by -Icy- on October 4th, 2009

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Can you name some examples when being a positive person is not always a good thing?

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  • by philosopher on October 4th, 2009

    philosopher

    When your surrounded by all negative people who dislike you for being a positive person.

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  • by sjane23 on October 4th, 2009

    sjane23

    where death is concerned, i made that mistake and said to my mum "well at least she doesn't have to fight anymore" the woman died of cancer.

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  • by goodbyebag on October 4th, 2009

    goodbyebag

    when someone dies.

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  • by Ray Del Sol on October 5th, 2009

    Ray Del Sol

    when your positivity has departed from the land of reality and landed in the land of denial

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  • by Bohemian is back on October 5th, 2009

    Bohemian is back

    When you misjudge your abilities or those of your children. I saw a mother praise her teenage son to the hilt for his artwork which was so aweful a child could have done better. The more she praised him, the more he was made a fool of. Not long afterwards she kicked him out of the house. He had a complete nervous breakdown and ended up in a padded cell not being able to speak at all. I am not saying that it was entirely the mother's fault but she made a large contribution to it.

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  • by 1858 Remington 1-21-13 on October 4th, 2009

    1858 Remington  1-21-13

    Being positive that Bozo Obama will be a good president. He's not.

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  • by twinkle123 on October 4th, 2009

    twinkle123

    Sometimes a really positive person may not realise the seriousness of a situation, like how ill someone is or how bad someone may be feeling about something.

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  • by kickit on October 4th, 2009

    kickit

    1.When your a 1 legged man @ azz kickin convention and thinking your gonna win..

    2.Sitting here waiting on you to come pick me up for dinner, knowing we are miles apart but being positive you'll pull up any minute..

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  • by uncacal on October 4th, 2009

    uncacal

    When you are being tested for illegal drugs or deadly diseases.

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  • by Old School on October 4th, 2009

    Old School

    Just look at the previous presidential administration...:-P...

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  • by Sir yhvhash on October 5th, 2009

    Sir yhvhash

    I cannot think of a time when being positive is wrong or destructive - only times when it is unwelcome. Just ask Jesus.

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  • by dumdum on October 5th, 2009

    dumdum

    My wife is the nicest most pleasent, positive, untrustworthy, irresponsible person I know - and that's not good for me although she seems to enjoy it. +5

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  • by Lucky on October 5th, 2009

    Lucky

    When you are around a total negative person, this is not good. Opposites attract!

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  • by RosieGHM Jetpacker on October 5th, 2009

    RosieGHM Jetpacker

    I can't think of one example offhand. Positive/hopeful/optimistic works for me in every situation. I look for the silver lining, I don't settle for the dark clouds. I learn from everything, even those things that others might perceive as totally negative. All it takes is an attitude adjustment. :)

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  • by Merriment on October 4th, 2009

    Merriment

    When it's not genuine.

    Being surface positive while struggling with harsher feelings can lead to suppressed anger.

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    When you feel badly and beat yourself up because you just can't work up a "positive" spin on a situation that really is *that* bad.

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  • by manza on October 4th, 2009

    manza

    positive for drug test or for AIDS heheh.. sorry kidding

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  • by Symbeline on October 4th, 2009

    Symbeline

    When positivism is used to deny harsh reality, in order to make oneself better. That shouldn't happen, as its strong conviction engenders ignorance, and as such, the ills and woes of humanity are allowed free passage, since they're not acknowledged, having been exchanged by Jesus, and contests to see who can fart out the most sunshine.

    I may be a pessimist, but I personally rather call it realism. Hope for the best, but prepare for the best yo.

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  • by lonelydragon on October 4th, 2009

    lonelydragon

    Sometimes, overly optimistic people seem unsympathetic because they give pat answers to others' problems. While the optimist may be trying to help, it might seem as if he/she is just making light of the situation. So it is often better to say, "I am sorry you feel that way" or "I can understand why you might feel _____", rather than trying to find the good in the situation. Does that make sense?

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  • by words o wisdom on October 4th, 2009

    words o wisdom

    When the guy goes soft... I learned from experience not to say it's not a big deal. HAHA oops. We'll just have to try again goes down much smoother.

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  • by Sage Chexie at your service on October 4th, 2009

    Sage Chexie at your service

    When empathy and the ability to relate is more useful.

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  • by More2Be on October 4th, 2009

    More2Be

    I work in a business that often requires problem-solving. This problem solving, in turn, requires dogged persistence long past the point where most people would simply quit. Those most suitable to do the job are not the boy scout or little-miss-sunshine types. In history, think of Lincoln and Churchill. Both were known to carry depression. Churchill called it his black dog. It took the character of people who have everyday familiarity with pushing past hopeless negativity to pull off what they did, thorough the worst of times, long before there appeared any glimmer of hope.

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on October 4th, 2009

    Sheriff Raff  -Answerhag

    If you are HIV positive.

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  • by Shemarq the Wamama on October 4th, 2009

    Shemarq the Wamama

    When you have convinced yourself of something that is not reality.

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  • by Moley the contrary female dragon on October 4th, 2009

    Moley the contrary female dragon

    If it means you dont accept the reality of a serious situation.You just convince yourself there is really no reason to do anything.+5

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  • by calicorey on October 4th, 2009

    calicorey

    Driving off a bridge and them saying "the good news is there is only water below".

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  • by plocrates on October 4th, 2009

    plocrates

    you can look arrogant, no one likes tat and you definitely wont get the job!!!!

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  • by Sunny_Gal on October 4th, 2009

    Sunny_Gal

    Positve anything is better than negative nothing+6
    A person may give a pradoxical creature: A person sometime give postive answer in a decided negative

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  • by dancer on October 4th, 2009

    dancer

    Being in denial. +5

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  • by kidatheartandsoul on October 4th, 2009

    kidatheartandsoul

    Complainers hate that.There they are on a pity pot,and you don't buy the drama!

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