by katiegirl on March 20th, 2007

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Why is it that I push guys away, they never open up to me because I can´t open us to them it´s like a have this barrier that´s too high so they never open up .

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  • by Anonymous on March 25th, 2007

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    Letting people in is difficult. Especially if someone we trusted and opened ourselves up to hurt us badly. It's easier to push people away and say "see I told you I was unapproachable and unlovable". Or "If I love or care for you I might lose you too" The barrier is high because we need it to be. It protects us from being hurt, but it also keeps us from the love and healing that we need. When your ready, the barrier will come down enough to let someone in.

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