I caught my fiance on dating lines he denied it 2nd time sayin he'd set trap for me as he thought i was snooping on him. i pretend to believe him i gave him a chance to go or stay he wants to stay & marry what should i do? how do i trust again?
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Tuttie
ANSWERS: 8
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I know this one. I went through the SAME situation. SAME SAME SAME...dont marry him. He will cheat on you every chance he gets, no matter waht you do, how much you love him or how much kinky sex you give him. He will always blame his cheating on you. THEN, he will withhold sex from you becasue he is exhauted from getting it somewhere else. I just married this man 4 months ago...trust me...I know what you are going through and I know what is in store for lucky you. OH, and he will also tell you that he cheats becasue YOU dont make yourself as hot as them....(no matter how hot you are)
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Trust again? You didn't trust him in the first place. Someone did you wrong and he has to pay for it for the rest of his life if he marries you. You need to work through that problem on your own before subjecting him to a lifetime of misery if you love him at all.
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There's way too much pretending going on between you two. This is not a good basis for marriage.
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Jiminy Cricket!! This is a nasty situation. First off, I know you love him. That doesn't mean jack, dear. I hope you aren't one of those people who thinks love will conquer all, because it sure as hell doesn't. Your relationship is proof of that. Just get out, will ya? Please? This isn't going to end. The trust is broken, and he shows no indication he is willing to do anything but lie. You will run yourself ragged, looking (maybe even snooping, which is a HUGE no-no) for evidence he is cheating. Why bother? You deserve better, even if your self-esteem dictates otherwise. +5
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The question should be why do you want force yourself to trust him again when he's obviously not worth the trust? What lead you to look on the dating sites in the first place? Obviously neither of you are ready for marriage based on the information here..
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***ring ring*** ***ring ring*** ... Hello ... Oh hi, Reality ... yeah, just a second ... Tutti, it's for you
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Well, he is insecure if he is out here doing this. Go to counseling before you marry and get to the root of the problem. You need to sit down with him and lay down some rules. If he can't follow them, dump his ass!
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I want you to sit back and re-read the question you posted. Then I want you to answer a question for ME: WHY do so many people even CONSIDER marriage with anyone they are having trust issues with, regardless of whether they are founded or not? 1. You caught your fiance on dating lines. And THEN he DENIED it. 2. He CLAIMS he was on the dating line to set a trap for you because he THOUGHT you were snooping on him. 3. You PRETEND to believe him. 4. You want to know HOW you can TRUST him again. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE? According to what you wrote, NEITHER of you trusts the other. And he MAY be lying. Again, re-read what you posted.
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