no lube and she wanted it to hurt because when I fucked her ass and she would cry I loved it. I love giving her pain and when I came it would be so intense I almost couldn't handle it. Damm I miss thoses days.
Guys who are interested in anal sex with women are probably turned on by the taboo nature of anal sex.
Some people (not only women) like anal sex because it feels good when done right. The area in and around the anus has as many nerve endings as in and around the genitals of either gender.
Hard to explain from the guy's viewpoint...:) ++
Ok i will give you a psychiatrists point of view, from personal experience. I kept having these dreams about my wife in certain scenarios and one involved anal sex. I asked my wife if she wanted to try it, and i got the proverbial n.... o... Then i became obsessive about it to the point that even when i looked at her I was turned on . I thought i was going insane and to a certain degree i was. but there was something missing and that was sex period, she was very stand offish and skittish about sex. She would throw off any advances i would make towards her in bed , and she even brought her mother to live with us and then it was s straight no " my mother might hear us".
So it got so bad that i literally needed help, so i sought out the help of a psychiatrist who enlightened me . As explained by an earlier post men are very visual when it comes to sex we like to see everything literally, the whole thing sexually ...... girls if you want to make your man explode and give you great loving turn on the lights when you have sex, and i'd be willing to bet there are women who are just as visual but men are more so . anyway . The doctor first asked me how my sex life was and i explained and he asked me if i had been having weird fantasies / dreams. and i then explained how i couldn't help my7 obsession with my wife's ass and that my wife had called me "sick" for even thinking about her butt that way. his explanation went as follows.
If your wife had been pleasing you all the time you may not have encountered this situation, her reluctance to fulfill your sexual desires and call you sick is indeed irrational.
All that area down there when seen leads a man to believe that a sexual encounter just might take place , but in this case sex had become the forbidden fruit , and that was any kind of sex. Your wife is executing control by not meeting your sexual desires. And if she doesn't fulfill those desires one of three things are going to happen . you will either: kill yourself, kill her, or leave her and divorce her. He then went on to explain that a mans desire is to "penetrate a woman" sexually, and a woman is always trying to get well Penetrated by a man. And that is sex ion its basic form without all the other factors involved , such as preferences, foreplay, childbearing , but he also stated that what takes place in your bed as mature adults, consenting adults is between you and your partner, and if you are willing to fulfill her fantasies , well then she should be willing to at least try to fulfill yours. then he prescribed me some anti depressants because he knew that she was up to no good.
One of his predictions came true and i left her and got divorced. Met woman who fulfilled all of my fantasies and weird stuff. for her it was a lot of fun doing what ever it took to turn me on , and i in turn did what ever she wanted that would turn her on . I never felt like i had to seek out another partner , and my respect for this woman did not end it became greater, and our relationship stronger , my love for her the ultimate .
Anal sex can be fun when done compassionately and lovingly, and it can be an amazing sensation for both partners , willing partners and clean partners . in other words make sure you have a clean bottom other wise you may be in for some unpleasant things to take place . Thats my take on anal sex
well i wouldnt no how 2 explain it because i have never had sex
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Have you always like it or is it something that grew on you? I am looking for any advice that would get my wife interested anal sex.
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